481: Healing Codependency In Relationships

Codependency can feel difficult to navigate whether it's you or your partner displaying codependent behaviors. Listen to today's show for valuable tips and insights into dealing with the difficult emotions codependency can cause and start learning how to heal today! In this episode with Dr. Nicholas Jenner we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Traits of codependency and the different types of codependents Why people may develop codependency How to begin healing your codependency or support a codependent partner Working toward personal autonomy in a relationship while still feeling safe How to examine your childhood to heal and grow through codependency The importance of setting boundaries in a codependent relationship And much more! Sponsored BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO. FIELD OF GREENS is a whole, organic fruit and vegetable supplement that provides real nutrition to support energy, sleep, and overall health. Go to FieldsOfGreen.com and use promo code "IDO" to get 15% off your first order and FREE rush shipping. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Love is a verb and so is intimacy. It takes practice and dedication to have a thriving, intimate relationship. Listen to today's show to learn actionable tips to grow a deep connection in your relationship today! In this episode with Dr. Joy Berkheimer we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Dealing with perfectionist blocks to intimacy How to access your full pleasure Communication tips for a thriving sex life and relationship What to do if you're not feeling desired in your relationship Normalizing sexual behaviors And much more! Sponsored Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

There are many factors that influence how we think, act and feel about sexuality. Understanding these factors can help us improve our relationships with our own sexuality and those we are intimate with. Listen to today's show for valuable insights and actionable tips! In this episode with Danielle Savory we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Understanding what is going on in your brain around sexuality Deconstructing the 'should' of sex and other cultural misinformation How to communicate and deal with if you or your partner are "too tired to have sex" Why you should start planning and scheduling sex with your partner How to be OK with disappointing your partner or others Standing up for yourself if you're a people pleaser And much more! Sponsored Quince is committed to making exceptionally high-quality essentials available at a price within reach. Because everyone deserves to fill their life with the finer things. Go to QUINCE.COM/IDO for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

