31 The Thing About Labels (Ali Kolbert)

Can't believe we are saying this but How Cum is now-- How Came, and How Went! In other words, after 6 seasons and countless guests and a million different topics we are finished. Today's episode is all about what got this whole thing started-- female healthcare (or the lack thereof) and we are discussing it with Tia's Dr. Shreya Reddy and comedian Lauren Hope Krass. We are talking why Dr. Reddy entered this field, Tia (a clinic specifically for female healthcare), and how Lauren's life has been changed by Tia. My life was changed IMMENSELY by this podcast and I am so so grateful to everyone who supported this journey and who came along for the ride. We may still record some new episodes -- and if we do, they will ONLY be posted on Patreon, and maybe someday it will even C*M BACK in a big way. But for now it is so long, and thank you, and I love you all very much.   Did You Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  You can STILL put your first O experience on our first time map it is as anonymous as you would like it to be! Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras like this Post Coitus chat on Patreon Check out our website for merch!

Comedian and creator Jessie Jolles turns the art of getting dressed into an act of seduction—of self, of confidence, of truth. In this intimate, laugh-out-loud conversation, she strips down the layers of performance and slips into something far more revealing: radical self-love. From the thrill of a perfectly fitted outfit to the power of saying no with style, Jessie reminds us that the sexiest thing you can wear is your own comfort. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Jessie @JessieJolles Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Comedian and writer Alison Leiby (The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, Broad City, The President Show) comes on to discuss her memoir "I'm a Lot", exploring deeply personal and cultural topics such as abortion, sexuality, relationships, and media representation. From there, she takes us behind the screen and reveals the ways television shapes how we see women, sex, and control. From the glossy chaos of Bravo to the tired tropes of "very special episodes," Allison and Remy unpack how pop culture scripts our ideas about abortion, pleasure, and power—and what happens when comedians rewrite those stories with honesty and humor. It's a sharp, funny, and fearless look at the TV narratives that raised us, and the new ones we're ready to tell. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Allison @AlisonLeiby Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

When romance meets rent and receipts, things can get messy. In this candid chat with Smoov founder and CEO Tucker Cohen, we dive into the emotional and practical side of managing money as a couple — from who pays for dinner to how to keep things fair when life (and kids) come into play. Tucker shares the story behind Smoov, the app designed to take the awkwardness out of shared finances and make transparency feel, well… sexy. Expect insights on modern relationships, financial equality, and why talking about money might just be the new love language. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Tucker @TuckFitz Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch! *This episode is not an ad nor a personal endorsement 

HAPPY NEW YEAR CUMPANIONS AND NEW CUMMERS! Is the New Year the only time you can set new goals or decide you are going to change something massive about your life? Absolutely not, but let's do it anyway. We are talking self improvement and becoming more yourself with hilarious comedian Liz Glazer. Liz tells us about her love of self-help books as well as how attending Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), Debtors Anonymous (DA), Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) changed her life for the better immensely. We also chat about toxic sex, the excitement of forbidden-ness, the different sides of the brain-- and how distracting it can make for better O's. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Liz @lizglazer Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

What is wrong with men with nieces, men with thousands of plants, and men who rock climb? NYC comedian Stewart Fullerton is here with her official list of red flags for the unfairer sex and we are laughing through all of it. (Spoiler, we're not full-on misandrists we just love a giggle!) We also talk about toxic boy moms, car sex in LA, Stewart's rules for dating within a friend group, and how putting an intentional pause on her dating life has helped her career soar. If you date boys we highly recommend this episode and if you ARE a boy (are you a boy??) we challenge you to listen to it ALL THE WAY THROUGH. We promise, there will be a big payoff! Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Stewart @stewartandchill Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

We've had many a "late-bloomer" on this podcast, but Lissa Lennis might be our favorite! (And she may honestly make us re-think the term altogether!) We are talking about why it took her until 30 to lose her virginity, an amazing story of first time oral(s), the nightmare that is cuffing season, the recent and favorable re-branding of "Big Beautiful Women" + "Short Kings," recording yourself during sex, Lissa's Kama Sutra goals for 2026 and why she doesn't tell men she is a comedian for the first few dates. TW: Weight loss surgery and body image discussed Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Lissa @dammn_lissa Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Sure love is blind-- but if you are a person who needs glasses, is sex blind too? We are joined by hysterical Portland based comedian, and glasses wearer, Imani Denae to talk all things sex and romance from the perspective of someone with limited vision.  She also tells us about growing up in a home with polyamorous parents and how it shaped her personal views of sex and relationships.  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Imani @ImaniDenae_ Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

Kenice Mobley is a hilarious New York based comedian and writer who had a stroke at 36 years old. Four years later we are discussing how it happened, all of the rehabilitation she had to go through post stroke, and how important it was for her to get her orgasms back. She tells us how she did it and we learn some very important information about different types of strokes; how to know that one is happening, and how to change your mindset if you are healing from one. Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Kenice @KeniceMobley Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!

We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian who sometimes will fuck a guy. We also talk about Ali ending her engagement, toxic relationships, hating how people post on Instagram, and so much more.  Love How C*m? -- RATE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE  Follow Ali @AliKolbert Follow / DM us at @HowCumPodcast @RemyKassimir Support the podcast/ get extras on Patreon Check out our website for extra info & merch!