98: Myths of Marriage After Singlehood (ft. Ahuva Shandelman LCSW aka Holy Shid) & Return of The Shid Queen & Avery

100: Our Very Last Show - The End Part 2 - Everybody Talks Jewish Matchmaking Nobody Talks Shidduchim Podcast (2019 - 2023) Thank you to our amazing listeners! IJ (Izak) and Avery (Avigdor) retire after 4 years. They discuss Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking. It’s a big one folks! Izak and Avigdor pull down the curtain, it’s not goodbye son, it’s I’ll see ya later.1) Avigdor Wolf as Avery2) Shevi Lipschitz as Rosie3) Fagie Strom as Paige4) Avromi Meyer as Rabbi AY5) Yona & Chani Laster as The Lasters 6) Ahuva Shandelman as Holy Shid 7) Izak J. Held as IJ Guest Cast:1) Yona Laster 2) Chani Laster 3) Devora Kahan aka Miss D4) Shevi Lipschitz 5) Faige Strom6) Avromi Meyer7) Rachel Vaynberg8) Holy Shid aka Ahuva Shandelman9) Cousin Malc aka Michael Max10) Serena aka Rikki Yarmish11) Alexis aka Blimi12) Tamar13) Lakewood Michal14) Lakewood Tami15) Felix16) Shlomo from Nashville 17) Missy aka Samantha 18) Emm aka Malya 19) JoJo aka Isaac Nahon 20) Yosef Feldman .#shidduchim #jewishmatchmaking #shadchan #jewish #jewishdating #choson #chatan #Kallah #simchas #mazaltov #mazeltov #shaitels #sheitals #yeshiva #podcast #monsey #simchas #weddings #jewishweddings #datingpodcast #jewishlife #5Towns #jewishpodcast #shadchanit #modestfashion #jewishfashion #jewishlife #shabbos #kosher #kosherfood #kosherfoodie #tznius #singlesevents

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Episode #98: Myths of Marriage (ft. Ahuva Shandelman LCSW aka Holy Shid) & Return of The Shid Queen and Avery Ever think it’s all going to be solved after you tie the knot? Well the good news is that a bunch of it is but the journey doesn’t stop there. NTS co-host & Holy Shid creator Ahuva Shandelman leads us in Shidduch Conjugation. 1) Thoughts about Gedale Fenster Shabbaton 2) Myths singles have about of marriage 3) What happens when (older) singles finally tie the knot 4) The work we can do to have better relationships w self and others 5) There’s the you do you and I do me philosophy, but when you’re married, a big chunk of ourselves are committed to our spouses. So what percentage should be us? What percentage should be left to The you do you, and I do me philosophy? 80/20? 50/50? 6) Types of Therapy for Jewish Singles 7) What's all the Psychedelic talk about... should I try it?! . #shidduchim #shiduchim #shadchan #jewish #jewishdating #choson #chatan #Kallah #simchas #yiddish #mazaltov #mazeltov #shaitels #sheitals #yeshiva #podcast #monsey #rocklandcounty #simchas #weddings #jewishweddings #matches #jewishlife #5Towns #jewishpodcast #shadchanit #modestfashion #jewishfashion #jewishlife #shabbos #kosher #kosherfood #kosherfoodie #fashion #tznius #shadchanim

97 - How To Plan Your Travel (ft. Shlomo From Nashville) In this episode we discuss the minutia‘s of traveling as well as Jewish singles trying to arrange trips. We  have all tried to get away for the weekend or take a lavish vacation  and when we were younger this was one of the easiest things to do  because family is just a text away and friends are just roaming  everywhere you go. But as we get older, friends dwindle down and family  just isn’t the exact kind of people you want to go to Tahiti with you  realize that getting away is costly and time consuming. In this episode  the crew will go through the entire process of how you can budget and  get away to the ultimate fun Jewish singles destination! 1) How to explain the response from most people “what? You went there? There’s kosher? There’s what to do? 2) Flight or Drive? 3) Why do all shidduch daters go to Miami Beach? 4) Where do Jewish singles go for vacation? 5) Tell us your travel destination secrets! 6) We always see women in big crews, are they all really friends? 7) At what point do you stop bunking up?

