#015 - ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing Up

In this unfiltered and powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka sits down with Nollywood stars Olumide Oworu, Treasure Chikwendu, and Adegoke Adelusi for a raw, inspiring, and eye-opening conversation about acting, fame, Nollywood’s billion-dollar growth, the painful truth about auditions, stage vs screen performance, and the future of Nigerian cinema.From Olumide’s journey as a child star at 6, to Treasure’s breakout role as Ujunwa in Showmax’s Chet’M, to Goke’s classical theatre training at Covenant University, this episode goes beyond the surface to reveal the untold truths of Nollywood — the discipline, sacrifice, hustle, and resilience it takes to survive in an industry worth over $6 billion yet still struggling with structure and protection for its actors.If you’re passionate about film, theatre, auditions, Nollywood storytelling, acting careers, or the grind behind the glam, this episode will challenge your perspective and give you insider knowledge from three actors who live it daily.⏰ Timestamps & Topics00:00 – 05:50 – Olumide the Child StarHow Olumide Oworu became a successful child actor at 6, starting with jingles, radio commercials, and Nollywood auditions. He reflects on balancing school, fame, and childhood — and why being in front of the camera felt natural.05:51 – 15:00 – First Acting BreaksTreasure Chikwendu recalls her first audition and how her cousin led her into acting. She relives the intensity of her first stage role where she almost fainted, and why stage acting demands endurance. Goke explains how theatre shaped him, the importance of training, and why “less is more” on screen.15:01 – 22:00 – Nollywood Then vs NowThe trio compare Nollywood’s early days with today’s billion-dollar market. They discuss improvements in production quality, but ongoing issues with weak storylines. They debate cinema culture, the beef between old and new Nollywood generations, and what audiences now demand.1:05:01 – 1:14:00 – Life Beyond ActingOlumide talks about overworking himself, only taking his first vacation in 2024, and how fame comes with hidden sacrifices. Goke stresses the importance of balance, finding purpose outside acting, and building a life not solely defined by roles.1:14:01 – End – Politics, Legacy & Giving FlowersOlumide shares his interest in politics and the challenges of balancing public service with acting. The trio discuss why Nollywood actors must give each other flowers while alive, and the kind of legacy they want to leave. 🎤 GuestsOlumide Oworu — Nollywood actor (The Johnsons, A Tribe Called Judah, Shuga), model & politician.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/olumideoworu/Treasure Chikwendu — Actress, known for her breakout role as Ujunwa in ChetaM on Showmax.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_threashure/Adegoke Adelusi — Thespian, stage & film actor, Covenant University graduate with strong theatre background.Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/goke___/🎙 HostsTolu Afilaka — Host of That’s My Time PodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/#OlumideOworu #TreasureChikwendu #AdegokeAdelusi #Nollywood #That’sMyTimePodcast #NollywoodActors #ChildActor #TheJohnsons #ChetM #ATribeCalledJudah #StageVsScreen #AuditionStories #FilmSchool #NollywoodNow #ActingJourney #BehindTheScenes #NigeriaCinema #ActorLife #NollywoodLegends Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast, host Tolu Afilaka and co-host Daeola sit down with Pastor Lokachi of Celebration Church International (CCI) for a raw and inspiring conversation on purpose, purity, singlehood, relationships, honor, and spiritual growth.From his remarkable story of being a stillborn baby resuscitated through prayer, to discovering his calling to ministry as early as Primary 1, Pastor Lokachi shares how passion can point to purpose and how God redirected his journey even after facing rejection at Covenant University.We dive into real issues many Christians wrestle with today:Purpose & Passion: How to discover what God has called you to do.Spiritual Fathers vs Idolatry: The “Daddy” culture at Celebration Church and how Pastor Emmanuel Iren shaped his walk.Church Culture & Gen Z Faith: From Christ Embassy to Celebration Church, and dealing with slangs like “Christocentric Baddie.”Singleness, Love & Sexual Purity: Why love isn’t only logical, enjoying singlehood, and whether Christians should be on dating apps.Money & Ministry: Should music ministers be paid? How to balance God and mammon.Accountability & Friendship: The role of friends in calling out bad behavior and helping pastors through depression.This episode isn’t just about theology — it’s about living out faith in real life. Whether it’s setting high Christian standards, navigating ups and downs in devotion, or enjoying relationships the right way, Pastor Lokachi’s story will inspire you to walk in purpose with purity and confidence.