The Devastating Runner/Chaser Dynamic and What the Runner Feels While They're Running

You guys hear me say Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine a lot on my channel. Have you ever wondered what they really mean? They aren’t just synonyms for woman and man! Would you believe that  I am usually in Divine Masculine energy and my twin is usually in Divine Feminine energy even though I’m a feminine presenting woman and he’s a masculine presenting male?!  Let’s get into how to break these terms down and how to realize what energy you’re actually in- it just might surprise you! We’ll also touch on the Runner/Chaser dynamic and why the Feminine is usually labeled the Chaser and the Masculine- the Runner.If you’d like to reach me, visit: www.stillwaterswithin.com**So sorry guys. I was getting so tongue tied LOL. I misspoke when I first listed the attributes of Chaser energy and Runner energy. I will list them here for you. I also have a podcast episode dedicated to this topic. Common Chaser Attributes:Moves toward connection and closenessWants constant reassurance and validationWatches their socials and tracks their activityFeels space as a threatLoves through intensity, touch, and shared emotionStruggles to focus on their own lifeOutsources their sense of safety to their twinCommon Runner Attributes:Moves away from intensity and pressureNeeds space to feel safeWithdraws when overwhelmedLoves through distance and trustAvoids conflict and hard conversationsFears losing themselves in the connectionStruggles to express what they actually feelEither twin can occupy either energy, and twins often switch roles. These are energies, not identities.

What happens if your twin comes back and it's not the reunion you hoped for? There's not many guarantees on this twin flame journey, but one thing is for certain- your twin will return to you fully human. Flawed, complicated and still healing. Releasing your projections and fantasies of an idyllic reunion will save you a lot of pain and heartache. Grab a bev (as my NY family would say) and let's get into it. For all my services visit: www.stillwaterswithin.com

Why is your separation taking so much longer than everyone else's?This happened with me and my twin. I know how frustrating it can be. We were separated for years! You have done the work. You have regulated your nervous system. You have chosen yourself again and again. So why does it feel like the universe keeps extending the timeline while other twins seem to reunite in months?Remember this: Prolonged separation is not a sign that you are failing. It is a sign that you're being prepared for something bigger.Some couples carry heavier karmic debt to alleviate. Others are working through generational and ancestral karma that stretches far beyond just the two of you. And very often, these heavier assignments point to a larger outreach for the twin flame couple as a whole.Prolonged separation places an even greater emphasis on your individual foundation. It is not just about healing so you can reunite. It is about building a self concept so solid, and a solo mission so active, that reunion becomes a natural overflow rather than a rescue.Most twin flames who endure prolonged separation have great callings on their lives. They are often in the public eye in some way, called to mentor others, lead, or hold space for collective healing. That is exactly why their foundation has to be even more rock solid. They are being prepared for scrutiny, for visibility, and for increased societal pressure.You cannot afford to get lost on this journey. You must know how to regulate and ground yourself so that you do not lose yourself in the wait, or later, in the joint mission with your twin.If your separation has felt longer and heavier than you expected, this episode will help you see it differently. You are not being punished. You are being prepared.For all my services and resources visit: www.stillwaterswithin.comKeywords: prolonged twin flame separation, twin flame karmic debt, ancestral karma twin flames, twin flame reunion preparation, twin flame solo mission, twin flame public calling, twin flame healing, divine feminine divine masculine, twin flame coach

Did you know that there's actually a specific purpose for your obsession with your twin and it's not to get you stuck in that never ending loop of needing external validation about how they feel about you?! Listen to this latest live clip where I'm explaining what this is and how to use it. For all my services and resources visit: www.stillwaterswithin.com

Surrendering without giving up In this episode I’m setting the stage for what this concept means practically and I’m giving you insight on how to achieve this in real time by sharing a difficulty that my twin and I are currently working through. I’ll be live on Instagram tomorrow 10/24 at 12pm CT/ 6pm London time and I’m hosting a group coaching session next Tuesday 10/27 at 11am CT/ 5pm London time on this same topic- we’ll be going a lot deeper and I’ll give you specific guidance on your individual journeys. We may even have room for some tarot at the end! Sign up here: https://calendly.com/contact-stillwaterswithin/surrendering-without-giving-up

