Trauma from a Heartbreak

In honor of Women’s History Month, I want to salute women. As women we go through trauma , drama , growth , career progression, love , life ,etc . Knowing who we are is half the battle, but people fully understanding our role is still a war most haven’t mastered yet. This podcast series will talk about what women go through to get through.

We are living in a time where kids are being bullied, committing suicide , committing homicide, be disobedient to parents an their elders , they are faced with tons of depression and the list goes on. Your Girl Dee talks about parenting her 4 kids in this generation and the issues and challenges they have or may face.

My guest Shan talks about the trauma she faced from being broken hearted in two relationships . Shan also talks about the depression she faced , and her healing journey .

Shalondia and her high school sweetheart Dee had 4 children together. However, 13 years ago a tragedy would hit Shalondia and her kids. Shalondia was only 30 when Dee who was age 31 passed away . Dee was a provider, and Shalondia’s best friend. Shalondia endured a lot but learned to cope with grief and continues her path of healing. Shalondia has achieved so much since Dee’s passing and chooses to share her story.

Celebrity Corner with Dee talks on the latest celebrity gossip of Pastor Todd, Khloe Kardashian, Lamar Odom, Tristan Thompson, Rihanna, Ari Fletcher, Lisa Ray, Kim Kardashian, and Lisa Ray

Do we consider marriage sacred or do we think it’s just a piece of paper ? Do we believe it’s a piece of paper until one has put in a 100% of the work , or has our broken environments , seeing failed relationships , and the lack of trust for a union formed our belief that marriage is a piece of paper ?

 We are back with a part two of being TIRED! This time I talk with Justin , an army vet who has experience and interacted with cultures and people of different races all over the world while in the military. We discuss systemic racism and discuss how other cultures see us. We also talk about how we see ourselves in the black community . Tune in now to nosugaondeerim.com and listen to my thoughts on the civil unrest and social injustice we face being Black in America.

TIRED! How do we stop racist people from killing our men,our sons,our family? I recorded this episode prior to the verdict of George Floyd. I was inclined to do this episode because of Daunte Wright and George Floyd, two black men that either called their mom or called out to their mom prior to being killed by the cops. Tune in to Nosugaondeerim.com and listen to my thoughts on the civil unrest and social injustice we face being Black in America.

As parents do we ever consider how our teenagers/children feel about things. Do we ask them questions ? Do we listen to them ? Are we sticking to the old way of doing things where a child should stay in a child’s place even if it means they will hide their feelings ? Tune in to Nosugaondeerim.com and listen to my baby girl and her friends talk about us as parents. Whew the transparency and honesty. Trust me it was mind blowing and mind boggling, but I think as parents we need to hear them out , understand them , but we as parents must also provide structure and love . Truth be told children don’t always know what’s best for them. As parents we won’t always be liked by our kids, and that’s okay as long as they know everything is done in love . This parenting life doesn’t come with a rule book or manual .So if you are doing the best you can’t despite criticism keep going ! Disclaimer . Real names will not be provided in this podcast to protect the minors and their families .

Derrick Jaxn the relationship guru was recently exposed for cheating on his wife. Derrick also decided to go live with his wife and discuss the marital issues all while his wife looked in despair, defeat, and depressed. Derrick is definitely a textbook narcissist. Tune in today with author Alexis Jenee and I as we talk about Derrick Jaxn. We also dive into talking about the wife (victim) get dogged by public eye more than the side piece .