Ep. 128: My Child Hates Having their Feelings Validated- Friday Q&A
Why does my child hate having their feelings validated?
In this episode, I talk about the top 5 reasons I see about why kids don’t like their feelings validated:
- It feels too vulnerable
- It feels intrusive
- You’re getting it wrong
- You’re on the watchdog or possum pathway
- They are too far down the watchdog & possum pathway
This is a Friday Q&A episode, where I answer a listener’s question.
Additional Resources:
Regulated Does Not Mean Calm https://robyngobbel.com/lisadion
Toxic Shame Series https://robyngobbel.com/toxicshame
Has Trauma Informed Become another Behavior Modification Technique? https://robyngobbel.com/traumainformed/
Read the transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/ValidatedFeelings
Over on my website you can find:
Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With
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The Club is welcoming new members from September 26 - October 3, 2023 (until we reach capacity- whichever happens first!)
For all the details and registration, just head to https://RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
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- The Club is an online community of connection, co-regulation, and a little education for parents of kids with big, baffling behaviors. We open periodically for new members! Sign up on the waiting list at RobynGobbel.com/TheClub
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