The age old question of if you can manifest your twin flame. I’m using the laws of the universe to guide my framework to answer this question. After listening, did your opinion change? I’d love to know what you think. ✨ Book Your Session With Me — Tarot, Reiki, Coaching, Astrology, Spiritual Services I offer live Zoom readings, pre-recorded sessions, distance Reiki, and Twin Flame, Entrepreneurship or General life coaching. All of it is designed to help you move from confusion to alignment.→ Book Here: https://calendly.com/contact-stillwaterswithin🌐 Start at My WebsiteEverything lives here: Booking a service, Blogs, Podcast episodes, Products and FREE Resources. This is your hub for clarity and transformation.https://StillWatersWithin.com❤️‍🔥Patreon for EXCLUSIVE content and Uncensored 18+ Readings: Click here for my Patreon page 🔗 All Links in One SpotLinktree: https://linktr.ee/still_waters_life_is_poetryStay connected with me:Patreon: Still Waters Tarot TikTok (tarot): @still.waterslifeispoetryTikTok (poetry): @still_waters_poetryInstagram: @still_waters_life_is_poetry_Snapchat: stillwatershealFacebook: Still WatersRedNote: StillWatersWith so much love and peace,Vanessa of Still Waters Within 🌊

You know that calm, cool, nonchalant exterior your runner shows the world? I am here to tell you that underneath- they’re a mess. And I would know, because I spent years as the runner in my own twin flame connection.In this episode, I am giving you insight on what the runner is actually feeling when they run. The fear. The guilt. The obsession and longing they refuse to admit. The pressure your chasing is placing on them and the deep unworthiness that keeps them running from the one person they love the most.I am also breaking down the lessons both of you must learn to finally end the runner chaser dynamic and step into real 3D union. This is the raw truth from someone who lived it from the side less talked about- the runner. If you have been the chaser wondering why they will not just come back, or if you have been the runner afraid to face what you feel, this episode is for you.Ready to end this Running and Chasing once and for all?I am currently running a limited time special on my 6 week coaching package. You get six hour long sessions with me for $777. My individual sessions are $165 each, so you are saving over $200 with this deal.Visit www.stillwaterswithin.com to lock in this price before it returns to normal.I’m so grateful for all my clients and I give them the very best I can. To do this, I must keep my ratio manageable so space is limited and this offer will not last long! If you are ready to stop the cycle and finally heal the dynamic, I urge you to make the investment.Keywords: twin flame runner chaser dynamic, what the runner feels, twin flame separation, twin flame coaching, 3D union, twin flame healing, end the runner chaser cycle, divine feminine divine masculine, twin flame coach

Cheers to Episode 30 yaaaayyyyy 🎉In this episode I'm discussing:What is masculine and feminine energy and how either one can be the runner or the chaserHow you can tell if you're in chaser energyWhat the runner is actually feeling while they run and how much they love youHow to come out of the runner/chaser dynamic and live successfully with your twin in the 3DGet the FREE Runner/Chaser guide here: https://stillwaterswithin.com/b/XLNPc

Have you ever wondered why your twin won’t just let you love them?? Why can’t they see how much you love them?This is very common for both twin flames to feel sometimes, but especially for whichever twin is more likely to be in the chasing energy and PLOT TWIST you both can switch off on who is the runner and who is the chaser, but that is another topic for another day! In this episode, we're diving into:I. How over giving is not love; it's attachment.II. Why you must redefine who you are without being of service or performing.III. Understanding that whenever you self sacrifice you will repel your twin!Buckle up buttercup! We're going deep...

In this episode I’m discussing the real reason the Universe makes you spend time in separation before reuniting with your twin flame for good. It’s not about punishment or sacrifice. It’s helping you learn how to balance the shared energetic field between you both. If you don’t know how to stabilize the field you will inevitably separate again. This is crucial to learn if you want a healthy and stable relationship! For all inquiries, visit www.stillwaterswithin.com