🎧 Don’t just listen — join the conversation in the comments. Share your thoughts on dating apps for Christians, spiritual fatherhood, or singleness in today’s culture.00:00 Intro – Is Pastor Lokachi single?06:58 Stillborn story & early calling to ministry15:12 Idolizing men of God vs real honor18:25 Encounter with Pastor Iren & transition to CCI25:01 Gen-Z church slangs: “Christocentric baddie”30:15 High Christian standards & spiritual growth37:55 Depression, accountability & friendship45:28 Love, relationships & enjoying singlehood1:05:12 Should Christians be on dating apps?1:09:40 Should music ministers be paid? God vs mammon1:14:10 Sexual sin & the value of friendshipGuestPastor Lokachi — Celebration Church InternationalInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelokachi/HostsTolu Afilaka — Host of That’s My Time PodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/Daeola — Co-hostInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/daeola/ If you loved this conversation, hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with a friend who needs clarity on purpose, purity, and relationships.Drop your thoughts in the comments: Should Christians use dating apps in 2025?#PastorLokachi #PastorIren #CelebrationChurch #ChristianPodcast #ThatsMyTimePodcast #Purpose #SexualPurity #Singlehood #ChristianRelationships #ChristianFaith #ChristianDating #RealHonor #FaithAndCulture Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Meshkiey lost his dad and turned that pain into purpose. In this unfiltered conversation, he breaks down how he found his voice, built momentum while keeping a 9–5, and carved a lane in Nigeria’s ₦50 billion skit industry. We cover idea generation, characters, the money math behind skits, handling hate, faith, family, and the move toward film. If you’re a creator trying to grow without the hype, this is the blueprint.What you’ll learn:• Skits vs stand-up: why he chose short-form and how he writes fast• The creative system: characters, sourcing ideas, weekly workflow• Money talk: revenue streams, rates, and what actually pays• Mental game: handling comments, staying underrated, consistency• Life behind the lens: losing his dad, healing, work–faith balance• Next moves: films, judging videos, and long-form strategyChapters:00:00 Why skits, not stand-up; the early style10:00 Films next, is there money in skits, keeping a 9–5, social-media drama20:00 Faith, loss, working in a restaurant, living with ulcer, isolation and healing30:00 Name origin, getting into skits, how he judges videos, closing lessonsIf this helped, subscribe for creator-grade interviews every week. Comment “Meshkiey” if you want the notes and resource list, and I’ll send them.Links:• Watch more episodes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FDQV1oFep7I&list=PLUQKZaVlpq4l2Thtevz-CTWWcaPa4FDfb&pp=gAQB• Follow Meshkiey: https://www.instagram.com/meshkiey/• Follow Tolu Afilaka: https://www.instagram.com/p/DOx9ioECMqS/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

🎙️ EPISODE 4 – ADULTING 101: Real Talk on Relationships, Lagos Hustle & Growing UpIn this deeply personal and hilarious episode of That’s My Time, I’m joined by three amazing guests who represent different parts of my journey:Modupe Cole – my cousin, whom I haven’t seen in 18 years!Increase – my university classmate from our Civil Engineering days.Favour Nelson – a top productivity expert with gems for navigating life and work.Together, we dive into what no one really prepares you for — ADULTING. From choosing where to live (Kwara vs Lagos), to food struggles, navigating NYSC, dating in your 20s, and figuring out if work-life balance is even real — this episode is a raw and relatable look at growing up in Nigeria.We talked about:The shock of responsibilities and managing life aloneMaking important life decisions, including relationships and marriageMy cousin dating my close friend 😅The painful lessons I learned in a past relationshipHow many kids we each want 😂Lagos traffic and housing madnessModupe’s inspiring entrepreneurship journey with her crocheting businessIf gospel artistes should charge for ministrationOur future plans, personal growth, and moreIt’s funny, emotional, honest, and full of life lessons you didn’t know you needed. Whether you're 18, 25, or 30+, you’ll find yourself in this episode.📌 Timestamps: 0:00 – Intro 2:00 – The struggles of adulting 10:00 – Family, relationships & unexpected confessions 20:00 – NYSC, work-life chaos & productivity 35:00 – Entrepreneurship as a young Nigerian 41:00 – Gospel music, controversy & future plans 47:00 – Outro & final thoughts💬 Drop a comment – What’s been your biggest shock about adulthood? 📢 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on the notification bell for more real, raw and refreshing conversations!