6 Things Christians Get Wrong about Courtship

EP80Are you a single Christian woman seeking a godly husband?  In this episode of The No Pills Podcast, host Gordon McGee shares five crucial tips to help you attract the right man and build a Christ-centered relationship.  Drawing from his own experiences as a man who was married for almost 20 years , Gordon offers insights on what men truly value.Learn why avoiding "thirst traps" and immodest online content is vital for attracting a godly man, and how your outward appearance speaks volumes. Discover the importance of modesty, not as a weakness, but as an awareness of your true worth as a queen. This episode also tackles common pitfalls like rejecting single Christian fathers, engaging in "situationships," and dating outside your denomination.Gordon emphasizes the importance of clear intentions in dating, avoiding emotional rollercoasters, and setting healthy boundaries. He strongly advises against dating someone from a different denomination due to potential conflicts in core beliefs, parenting, and lifestyle.Tune in for powerful, scriptural advice designed to help you find a truly equally yoked partner in Christ.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Are you in your 20s, 30s, or 40s and wondering why you're still single?  In this episode of The No Pills Podcast, Gordon McGee explores 10 common reasons that might be keeping you from the relationship you desire.This isn't about judgment, but about reflection and understanding, so you can move forward. Gordon dives into key areas, offering timeless wisdom from the "owner's manual" (the Bible) alContact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

6 Christian Courtship Mistakes & Biblical Dating Principles EP78In this episode of The No Pillz Podcast, Gordon McGee breaks down "6 Things Christians Get Wrong About Courtship." While modern dating and courtship aren't explicitly in the Bible, we explore ancient Israelite practices like arranged marriages and betrothal, and extract timeless biblical principles for finding a spouse.Discover common misconceptions about Christian courtship today, including the lack of clear marital intent, not involving family, and neglecting chaperones.  We also discuss the importance of valuing character over money or physical attraction, and the often-overlooked significance of virginity in marriage.Learn five additional biblical principles for relationships that apply to modern courtship:Seek guidance from God Prioritize purity and holiness Treat others as brothers and sisters in Christ Marry a believer Cultivate love and selflessness Tune in to understand how biblical foundations can guide your relationships purposefully towards marriage. ➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