Ever have a role model growing up? We all look to someone as a person that we can strive to be. In high school it may be the senior when you are a freshman. In camp it may be your counselor when you are a camper. Or in yeshiva it could be a Morah or Rabbi of yours. In this episode we discuss role models, and what they mean to you and your life. Paige and Nechama join IJ in this episode. 1) What is a role model? 2) Can siblings be a role model? 3) Are we dealing with a generation that was raised to resent their role models? 4) Jewish versus non-Jewish role models 5) When role models "go off the rails" what to do?

Today’s episode focuses on the topics of mental health and depression. We chat with David Izso who is the host of dont worry bout it podcast and a shidduch dater. 1) Mental Health 101 2) Symptoms of Mental Health 3) If you struggle with Mental Health, how do you know if you are in an okay place to date someone? 4) How do you know if you should still date them despite Mental Health, anxiety or depression? 5) What to do if your partner is depressed and you are choosing to support them? 6) How to move through depression in dating?

94 - Bachelor Party Bitachon So the main man is getting married and it’s happening, the big wedding day that everyone’s excited about. But now it’s time to throw the bachelor party. What can you do as an Orthodox Jew doing a bachelor party? Are there limits to the fun you can have? What is a Jewish bachelor party like? Yosef, Eliyahu & Shua/Jared join IJ in this episode. 1) when you’re younger, everyone comes to the bachelor party, when you’re older, it’s a different story 2) Here’s why you want rich friends 3) Do all guys just go to the steakhouse and then the Cigar Lounge? 4) Is the bride allowed at the bachelor party? 5) Is a bachelorette party a thing in the Jewish community? 6) What if there’s beef between some of the groomsmen? 7) I know what if certain guys can’t pay or afford to chip in to cover the group? 8) What if it’s one of these three day luxurious trips? 9) Ranking shidduch dates from Michigan, Maryland, Florida, California, Minnesota, Illinois & Israel

Enter The Meta-Shidduch-Verse: What It Was Like To Be Married For The Day THE SHIDDUCHVERSE aka Multiverse: IJ and Avery enter the meta-verse...After opening up a magical box of Latkes on Chanukah... In the universe of Westeros IJ and Avery have different lives. In this alternative reality IJ is a stay at home Dad (with a cool haircut home biz), married to a beautiful women he met on his 5th shidduch date experience. His wife Darla, actually joins the podcast to preach her Shidduch take. Avery is a comedic writing tycoon, married to Olga, a rich Russian Oligarch's daughter, attorney and currently spends his fat alimony checks (from his first wife) on lucrative neighborhood tennis matches. They decide that it's time for them to get into the podcast game. Here's what that world looks like... 1) What's wrong with these single people? 2) Here's why they are getting it wrong... 3) Why do they think they can hang out with us and our married friends...echh gross 4) Here is a list of Shadchanit's they need to listen too 5) Dvar Torah 6) Our interview with a shadchan (they know what their doing) 7) AI DATING (Artificial intelligence dating)

Izak and Malky follow up from episode 5, they discuss the full process of actually planning a date. Though, this time it's magical and it's exactly how the ladies would like it to be :). Izak also wears a wicked cool Chanukah sweater. 1) What is the best first date place? 2) Where do you go for the second? After going to a Lounge for the first date, what place is best to go  to for a second date? A) Lounge (again?) B) A Lite Dairy Restaurant (too soon to be eating?) C) Activity (you don’t really know them yet! When can you just give up on going out and just hang out with each other… Basically becoming an official couple 3) What would the perfect conversation be like? 4) Where she lives debate…can you date near her town?? 5) The spots you just don’t want to go go 6) Can the girl just meet you half way? 7) Can you do an action first date 8) Making reservations, what is the girls take on whether a guy calls up in advance about a reservation or not? Precocious of him? 9) girls Having to have backup plans just in case the guy goofs or something unplanned happens. Precarious of him? #dating #jewish #chanukah #hanukkah #weddings 

91: Tales of the Shidduch Journeywoman What is a Journeywoman? A woman who is an experienced and competent professional in her field but doesn't yet have that "trophy boyfriend or husband" to show off! So we have heard from the journeymen; now we are spotlighting the journeywomen, well one woman and that's Rivka who tells us what's going on with the Shidduch Journeywoman's life. Part 2 of this cast, IJ and JoJo chat about the chagim (jewish holidays) for singles. 1. Figuring out the uncle and aunt life 2. What are niblings? 3. Continued discussion on long distance dating challenges 4. The time zone tobbacle! 5. Getting catfished 6. When you have to move away after you get married 7. Culture changes when you're in a relationship 8. When you can say "but my rabbi said" 9. How not to rely on friend setups!!