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You want your team to see you as a capable leader, so you keep your struggles to yourself and only show them the outcome. But what if the polished version is the very thing keeping the people you lead from asking for help or admitting their mistakes? And what does it cost your team culture when no one feels safe saying “I’m struggling”? In this Leadership Tips episode, Desiree Petrich shares a quote that stopped her in her tracks and a moment from one of her keynotes where she was told to leave part of her story out. Whether you’re a manager with direct reports, a coach, or a parent, press play to hear the one small shift that can help you inspire the people you lead this week. Sign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

Most of the conversation about managing people focuses on the C-suite or the frontline. JoeTheesfeld, president of Performance Foodservice believes the leaders of the leaders is where a lot of that secret sauce is made.In this episode: ➪ How to delegate and empower your middle managers to make decisions ➪ Why every leader should be the CRO (chief repeating officer) ➪ Building rapport when you’re more introverted ➪ Why consensus is overrated ➪ How to support new managers after they get promotedWhat’s one decision your team is waiting on you to make that they could make on their own?Resources mentioned: ➪ The Significance Code by Dan Carroll ➪ Failing Forward by John C. Maxwell ➪ Fail Forward Mentality by Jacob Brown ➪ The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni ➪ The Advantage by Patrick Lencioni ➪ Connect with Joe on LinkedIn ➪ Performance Foodservice MarshallSign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

 Hard conversations at work will likely never be easy. But when we avoid them, the good people on our teams start filling in the blanks and making up stories about each other, and the wall between us keeps getting higher. In this episode, Desiree shares the WALL Blueprint from her breakout session at the 2026 Intentional Leader Summit. It’s a structure for having the conversations that need to be had, so the good intentions of the good people on your team can actually lead to a team that trusts each other. Whether you’re the boss or not, this one will help you speak up, hold people accountable, and ask for what you need without putting anyone on the defensive.In this episode: ➪ W: What story am I telling myself? How to separate what you know for certain from what you’re assuming, and why your coworker is not the villain in their own story ➪ A: Address it directly. Why the compliment sandwich shuts the conversation down, and what to say instead of hiding behind the handbook ➪ L: Listen through the discomfort. Stop talking, give them space, and swap absolutes like “you always” for what you actually observed ➪ The question to ask yourself before every hard conversation: am I willing to be wrong? ➪ L: Land with clarity. Four questions that keep your team from having the exact same talk six months from now ➪ How to build a feedback culture where your team feels safe to speak up, because what’s rewarded is repeatable and what’s tolerated becomes the standardSo what hard conversation have you been avoiding, and why?RESOURCES:Breaking the Fourth Wall EpisodeThe WALL Blueprint for having hard conversations Sign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

This week I'm connecting two ideas: my Breaking the Fourth Wall concept and Brené Brown's research on fitting in versus belonging.Brené's research found something surprising, fitting in and belonging are not the same thing. Fitting in is actually the greatest barrier to belonging. It's a survival strategy: reading the room and becoming who you need to be to get accepted. Belonging is the opposite. It's internal, it's unconditional, and it doesn't ask you to change who you are.I dig into why this matters for leaders who want more self-confidence, what Brené's research says about belonging and standing alone, and how this connects directly to why breaking the fourth wall on your team matters.This week's tip: Notice when you're fitting in. Notice when you're getting smaller. And when you catch it, name the fear, then say the thing anyway.Mentioned in this episode:Brené Brown: The Call to Courage (Netflix) Daring Greatly by Brené Brown Dare to Lead by Brené Brown  Go back and listen to last week's episode on Breaking the Fourth Wall if you haven't already.Sign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

You don't have to wait for anyone to go first. You get to choose to be the first.In this episode, Desiree gives you a sneak peek into her brand new keynote, Breaking the Fourth Wall. It's a three-part approach to building trust with your team, and the starting point might surprise you.If your team has lost some ownership, engagement, or hope, this episode gets at the real reason why. Desiree opens with a personal story that reframes what leadership actually requires, then gets into why self-awareness is rarer than most leaders think and why even smart, capable people avoid difficult conversations at work.This is workplace communication and team accountability explained in a way you can actually use, whether you're leading two people or two hundred.What You'll LearnThe real reason 95% of people believe they're self-aware and only 10-15% actually areWhat's actually killing trust on your team before you even notice it's goneWhy your team avoids hard conversations at work (it's probably not the reason you think)The three C's Desiree uses to help leaders rebuild trust, starting with themselvesCTAIf your team is dealing with a lack of ownership, engagement, or hope, send Desiree an email. She'll help you figure out what rebuilding trust could look like for your specific team.Hit follow or subscribe wherever you listen so you don't miss next week's episode, where Desiree dives deeper into the candor piece of this framework and breaks down how to make hard conversations easier.Sign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