In this powerful episode of The No Pills Podcast, Gordon McGee reacts to a viral clip featuring Kevin Samuels and a 37-year-old high-earning, single mother of two. This conversation is a raw, practical example of the challenges faced in modern dating and relationships, highlighting why traditional, faith-based courtship might be the answerThe episode delves into:The "Rent-a-Gent" Debate: Kevin Samuels' controversial suggestion for the 37-year-old woman.Dating vs. Courting: A deep dive into the secular male mindset regarding relationships versus a Bible-based approach to no sex before marriage."Friends with Benefits" & "Friend Zoning": The harsh reality of using male friends for companionship without sexual intent, and why men often don't want to be "friend-zoned".The "Carousel" & Engagement Queens: Discussing the woman's past dating choices, multiple engagements, and the concept of "engagement queens".Pretty Privilege & Mismanagement of Opportunities: Kevin Samuels' and Gordon McGee's take on how attractive women often squander their dating advantages.Unrealistic Expectations: The woman's high financial standards for a partner despite her relationship history and two children.The "Boring Man" Regret: Her admission of choosing exciting but unstable men over a "boring" yet consistent partner, and her desire to go back.The Importance of Modesty & Consistency: The impact of social media presence on how women are perceived by men and the desire for consistent partners.Finding God's Way: Gordon McGee's impassioned plea for listeners to prioritize faith, humility, and realistic expectations in relationships.This case study is an encouragement to do things "God's way" and avoid the pain, suffering, and misery that can come from modern dating approachesToday on No Pills Podcast, we discuss the experiences of a **single life** with an Instagram **model**. We talk about **dating advice** and the challenges of being a **single mom**. This **relationship advice** will help you navigate modern relationships.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Why Modern Dating Advice Feels Like Déjà Vu! The TRUTH About Modern Dating Advice: Why It All Leads to the Same Place. Red Pill, Blue Pill, Black Pill, Purple Pill,  Feminism: They're All the Same!Are red pill, blue pill, and feminism really that different? In this episode of The No Pills Podcast, Gordon McGee exposes the surprising common ground between these seemingly opposing ideologies and how they all contribute to the gender warWe dive deep into the core tenets of each "pill" (red pill, blue pill, purple pill, black pill) and modern feminism, revealing a shared encouragement of gender wars, contempt against marriage and monogamy, and support for fornication.  Discover why the pursuit of sexual prowess often leads to the despair of the "black pill" and how these frameworks miss the crucial element of hope found in a relationship with God.Learn the truth about love, marriage, and relationships from the only source that truly matters: the owner's manual. ➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Looking for your lifelong partner, even in your 30s?  Gordon McGee of The No Pills Podcast shares 7 invaluable tips for a successful Christian courtship that leads to a healthy marriage. Avoid the trap of marrying the wrong person by applying these essential principles to your courtship journey.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Want a vibrant, fulfilling marriage?  In this episode of The No Pills Podcast, Gordon McGee shares 6 crucial tips to cultivate a strong and healthy relationship. Don't let your marriage fall apart – learn practical steps to protect it from intruders and foster a lasting love. ➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537Contact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Unlock Deeper Connections: The 4 Levels of Relationships Explained (Matthew Hussey Framework)How to Level Up Your Frame WorkAre you trying to understand the different stages of your romantic relationships? In this insightful episode, we delve into Matthew Hussey's powerful "Four Levels of a Relationship" framework: Admiration, Mutual Attraction, Commitment, and Compatibility.Join Gordon McGee from the No Pills Podcast as he breaks down each level, highlighting the crucial difference between fleeting attraction and true commitment. Learn why open communication is key to navigating these stages and how compatibility is essential for a lasting, healthy partnership.Discover:What each of the four levels truly means.The dangers of mistaking attraction for commitment.Why open communication is vital for relationship progress.The significance of compatibility in long-term success.The importance of self-love and setting standards in dating.Whether you're single, dating, or in a committed relationship, understanding these levels can provide valuable clarity and help you build stronger, more fulfilling connections.Inspired by a Mel Robbins Podcast episode featuring New York Times bestselling author and relationship coach Matthew Hussey.➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview00:12 Exploring the Four Levels of Relationships02:14 Admiration: The First Level02:34 Mutual Attraction: The Second Level02:52 Commitment: The Third Level03:32 Compatibility: The Fourth Level04:00 Gordon's Improved Framework07:33 Practical Application and Conclusionhttps://youtu.be/cf4ANNIRjdk?si=zYxuzGgKp3X77CnuContact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Are you in your 30s and navigating the complexities of dating? In this episode of The No Pills Podcast, Gordon McGee dives into the fascinating question: Can artificial intelligence actually help you find love? We explore the rising trend of AI girlfriends, sparked by a viral article in The Hill titled "AI Girlfriends are ruining an entire generation of men."We unpack the surprising statistics revealing that over 60% of young men aged 18-30 are single, and one in five report having no close friends – a number that has quadrupled in the last 30 years. Could AI offer a solution or is it part of the problem?Gordon shares highlights from the article and offers his insightful perspective, drawing wisdom from unexpected sources, including Gemini AI and even "the owner's manual." We tackle realistic expectations in dating, the importance of shared values, and embracing the humor in awkward situations.We delve in to the question AI & Dating in Your 30s: Can Artificial Intelligence Help You Find Love?➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537 00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:11 AI and Modern Love: A Controversial Perspective00:37 The Rise of AI Girlfriends01:18 The Loneliness Epidemic Among Young Men02:23 Can AI Help You Find Real Love?02:54 Gemini's Advice on Finding Love in Your Thirties03:56 Know Yourself and What You Want06:40 Update Your Approach to Dating10:08 Where to Meet People14:47 Mindset and Self-Care18:00 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsContact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!

Are you feeling lonely in your 30s? Wondering why it's so hard to make friends or find a partner? This video tackles those questions head-on! We're discussing the realities of loneliness, from social media's effect to the pressure of marriage. Learn how to combat loneliness and build a happier, more connected life. What are your experiences? Share in the comments! ➤ Support Go Stand and Preach https://www.gostandandpreach.org/donateYou Can Also Follow Me on: ➤TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gostandandpreach ➤Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gostandandpreach ➤Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gostandandpreach/ ➤Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-pillz-with-gordon-mcghee/id1707970107?i=1000662278399➤Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/1tq6QGWTkCFe2skOb7x2Yb?si=66c65281dd644537 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:30 Advice from a Fellow Thirty-Something02:03 Gordon's Take on Relationships04:32 The Impact of Social Media on Loneliness07:03 Practical Tips to Combat Loneliness12:25 Listener Comments and Reflections21:36 Final Thoughts and EncouragementContact No Pillz: Tweet us @nopillzpodcast Email: [email protected] YouTube: @nopillzpodcast Insta: @nopillzpodcast Thanks for listening & keep podcasting!