S2: Ep 002: Friends After 40

Coming Out Over and Over Again | Husbantr Season 2, Episode 5Coming out isn't always a one-time event. Sometimes it's a conversation we find ourselves having over and over again, even after years of living openly and authentically. 🏳️‍🌈This week on Husbantr, we're talking about the unexpected moments when we find ourselves coming out all over again. From casually mentioning our husbands to navigating uncomfortable encounters and deciding when it's safe to be ourselves, we're exploring why coming out doesn't necessarily end after that first big conversation.We also reflect on how our past experiences can shape the way we move through the world, whether younger generations are experiencing coming out differently and why being unapologetically ourselves can still take courage.Plus, this week's Word of the Gay is CLOCKED, and we're revealing some of our most unexpected celebrity crushes in Husbantr Hot Takes!Two husbands, two perspectives and plenty of bantr.Remember, Life is Better with a little Bantr. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Every couple argues, but what happens when one person gets over it in five minutes and the other more time? ✈️This week on Husbantr, we're talking about how we fight, how we cool down and why getting back to normal after an argument can look very different for each person. From quick tempers to slow burns, we're exploring what happens when two people have completely different approaches to conflict.Plus, we're putting our marriage to the test with a cheeky round of Would You Rather in Husbantr Hot Takes!Two husbands, two perspectives and plenty of bantr.Remember, Life is Better with a little Bantr. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Are you a believer in signs from the universe, spiritual energy and things you just can't explain? Or do you think it's all a little too woo woo?This week on Husbantr, David and J. Brandon explore the world of spirituality, intuition and the beliefs that make us question what's real, what's coincidence and what's just in our heads.With two husbands, two perspectives and plenty of bantr, they're getting curious about the things we can't always see or explain.Because sometimes, life gets a little weird. And sometimes, that's where the best conversations begin.Remember, Life is Better with a little Bantr. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

“We should hang out sometime!” Famous last words.Why does making new friends feel so much harder as we get older? This week, David and J. Brandon get into the awkwardness of adult friendships, how marriage and changing priorities affect our relationships, and whether we're actually putting in the effort to be good friends ourselves.Plus, Word of the Gay introduces us to a Good Judy, and Husbantr Hot Takes tackles all the things we're officially too old to pretend are fun.Because making friends is one thing. Keeping them? That's a whole other conversation.Remember, Life is Better with a little Bantr. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Husbantr is BACK for Season 2!Who's the alpha in your relationship? And does there even need to be one?In our Season 2 premiere, we're exploring alpha and beta dynamics in relationships through the lens of two queer married men. Who takes charge? Do those roles change depending on the situation? And are we putting too much emphasis on who's in control?Plus, Word of the Gay returns! And it wouldn't be Husbantr without Husbantr Hot Takes. This episode, we're taking a shallow dive into which of your favorite celebrities give off top, bottom or vers energy.Two husbands, two perspectives and plenty of bantr.Remember, Life is Better with a little Bantr. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of Husbantr Hot Takes, David and J. Brandon are sharing some of their biggest marriage dos and don'ts, and nothing is off limits. From whether it's ever okay to poop while your spouse is in the bathroom to why talking behind your partner's back can quietly damage a relationship, they tackle the habits that strengthen a marriage and the ones that can slowly tear it apart. Along the way, they discuss the importance of brutal honesty, healthy communication, respecting boundaries and knowing when to laugh at yourselves. Equal parts funny, heartfelt and refreshingly honest, this episode is filled with personal stories, hot takes and plenty of moments that will have couples saying, "Yep... we've been there." Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Welcome back to another Husbantr Hot Takes, our between-season series where we dive into one topic that's been living rent-free in our heads. This week, we're talking about The Downside of Therapy. Before anyone comes for us, let us be crystal clear. We are huge proponents of therapy and truly believe it can be life-changing. But just because something is good doesn't mean it's beyond criticism. From bad therapists and poor advice to people who weaponize what they've learned in therapy, we're unpacking the conversations that don't happen nearly enough. Is every therapist the right fit? Can therapy language be misused? And when does "doing the work" become an excuse instead of a solution? It's an honest, thoughtful and sometimes hilarious conversation about the side of therapy we don't talk about enough. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Couple Q's is back, but this time J. Brandon is in the driver's seat. After putting J. Brandon on the hot seat in Part 1, it's David's turn to answer a fresh batch of random questions. From heartfelt moments to hilarious stories, you never know where the conversation is going to go. How well do you think you know the husbands? Play along! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

It's time for the first-ever installment of Couple Q's on Husbantr Hot Takes! A fun little game for couples, or even besties. This time around J. Brandon picks a mystery category at random, and he and David answer whatever question is waiting for them. The result? A fun, unscripted conversation filled with laughter, nostalgia and honest reflections. Play along with your own partner, spouse, or best friend by answering each question before David and J. Brandon do. Think you have a great question for a future episode? Leave it in the comments, send them a message on social media, or tag @Husbantr in your own Couple Q's answers. Your question might just make it into the next installment! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What happens when David and J. Brandon decide to record a podcast after a little quality time with the devil's lettuce? Chaos. Questionable decision-making. Uncontrollable laughter. And somehow... one of the most honest episodes of Husbantr Hot Takes yet. In this special unfiltered edition, the husbands swap some of their funniest, wildest, and most memorable high stories—while actively being high themselves. No scripts. No filters. Just pure bantr. The stories get weird. The tangents get weirder. And the laughter? Nonstop. Life is better with a little bantr... Husbantr! 🍃🎙️ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See https://pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.