The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma} podcast

Ep. 134: What if Trauma Informed... Isn't?

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We cannot be trauma informed without changing our beliefs about human behavior. 

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • How staying focused on behavior is objectifying and dehumanizing
  • Why we cannot heal vulnerable nervous systems with objectifying approaches
  • How our culture sets parents up to believe good parents are in control of their kids behaviors
  • How to begin deconstructing these beliefs so we can stay in our owl brain

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