A lot of what is talked about in the relationship space, including this podcast, involves the psychological side of relationships. However, a huge part of personal development can come from learning to regulate your nervous system and become more embodied. Listen to today's show for valuable tips and insights to begin this part of your journey.  In this episode with Karden Rabin we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Analyzing the sensations in our body to regulate emotions How to transform your fight or flight response with embodiment exercises The practice of finding your body when you're losing your mind The benefit of approaching your healing through the body instead of always through the mind Recognizing the signs of cumulative stress in your body How to break the habit of overactive defense mechanisms And much more! Sponsored Amazfit is your own personal health management expert on your wrist. Head over to AMAZFIT.COM/IDO to get 15% off with the promo code "IDO". Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationships develop in stages and understanding how we show up in each stage is a valuable tool for relationship success. Understanding our needs and how to get them met is also incredibly important for relationship satisfaction. Listen to today's show for valuable information about both of these topics and much more! In this episode with Thais Gibson we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Why we sometimes betray ourselves because of infatuation with another person The stages of dating and the subconscious mind How to understand, communicate and get your needs met in relationships The importance of meeting your own needs sometimes The biggest factor for why people cheat How to understand the area our subconscious mind is running things And much more! Sponsored BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO. Quince is committed to making exceptionally high-quality essentials available at a price within reach. Because everyone deserves to fill their life with the finer things. Go to QUINCE.COM/IDO for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. FIELD OF GREENS is a whole, organic fruit and vegetable supplement that provides real nutrition to support energy, sleep, and overall health. Go to FieldsOfGreen.com and use promo code "IDO" to get 15% off your first order and FREE rush shipping. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As a relationship progresses most people will inevitably become more comfortable and complacent. In order to have a thriving long term relationship, we must take deliberate steps to avoid complacency, resentment and a loss of connection. Listen to today's show to learn the tools that will help you stay connected and create a loving and lasting relationship.  In this episode with Penny McGoey we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Why it's important to remember that sometimes, "people change and forget to tell each other" How to use journaling to find out what is working and what is not in your relationship Getting clear and communicating what you want and need in your relationship The importance of nurturing gratitude in your relationship The value of making plans together and staying curious about your partner How Penny cultivated a positive mindset to be with "the best man I've ever known" And much more! Sponsored Amazfit is your own personal health management expert on your wrist. Head over to AMAZFIT.COM/IDO to get 15% off with the promo code "IDO". Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Relationships are difficult to navigate in the best of times. Dealing with infertility and other sexual health issues can add another layer of stress and disconnect in even the healthiest relationships. Listen to today's show to learn the tools to navigate these difficult times with grace and love.  In this episode with Gabriela Rosa we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to deal with the emotional challenges of infertility as a couple How to avoid blaming and communicate in a healthy way when dealing with sexual health issues The importance of communicating exactly what each person wants when it comes to having kids The value in distinguishing between venting and problem solving conversations How to communicate your needs effectively And much more! Sponsored BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO. THESIS is a unique supplement with natural nootropic blends designed to enhance cognitive health and support memory over time. Head over to TakeThesis.com/IDO to take the free 3-minute quiz to find out what your brain needs and use code IDO to get $60 off your first subscription order when you sign up for Thesis. FIELD OF GREENS is a whole, organic fruit and vegetable supplement that provides real nutrition to support energy, sleep, and overall health. Go to FieldsOfGreen.com and use promo code "IDO" to get 15% off your first order and FREE rush shipping. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It may sound counterintuitive, but there are ways to embrace criticism to create more love in your relationship. Listen to today's show to learn how to navigate criticism and communication in a more productive, loving way.  In this episode with Dr. Warren Farrel we discuss relationship advice topics that include: How to not be defensive when dealing with criticism The importance of dedicated communication time with your partner each week Why loving someone is an art and a discipline that does not just happen on it's own What to do if you feel your partner is not putting effort into the relationship How to create and sustain a conflict free zone in your relationship Using journaling to process your emotions before communicating with your partner And much more! Sponsored Amazfit is your own personal health management expert on your wrist. Head over to AMAZFIT.COM/IDO to get 15% off with the promo code "IDO". Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dating can feel overwhelming and challenging for many people. Navigating dating anxiety and fears can be easier when you have the right tools and awareness. Listen to today's show to learn the tools to date better while managing your anxiety and fears.  In this episode with Alistair Wolfe we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Recognizing our innate desire for connection while not losing yourself while dating Early steps for dating success and important questions to ask yourself Setting realistic expectations for what dating and relationships should look like What to do if you feel there is a lack of effort when you're dating The importance of being honest with yourself during the different stages of dating And much more! Sponsored BetterHelp is an online therapy platform that will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist. Start living a happier life today and get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/IDO. THESIS is a unique supplement with natural nootropic blends designed to enhance cognitive health and support memory over time. Head over to TakeThesis.com/IDO to take the free 3-minute quiz to find out what your brain needs and use code IDO to get $60 off your first subscription order when you sign up for Thesis. FIELD OF GREENS is a whole, organic fruit and vegetable supplement that provides real nutrition to support energy, sleep, and overall health. Go to FieldsOfGreen.com and use promo code "IDO" to get 15% off your first order and FREE rush shipping. Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Money is one of the biggest causes of relationship conflict and divorce. Money can also be a personal strain that causes a great deal of stress and anxiety. Listen to today's show to learn how to get your finances in order and gain a deeper understanding of your relationship to money.  In this episode with Ben Hockema we discuss relationship advice topics that include: The different ways we think about money and the importance of understanding this for yourself and your partner Why we create different money mindsets and the biases we carry around money Creating agreements around money that work for your relationship Why some people look at money to increase security and others want to use it for experiences How to create real systems for your money management Understanding and communicating your goals around money And much more! Sponsored Amazfit is your own personal health management expert on your wrist. Head over to AMAZFIT.COM/IDO to get 15% off with the promo code "IDO" Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices