Communication - Validation

On this Episode Podcast #12, Matthew, Ambassador of Hope, Richerzhagen, shares 5 shifts you can make today even if it seems there all hope is lost. What you do really does make a difference. You will be inspired and encouraged with his heart for your marriage. Cracking the Code on Making a Passionate Marriage Paradise. Transcript“Hey my dearly beloved, today we’re talking about transforming your marriage with simple acts of love and service.I know when you’re in the fire, it can feel overwhelming—like all you can see is what’s wrong.But hear me: you are always only one shift away from a breakthrough.”[00:40] Relatable Story“I remember when my wife and I were stuck in the crazy cycle.I kept focusing on how she was treating me, until I realized—no matter what she does, I’m in charge of me.Think about it: if someone flips you off in traffic, you don’t have to flip them off back. You can wave.Never let where your spouse isn’t determine where you are.”[01:30] Shift #1 – Take Your Marriage Off the Throne“Marriage is the most important human relationship, but it’s not meant to be your god.Put God first. Matthew 6:33 says: Seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you.”[02:10] Shift #2 – Be Your Best Self“Stop magnifying your spouse’s flaws. Quit keeping score.Focus on being the best you—and let God handle the rest.”[02:45] Shift #3 – Pray Blessing Over Your Spouse“When you pray for them, gratitude and empathy shift your heart.The number one key to transforming a marriage is goodwill—truly liking and seeking to bless your spouse.”[03:30] Shift #4 – Do Good Before You Feel Like It“Feelings come and go.If you only act on feelings, your marriage will suffer.Instead, show love and serve even when the tingles aren’t there.”[04:15] Shift #5 – Listen With Your Heart“Ask: ‘What could I do to love you better this week?’And when they share—even if it stings—just respond, ‘Thanks for bringing that to my attention. I’ll work on it.’”[05:00] Closing / Vision“At the root of every conflict is hurt feelings. Proverbs 13:10 says: Only by pride comes contention.But humility, prayer, goodwill, and action can flip your marriage around.So if you’re ready, start with these five shifts today.And don’t forget to subscribe, comment, and share—because my dream is to see marriages transformed so that every man feels respected and every woman feels loved.I’m Matthew, Ambassador of Hope—and together, we can do this for Him.”

In this episode Matthew, Ambassador of Hope, Richerzhagen interviews Coach Sandra Krug. Sandra is a Truth Mindset Strategist. She helps women, identify and destroy the lies that are holding them captive. She does this by applying the truth of the word of God. Ladies do you feel like you are never good enough? This episode is for you!

In this most recent episode (#10) of the Phenomenal Marriage Podcast, Matthew, Mr. Hope, Richerzhagen shares his decades of marriage wisdom and experience to help you overcome the #1 problem in marriage, which is selfishness. Selfishness is such a part of our being that, though we can see it in others, we struggle to see it in ourselves. In this video, Matthew shares how to spot it in ourselves, and even more importantly how to overcome it. You will be encouraged and edified.

Episode #9.  In this insightful podcast, Phenomenal Marriage Founder, Matthew, Mr. Hope, Richerzhagen shares the audio from his most popular Youtube video, The Disease of Blame.  No matter what you are facing in your marriage right now today, you can always change the situation because you are part of the relationship and you can change how you show up.

In this podcast, Matthew, Mr. Hope, Richerzhagen goes over how the very things that drew us to our partner before marriage often drive us crazy after marriage.  God knows we need that in our marriage and we couldn't be everything and so He gave some things to our partner.  They used to seem organized and now it feels like they are controlling.  They used to seem like a free spirit and now they seem irresponsible.  They didn't change, you did.  When you learn how to enjoy and appreciate them for who God created them to be it makes your marriage glorious!

In this episode Matthew, Mr Hope, Richerzhagen explains the power of heartfelt understanding (simply understanding your spouse's heart).  In Part 7 we cover what to do with dangerous landmines. This series is all about simple shifts you can make to unlock your spouse's heart.

In this episode Matthew, Mr Hope, Richerzhagen explains the power of heartfelt understanding (simply understanding your spouse's heart).  In Part 6 we cover what to do when you aren't getting anywhere and the same issues come up over and over.   This series is all about simple shifts you can make to unlock your spouse's heart.

In this episode Matthew, Mr Hope, Richerzhagen explains the power of heartfelt understanding (simply understanding your spouse's heart).  In Part 5 we cover the importance of accepting your spouses opinion even if you feel like they are wrong. This series is all about simple shifts you can make to unlock your spouse's heart.

In this episode Matthew, Mr Hope, Richerzhagen explains the power of heartfelt understanding (simply understanding your spouse's heart).  Part four covers the difference between how men and women communicate (women speak and hear pink, men speak and hear blue).  Not wrong just different.  In order to improve communication we need to change our state so that we are drawing our spouse instead of pushing them away.  Simple shifts you can make to unlock your spouse's heart.

In this episode Matthew, Mr Hope, Richerzhagen continues to explain the power of heartfelt understanding (simply understanding your spouse's heart).  Part 3 explains the importance of making it safe for our spouse to share with us.  Simple shifts you can make to unlock your spouse's heart.