314: They’ve Stopped Trying? Don’t Chase Do THIS Instead!

Do you ever feel like you’re giving too much in your relationships? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the exhausting cycle of overgiving and people-pleasing in love. You’ll discover why so many people feel the need to be “perfect” to keep someone around, and how this mindset can actually sabotage connection and attraction. Learn how to break free from this pattern, create space for others to invest in you, and build relationships rooted in mutual effort and respect. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the work in your relationships or struggling to trust that you’re enough just as you are, this episode can help you reclaim your confidence.--- ►► Don’t miss Matthew’s final free live event of the year tomorrow, September 18. In the Love Life Reset, you’ll learn how to take back control of your emotions and your love life, whether you’re single or in a relationship. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Join the Matthew Hussey Retreat in Miami this October 18-19 (in-person or virtually): MHRetreat.com ►► Become a Love Life member for exclusive coaching and courses: Get access to live coaching, a full library of content, and unlimited Matthew AI access at JoinLoveLife.com►► Stay cozy! Get your 40% Cozy Earth discount using the code LOVELIFE at CozyEarth.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What happens when the person you trust most becomes the source of your deepest betrayal? In this week’s new video, we explore the shocking Netflix documentary Unknown Number: The High School Catfish, where a young girl discovers her relentless bully is someone she never expected. Using this real-life story, we unpack the concept of “betrayal blindness” and the devastating effects of narcissistic behavior. If you’ve ever struggled with betrayal or felt trapped in a toxic dynamic, this video is for you. Together, we’ll unpack the emotional fallout, the tactics used by narcissists, and how to reclaim your power when someone close to you has caused deep pain.---►► Don’t miss the Love Life Reset next week: It only takes 5 seconds to sign up for Matthew’s final live online training of 2025! Discover the one crucial step to reclaim your confidence in love. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’ve been told from a very young age to “play it cool” . . .But as we grow up, we realize that when we feel we need to “play it cool” to keep someone interested, that often means we’re feeling anything but cool . . . and it usually comes from a place of insecurity or a fear of being rejected.Pretty soon, we find ourselves calibrating our conversations and contorting ourselves to meet the other person’s needs so we don’t come off as needy or a nuisance, and little by little, we start to show them that our needs can be ignored with no repercussions . . .In today’s episode, you’ll learn the best way to increase attraction and investment in a way that doesn’t diminish your value or make you feel like a nuisance simply for stating your needs.---►► Don’t miss the Love Life Reset next week: It only takes 5 seconds to sign up for Matthew’s final live online training of 2025! Discover the one crucial step to reclaim your confidence in love. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever felt like the dating world is rigged against you? In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why finding love feels harder than ever and explore the recent shifts that have left so many people feeling stuck and isolated.  They also share practical tools to help you expand your social circle and build meaningful connections without burning out. If you’ve ever wondered how to take back control of your love life and create the relationship you actually want, this episode is packed with actionable advice to make that happen. --- ►► Don’t miss the Love Life Reset next week: It only takes 5 seconds to sign up for Matthew’s final live online training of 2025! Discover the one crucial step to reclaim your confidence in love. Save your free seat now at LoveLifeReset.com ►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com ►► Join the 2-day Matthew Hussey Retreat Oct. 18-19 (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Tired of putting in all the effort while others barely try? In this week’s episode, I share how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t serious, and focus instead on connecting with people who are ready to meet you halfway. We’ll talk about how the story you’re telling (through your words and energy) can either inspire connection or hold you back. If dating feels frustrating right now, this is what you need . . . ---►►Try Huel with 15% off for new customers using my code LOVELIFE at huel.com/lovelife. Fuel your best performance with Huel today!►►Warning: Once you wrap up in a Cozy Earth blanket, you might never give it back 😅 — snag yours for 40% off with code LOVELIFE at cozyearth.com►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class.Unfortunately, living in our heads in this way can turn into obsessing, and render us incapable of feeling excited about anything other than seeing or hearing from that person. In other words, they occupy a space in our minds they’ve not yet earned!In this week’s episode, I share with you the mindsets that can both help and hurt you in dating, as well as the best way to determine if you and this person could really work out. Tell me what you think in the comments. ---►► Discover the ONE Crucial Step to Reclaim the Power in Your Love Life FAST Join the Love Life Reset Now for Free at. . . → LoveLifeReset.com ►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered why so many relationships seem to fizzle out around the three-month mark?In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen tackle the infamous “three-month curse” in dating. They explore why this milestone often becomes a breaking point, the hidden dynamics that lead to early breakups, and how unspoken needs or mismatched intentions can derail even the most promising connections. Plus, they share actionable advice to help you navigate this tricky phase and build relationships that last.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of short-lived relationships, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to break free.---►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com►► Join the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com►► Use our link at WeNatal.com/LoveLife for a free month’s supply of WeNatal’s Magnesium with your first subscription (worth $35!) It’s a premium magnesium supplement designed to support relaxation, digestion, and overall well-being. Formulated with four bioavailable forms of magnesium. ►► Best sleep of your life? Yes, please. Support your mental health AND snag 40% off Cozy Earth sheets with code LOVELIFE at CozyEarth.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the way you view your past is quietly shaping your present in ways you don’t even realize? In this week’s video, I explore a book that has completely shifted how I think about dating and life. It challenges some deeply-held beliefs and the stories we tell ourselves.This video also uncovers how hidden goals might be influencing your choices, and shares the key to unlocking a more fulfilling love life. This one will leave you questioning everything . . . in the very best way!---►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Picture this. A guy sends you a sexual text. How do you respond in a way that gets him to slow down without sending him running away?Check out this ONE ridiculously simple but powerful text to deal with the situation. And be sure to watch until the end.---►► Grab your in-person or virtual ticket to the Weekend Retreat: MHRetreat.com ►► Join the Love Life Club: JoinLoveLife.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What if the things you’ve been blaming for where you are in life—your past, your heartbreaks, your fears—aren’t actually what’s holding you back?In this week’s episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen explore a bold idea from Adlerian psychology: that your life isn’t determined as much by your trauma as by the goals you’ve set for yourself. The Love Life Podcast crew breaks down how this flips the script on what we think we know about change, self-sabotage, and why we stay stuck.If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels in love or life, this episode will challenge you to see your patterns in a whole new way. Are you ready to uncover the hidden goals that could be keeping you from moving forward? ---►► Try Matthew AI for free and get personalized coaching anytime: AskMH.com►► Join the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat (in person in Miami or virtual): MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.