085: Set yourself up for Valentine's success

We are taking a huge leap and relocating our family all while trying to buy a house in one of the worst housing markets in the country. But, more importantly, we are celebrating 14 years of marriage- lessons & takeaways. We talk sex, we talk divorce, we talk about how we have changed. And we get a bit cheesy, too.  Sex podcast with the Connection Codes: www.connectioncodes.co/sextalk Join Connection Codes waitlist to start your journey to a more peaceful/happier marriage: www.connectioncodes.co/foundations

We know that there is a lot of exception and ultimately disappointment surrounding Valentine's day. But it is actually a great holiday at the heart of it. Today, we talk about setting realistic expectations, showing up for each other, and spreading love to those around you. 

If you have ever wanted more in your sexual relationship OR you have found yourself being the person unable to give more... this episode is a moment for you to not feel alone. We break down our most recent fight and how we don't have any guilt in what we individually desire while struggling that those two things don't meet.

Fear in the bedroom can be a roadblock to having great sex. Today, Wes and Tera break down their 5 top fears and process them together. It is insightful the types of fears that Tera realized first compared to Wes... and it wasn't at all what she expected. Today is definitely funny, easy to listen to, and relatable... but it isn't for small humans. If you want to learn how to easily process your emotions click here and use code igetit25 for 25% off

We haven’t left our house in a week- so the thoughts are getting a bit random. But that just means we are sharing thoughts from all the things- work life, marriage, friendship… nothing too deep. Just take a breath with us.

We are one week and it is easy to feel our momentum ball starting to grow smaller. Today, we talk about keeping the momentum going and how to start it back when we lose it. 

In this episode we talk about how we're setting up goals and resolutions for the new year! Rather than just saying somethings we want to be better at or do in the new year, we talk about who we want to become in life and how we can use the new year to fuel these goals.  To connect with Tera: https://www.instagram.com/terawages/

The best way to end a year is to look back to both learn lessons & feel gratitude. You have to see where you have been so you can learn where you are going. Today's episode is personal, but there are a lot of lessons in it from financial vulnerability to our biggest marriage wins. We share mistakes and triumphs. We also show how to categorize your year to gain the best understanding of yourself. To connect with Tera: https://www.instagram.com/terawages/

This is a quote I’ve heard more than once & while it may technically be true, viewing our life by the hours we have doesn’t actually correlate to how much we can achieve. Today, we talk about a different way to reframe our time when it comes to tackling our to do list.

Does your partner ever get mad just because you are mad? But you weren't even mad at them to begin with? Well, we struggle with that quite a lot around here. Today, we not so gracefully break down an argument we had just this past weekend. This is a real and honest play by play conversation between Wes and I, but at the end of it, we come to a nice resolution that if we can finally get into regular practice will change SO much about how we fight... and maybe how you do, too. The Connection Codes Course- discount IGETIT25 Tera's Instagram