📌 Follow us on Instagram for BTS & more: @ThatsMyTimePodcast | @ToluAfilaka#Adulting101 #NigerianPodcast #ModupeCole #LagosLife #That’sMyTime #WorkLifeBalance #FavourNelson #GospelArtistes #LifeTalk #CrochetBusiness #NYSC #Relationships #ToluAfilaka Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Once Saved Always Saved? Tithing? Prosperity Gospel? Speaking in Tongues? We answer the BIG questions Christians are searching for right now.In this powerful episode of That’s My Time Podcast (Season 2, Episode 4), Joshua Tanimowo (@jay_posi) returns for a no-holds-barred Q&A on salvation, giving, spiritual warfare, prosperity gospel, mental health, and deep biblical truth.🎯 We break down:Is "Once Saved Always Saved" really biblical?What the Bible says about tithing (Old Testament vs New Testament)The truth behind the prosperity gospel teachingSpeaking in tongues: Is it proof of salvation?Justification by faith vs worksHow Abraham’s faith shows God’s graceThe Tower of Babel, tongues, and the language of heavenDemon possession vs oppressionWhy some prophecies failMental health & trauma inside the church💡 Key Bible topics covered:Hebrews 7Romans 4Genesis 12John 10:282 Corinthians 5:19PLUS: Healing testimonies, spiritual trauma recovery, and practical advice for growing in faith.👉 If you're tired of confusing theology and want to hear biblical teaching on salvation, tithing, prosperity, speaking in tongues, and Christian mental health — THIS IS FOR YOU.✅ Subscribe✅ Share with a friend✅ Comment your questions below🎙 Host: Tolu Afilaka (@toluafilaka)🎙 Guest: Joshua Tanimowo (@jay_posi)#OnceSavedAlwaysSaved #Tithing #ProsperityGospel #SpeakingInTongues #ChristianPodcast #BibleStudy #Faith #SpiritualWarfare #MentalHealth #Healing #JustificationByFaith #Salvation #ThatsMyTimePodcastWhat now with trevor noah, loose talk, i said what i said, so nigerian podcast, to my sisters,road to 30, modern wisdom, blackflame pod, toni told me, i get gist for you, menism,femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025Abuja land salesHow to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025How to make money with AI in NigeriaChatGPT business ideas NigeriaCrypto trading platforms Nigeria 2025How to start tech career Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

🎙️ In this powerful episode of That’s My Time, Tolu sits with SLK (Olu Salako Blessing) — Nigeria’s first comedian to land a solo Netflix special (Teetotaler). Beyond the spotlight is a raw story of pain, purpose & persistence.What you’ll hear:Comedy as calling — why SLK sees stand-up as spiritualGrowing up with theatre in his bloodEarly days: notebooks full of jokes & Covenant University hustleAcademic collapse & family pressureMoments of rejection, sacrifice & divine encouragementThe rise of Teetotaler & Nigerian stand-up’s new chapterFame vs. contentment: choosing purpose over popularityHis top 5 Nigerian comedians of all timeThis isn’t just jokes — it’s a brutally honest look at chasing dreams, creative struggles & breaking barriers in Nigeria’s comedy scene.🎧 Watch, share, comment & subscribe:🔗 Watch Episode 1📲 Follow: @toluafilaka | @slkomedy#SLK #TeetotalerNetflix #ThatMyTimePodcast #StandUpComedyNigeria #NetflixAfrica #ComedyPodcast #NigerianCreatives #FailingForward #PurposeDrivenWhat now with trevor noah, loose talk, i said what i said, so nigerian podcast, to my sisters,road to 30, modern wisdom, blackflame pod, toni told me, i get gist for you, menism,femi lazarus, Bola Tinubu appointments 2025NDIC new MD Oludare SundayUniversity Governing Council reshuffleMinimum wage increase Nigeria 2025AMVCA 2025 winnersDavido & Chioma wedding 2025 rumors (this one's always hot 🔥)Wizkid new album 2025BBNaija 2025 housematesSuper Eagles World Cup Qualifiers 2025Victor Osimhen transfer newsAFCON 2025 qualifiersEPL fixtures Nigeria timeTikTok Nigeria trendsNigerian skit makers 2025NaijaNoDeyCarryLastFunny TikTok audios Nigeria 2025Property prices in Lagos 2025Lekki new estate projects 2025Abuja land salesHow to start real estate business in Nigeria 2025JAMB results 2025WAEC 2025 answers (trust Nigerians 😅)Scholarships for Nigerians 2025Study visa Canada, UK, USA 2025How to make money with AI in NigeriaChatGPT business ideas NigeriaCrypto trading platforms Nigeria 2025How to start tech career Nigeria Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's Episode 9 of That's My Time podcast, and it's a full house yet again, as Tolu Afilaka & The Gang is Joined by a First Class Graduate of Covenant University Oluwabango Ayomide David, one of Tolu's Old Time friends.Conversations Range from the Idea of School being a Scam, The demand for First class Graduates in the labor market, decisions we made after leaving school, Things We Wished We Did Better in School, Growth Hacks and The Subject of Savings & Tithing, Nysc Experiences & whether we will be better ParentsListen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow That My Time https://www.instagram.com/thatsmytimepod/Follow Daeola https://www.instagram.com/daeola/Follow Grace https://www.instagram.com/foyinsayemi.ii/For Feedback and enquires [email protected]:00 Is School a Scam?8:00 First Decision After Graduation14:14 If you could go back to school?19:30 When Tolu was in school20:30 Personal Hacks for Growth24:45 When to SAVE29:40 Tithing38:00 Our