
Are your couples actually enjoying their wedding? When did the real wedding day stop being enough? Can we help couples see that their actual life is worth capturing over a day-long wedding shot-list?
This week Pete, Laura and Bee dig into a wedding in the Scottish Borders where the couple wanted no posing, no portraits and no social media, and why it made Pete work harder (and enjoy the day more) than ever. It leads into a bigger debate: are flat lays and long shot lists something couples really want, or something they’ve seen online?
How much should we educate couples about what posed photos cost them in time on the day, and when does guidance become patronising? And why does so much “documentary” wedding content look exactly the same? Our fear is that couples are seeing so many aspirational images that they can become focused on re-creating these perfect images at the expense of living their own unique moments (and taking a risk these are missed).
We also tackle editing. With couples asking for suits to be refitted, bags removed and bows fixed in every frame, how much retouching is now expected, and where do you draw the line?
Also this week: Liam is off learning to be a motorbike instructor, the never-ending editing list, and the return of midweek weddings. We turn down enquiries for Silverstone weekend, shoot a wholesome christening, and hear about Liam’s first roll of film (and the frames he wasted finishing it) and flash floods in Spain.
Pete explains how Claude rebuilt our LUTs and presets, while Bee sticks with ChatGPT and its slightly underwhelming Monday briefings. Plus highs and lows, including autumn TV, table tennis ups and downs, and the best flask ever made.
Our Creative Commune is four wedding photographers and filmmakers chatting about photography, videography and the wedding industry, just like we do over coffee most mornings.
Do you guide your couples on timings and posed shots, or let them lead? Let us know, and if you enjoyed the episode, please like, subscribe and leave us a review.
Timestamps
00:00 Coffee, Matcha and Where Is Liam?
02:28 The Never-Ending Editing List
05:56 The Rise of Midweek Weddings
07:12 Silverstone vs Wedding Enquiries
10:49 A Christening and a Portrait Shoot
12:51 A No-Fuss Wedding in the Scottish Borders
19:58 Flat Lays, Posing and the Flow of the Day
21:13 Should We Educate Couples on Timings?
22:21 Why Does Everything Look the Same?
25:30 Shot Lists and Moments That Don’t Happen
30:31 How Much Retouching Is Too Much?
32:13 Liam Shoots Film, Plus Spanish Flash Floods
37:15 Using Claude for LUTs and Presets
40:58 AI Briefings and Best Of Lists
44:21 Highs and Lows
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