“Everyone Else Looks Like They’ve Got It Together”: A Simple Habit for the Homeschool Mom Who Feels Behind // 319

Ever looked around your homeschool and thought, “Am I even doing this right?” You’re juggling curriculum, caregiving, emotional support, and keeping everyone fed—and it can feel like everything is slipping through the cracks. I’ve been there. And I want to speak directly to your heart today.In this episode, I share a personal story about a year I felt like a complete failure—when even my simplest plans fell apart. Together, we’ll unpack what it really means to feel like you’re failing, why that feeling doesn’t mean you’re doing anything wrong, and how God meets us in the middle of the mess.If you’re starting this homeschool year already wondering if you’ve messed it up—this is for you. You’ll leave with encouragement, biblical truth, and a simple reflection tool that can reframe your perspective and anchor your heart.Let’s walk through this together.💛 KatieP.S. If this episode speaks to you, don’t miss:🎧 Episode #296: Gentle encouragement when you're needing a big boost🎧 Episode #316: “I Love Homeschooling, But I Hate the Way Our Days Feel”🎧Episode #318: Tools for Peaceful Parenting When You’re Tired of Yelling  🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 Road Trip Mysteries USA Edition – A story‑driven cross‑country adventure packed with puzzles, mystery, history, and geography. Perfect for ages 8–12, screen‑free fun, and available in softcover or Kindle.📚 Road Trip Mysteries Yellowstone Edition – Explore the wonders of Yellowstone National Park through an interactive mystery adventure! Kids follow clues, learn about geysers, wildlife, and history, and unlock a final code to earn their Legacy Keeper badge. Available in softcover or Kindle. 🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy🌟 Other Episodes You’ll Love📌 Episode #231 – From Drowning in To‑Do’s to Celebrating WinsA simple mindset shift that helps you see progress even in the chaos.📌 Episode #285 – Feeling Scattered? 8 Micro‑Routines Every Mom NeedsSmall rhythms that bring focus and calm to your homeschool journey.📌 Episode #316 – “Everything Is Loud. I Can’t Think. I Feel Paralyzed”Tools to quiet the external and internal overwhelm when life feels too noisy. 💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much! GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneeds MORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

Hey friend— This one’s tender. Because even though I’m not naturally a yeller, I’ve had seasons where the pressure, the noise, the responsibilities… it all just spilled over. And I’d snap. But the shame that followed always hurt worse than the yelling itself.In today’s episode, I’m opening up about those moments and what they taught me. We’ll walk through the difference between external behavior and internal signals—why yelling is usually a red flag that something deeper needs care. I’ll show you simple, practical tools that help you regulate your emotions, guide your kids with gentleness, and create calm even in a loud, high-demand season.If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “This isn’t the mom I want to be…”—this one’s for you.We’ll also talk about the biblical roots of gentleness, how family government reduced the friction in my home, and why yelling is often your body’s cry for support—not a sign you’re failing.💛 KatieP.S. If this episode blesses you, listen next to Episode #16 (my conversation with Rosemary Clark on boundaries and love), and check out the Family Government series in Episodes #196–#200 for more on creating peace and structure at home.  🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 Road Trip Mysteries USA Edition – A story‑driven cross‑country adventure packed with puzzles, mystery, history, and geography. Perfect for ages 8–12, screen‑free fun, and available in softcover or Kindle.📚 Road Trip Mysteries Yellowstone Edition – Explore the wonders of Yellowstone National Park through an interactive mystery adventure! Kids follow clues, learn about geysers, wildlife, and history, and unlock a final code to earn their Legacy Keeper badge. Available in softcover or Kindle. 🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy🌟 Other Episodes You’ll Love📌 Episode #16 – Raising Godly Kids with Love & Boundaries (Interview with Rosemary Clark)A foundational talk about balancing love and boundaries in Christian parenting.📌 Episode #196 – What is Family Government? A Biblical Way to Reduce FrictionLearn how family government can reduce chaos and clarify your household expectations.📌 Episode #197 – Family Government: What It Looks Like in Daily LifeGet practical examples for setting up peaceful systems at home.📌 Episode #198 – Family Government: How to Start Without OverwhelmA grace-filled guide to implementing gentle structure in your home.📌 Episode #199 – Family Government: FAQs and EncouragementI answer common questions and encourage you in the journey.📌 Episode #200 – Family Government: How It Changed My Home for GoodA heartfelt testimony about how these tools created peace and clarity in my family life. 💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much! GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneeds MORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