NYSC experience41:50 Should parents give us space to think?43:55 Do you think we will be better parents?45:39 You're Getting closer to marriage, are you scared?52:18 Should everyone be an entrepreneur57:30 Nigerians are not very consistent58:40 ConclusionSo Nigerian i said what i saidMadam Joyce Cocktails & TakeawaysMenism Honest bunch podcast 234 essentials abel daminaloose talk Nysc life after school tithinguniversity nigeria graduate university of nigeria covenant university growth hackingnysc camp nysc camp experience nysc orientation nysc experience nysc ppasavings nysc yearnysc registration money tips on maximizing your nysc yearmake money as a corper what to do during nyscwhat to expect in nysc nysc in abuja back to schoolschool hacks back to school advice Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's Episode 8 of That's My Time podcast, and it's a full house as Tolu Afilaka hosted three ladies in the studio. June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, and we decided to take a deep dive into the minds of our biggest blessing and problem—women!Conversations range from why women can’t ask a guy out, what a man can do that a woman can do better, who moves on faster, what you’ll do when you find your boyfriend cheating, whether you think the Bible is biased against women, the pink tax, love at first sight, why women do better in academics, and many more!Get ready for a roller coaster as Tolu Afilaka goes head to head with three women. Let’s see who wins! Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us: Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaa Follow That My Time https://www.instagram.com/thatsmytimepod/ Follow Chidera Onuoha https://www.instagram.com/the.chideraonuoha/ Follow Daeola https://www.instagram.com/daeola/ Follow Grace https://www.instagram.com/foyinsayemi.ii/ For Feedback and enquires [email protected] Timestamps 5:00 Can you ask a guy out 10:19 What a man can do 13:14 Who moves on faster ? 16:30 If you catch your boyfriend cheating? 23:00 Bible biased to women ? 27:45 Love at first sight 34:50 Can you bill a man? 42:00 Dissappointment 46:50 Women in Academics 53:55 This generation knows God 55:39 I've not fallen sick since 2019 58:18 can you do best friends ?relationshipheartbreakcovenant universitysaida bojso nigeriantea with taykanayo o kanayoHonest bunch,--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode, Tolu Afilaka hosted Ifeanyi Amayo, An esteemed Nigerian female serial entrepreneur boasting numerous accolades, hailing from Delta state, she commands a distinguished reputation within the entertainment and management sectors. Her illustrious journey began during her undergraduate tenure at the esteemed Babcock University, where she showcased exceptional talent in orchestrating comedy shows and concerts. This early success laid the foundation for her future endeavors.In October 2018, she boldly ventured forth to establish Iplanwonders Event Productions, swiftly ascending to the forefront of Nigeria's event production landscape. Today, she stands as a beacon of excellence, revered as one of the most sought-after event planners and production managers within Nigeria's vibrant comedy industry.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow Ifeanyi Amayohttps://www.instagram.com/ifeanyiamayo/For Feedback and enquires [email protected] StampsMeeting Slk : 5:00Talent Management : 10:00Same Job Description with her husband : 15:00Stumbling into Event Planning : 20:00Top 5 Comedians : 22:00Joke Thieves : 30:00The Growing Comedy culture : 35:00Ifeanyi Work Insane Work ethic : 36:00How ifeanyi Relaxes : 40:00Overcoming Depression : 45:00Anxiety Disorder & Blood pressure : 50:00Giving Ifeanyi Her flowers : 53:00--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode, Tolu Afilaka hosted Forever, his mentor, role model, and a man whom he greatly admires.During this episode, they went deep into the remarkable story of how Forever healed a blind lady during his time as a youth pastor. They discuss the vision the lady saw that caused her blindness, his experiences touring with Basketmouth, and the strategic relationships he has cultivated with Moses Bliss, Mercy Chinwo, and Josh Talker.They also touch on unexpected moments, such as Forever applying for the job of a sales girl, and the amusing anecdote of how he met his wife, who initially denied his proposal. Love at first sight, early struggles, and his first introduction to comedy are explored, along with the surprising memory of serving jollof rice at a show that left him utterly shocked.Listen to the full episode, and you’ll definitely love it. Remember to like, share, and subscribe." https://pod.link/1509581257Connect with us:Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/toluafilaka/X (Twitter) : https://twitter.com/toluafilakaaFollow Foreverhttps://www.instagram.com/forevercfr/For Feedback and enquires [email protected] Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thatsmytimepod/support Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.