Some goals only get built because someone else believed in them first.This week's tip is simple: share your BHAG. Your Big Hairy Audacious Goal. The one you've been sitting on, half-convinced it's too big to say out loud.Desiree shares the origin story of the Intentional Leader Summit, a leadership development conference that started as a passing comment to a pastor she was working with. No funding. No real plan. Just an idea spoken out loud, and someone willing to say "let's do it."That summit is now in its third year, with over 200 attendees and 30 sponsorship companies, proof that big goals rarely grow in isolation. They grow when someone else gets to believe in them before you fully believe in them yourself.If you've got a goal you've been keeping to yourself, this episode is your nudge to say it out loud.What You'll LearnWhy speaking your goal out loud creates momentum silence never willHow the Intentional Leader Summit grew from a passing comment into a 200+ person leadership development conferenceWhat it looks like to let someone believe in your goal before you believe in it yourselfWhy staying quiet about your ambitions can be the very thing holding them backCall to Action Have a BHAG you've been keeping to yourself? Hit reply on this week's newsletter and tell Desiree what it is. Let's cheer you on.LinksIntentional Leader SummitDesiree's websiteSign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

Confidence gets talked about like it's something you're either born with or you're not. Extroverts have it, introverts don't. Some people just have "it" and some people never will.In this episode of You're the Boss, Now What?, Desiree Petrich pushes back on that idea completely. After coaching and speaking to thousands of leaders, she's found that self-leadership, not team dynamics, is usually the number one thing leaders want to work on. Not better meetings. Not less conflict. Confidence. The ability to speak up, to lead with executive presence, to trust their own decisions.This episode is about leadership development from the inside out. Five common beliefs about confident leaders get named, challenged, and turned into something usable.In this episode, you'll learn:Why the belief that confident leaders "don't let criticism get to them" is actually working against your growth, and the blue hair story that makes it clickHow to use the question "what if I'm the problem?" as a tool for better decisions, not self-doubtWhy comparison isn't the thief of joy when you use it on purpose, and how a DISC assessment changed the way Desiree leadsThe real difference between confidence and arrogance, and how imposter syndrome hides behind bothWhy your confidence at work is just your confidence at home wearing different clothes, and what that means for your leadership mindsetWhether you're managing a small team or leading an entire department, this episode reframes what leadership development actually requires. It's not about looking like you have it together. It's about knowing yourself well enough to lead like you mean it.If this episode helped you rethink what confident leadership looks like: Follow or subscribe wherever you listen so you don't miss Monday's leadership tip or next week's episode, where Desiree shares her brand new keynote concept, Breaking the Fourth Wall: The Secret to Building High Trust Teams.Want more leadership coaching and self-leadership tools in your inbox? https://desireepetrich.com/#newsletterJoin Desiree live at the Intentional Leader Summit in Marshall, or grab your copy of her book, Taking Intentional Action, to go deeper on the philosophy behind this episode.Sign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

In this episode:Why pressure and high expectations aren't the enemy, they can actually fuel more energyThe trap of hitting a goal and immediately moving to the next one without stopping to notice itDesiree's three things she chose to be proud of this week, and why she almost skipped the exerciseWhy saying "I'm proud of myself" out loud isn't selfish, it's leadershipHow your confidence gives other people permission to feel theirsTry this: List one to three things you're proud of this week. Say it out loud. Share it with someone.Connect with Desiree: Send her a message on LinkedIn or drop a comment on the episode Sign up for the weekly newsletter (link in show notes)Sign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

AI isn't coming for your job. But it is changing what leadership looks like.In this episode, Desiree sits down with Monica Marquez, founder of FlipWork, to talk about the human side of AI adoption. Monica breaks down why so many leaders feel behind, what your "zone of genius" actually means, and why delegation (yes, the same skill you use with your team) is now the skill that separates leaders who thrive with AI from leaders who get replaced by it.What You'll Learn:Why delegation is now an AI skill, not just a people skillThe four AI archetypes (and how to spot which one you are)How to use AI without losing your critical thinkingWhy "showing the long division" is the key to trustworthy AI outputWhat AI will never be able to replace in leadershipCall to Action: Curious where you land on the AI readiness spectrum? Take Monica's free Flip Factor assessment at flipfactor.ai and find out if you're an Explorer, Pioneer, Guardian, or Orchestrator.Links Mentioned:Take the Flip Factor AssessmentMonica Marques Ay Ay Ay AI! Newsletter Connect with Monica on LinkedInSign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...

This week's tip is simple: stop waiting for permission to enjoy your own life. Desiree shares a personal story about her garden, some ceramic mushrooms, and the "mad libs excuse" that almost kept her from adding a little joy to her everyday.Why "when this happens, I'll do that" is a trap (aka the mad libs excuse)The moment after her mom passed that changed how she looks for joyA simple, low-effort way to bring more whimsy into your daily lifeThe question to ask yourself about what you're waiting for permission to doWhat's one small thing you've been putting off just for you? Add it this week. Let it make you smile.Links & ResourcesBuy Desiree's Book - Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect with Desiree on LinkedinSign up for Desiree's Weekly newsletterTake the DISC or Working Genius Assessment and get a FREE 20 minutes debrief with Desiree Taking Intentional Action: How to Choose the Life You LeadConnect:  Linked In | Instagram | WebsiteThis podcast for managers is here to help you:• Grow your leadership development • Navigate team management with confidence • Learn how to handle conflict at work • Apply real, practical leadership tipsIf this episode helped you:Share it with anoth...