Do you ever feel like you’re the only one doing everything—again?You’ve even tried chore charts. You’ve talked, asked, begged.But somehow… the crumbs are still there. The socks multiply. And no one else seems to notice.I’ve been there too. And I want to gently walk with you through this.In this episode of Her Home and Heart, I’ll share:A vulnerable moment when I felt unseen after years of trying to keep our home goingThe two chore systems that truly helped us (after trying so many!)How I used FlyLady’s gentle structure to reset our routines with graceWhat happened when I fell ill and realized my kids had learned so much more than I thoughtHow you can start (or restart) a simple system that works—without becoming the nag or the martyrThis isn’t about doing it all.It’s about doing it together.Let’s release the guilt, quiet the resentment, and build a home where everyone plays a part—one step at a time.With grace and practical help,KatieP.S. And if you need encouragement that chore training matters, I highly recommendthis article from The Atlantic.❤️ Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 Road Trip Mysteries USA Edition – A story‑driven cross‑country adventure packed with puzzles, mystery, history, and geography. Perfect for ages 8–12, screen‑free fun, and available in softcover or Kindle.📚 Road Trip Mysteries Yellowstone Edition – Explore the wonders of Yellowstone National Park through an interactive mystery adventure! Kids follow clues, learn about geysers, wildlife, and history, and unlock a final code to earn their Legacy Keeper badge. Available in softcover or Kindle.🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy Other Episodes You Might Enjoy:Here’s the updated version of the “Other Episodes You Might Enjoy” list — now fully aligned with the theme and message of Episode #317:“I Feel Like I'm the Only One Doing Everything”: Reset Your Chore System for Sanity and Support🌟 Other Episodes You Might Enjoy📌 #231 – From Drowning in To-Dos to Celebrating Wins: 1 Simple Shift for MomsFeeling stretched thin? This episode helps you reframe your mindset so you can experience more peace and progress each day.📌 #285 – Feeling Scattered? 8 Micro-Routines Every Mom NeedsGentle, repeatable systems that can anchor your days and support your family—especially when you feel pulled in all directions.📌 #295 – The 10-Minute Morning Reset That Changes EverythingPair this with Episode #317 to create peace and momentum—starting first thing in the morning.📌 #310 – “Everything Is Loud. I Can’t Think. I Feel Paralyzed”: How to Create Peace When Life Feels Too LoudIf noise, chaos, or clutter is overstimulating your mind, this episode will help you reset your nervous system and regain calm.📌 #308 – How to Declutter Without Getting Overwhelmed: A Gentle Plan for Christian MomsClutter makes everything harder. Use this peaceful approach to clear space and lighten your load—without the stress.💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)LOVE Homeschooling Your Special Needs ChildMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!Escaping OVERWHELM - Landing Pageherhomeandheart.com

Does your brain ever feel like it’s buzzing before you’ve even had your coffee?If your homeschool days are filled with noise, clutter, constant motion, and mental overwhelm, and your inner world feels just as chaotic, this episode is for you. I remember a day when I felt completely paralyzed by the noise in my life—until something surprising helped me reset. Today, I’m sharing that story and what I’ve learned since, so you can find a moment of peace right where you are.You’ll learn how external and internal “noise” impact your mind, your mood, and your ability to parent with clarity. Plus, I’ll walk you through simple sensory resets—like calming music, noise boundaries, and body-based strategies—to restore your nervous system, even in a loud home.💛 This episode will help you breathe again… and begin again.XOXO, ❤️ Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 Road Trip Mysteries USA Edition – A story‑driven cross‑country adventure packed with puzzles, mystery, history, and geography. Perfect for ages 8–12, screen‑free fun, and available in softcover or Kindle.📚 Road Trip Mysteries Yellowstone Edition – Explore the wonders of Yellowstone National Park through an interactive mystery adventure! Kids follow clues, learn about geysers, wildlife, and history, and unlock a final code to earn their Legacy Keeper badge. Available in softcover or Kindle.🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy🌟 Other Episodes You’ll Love📌 #284 – Clutter or Chaos? 3 Reasons You Can’t Declutter (And What to Do Instead)Overwhelm and visual chaos are connected. This episode unpacks the hidden obstacles and clears the way for peace.📌 #285 – Feeling Scattered? 8 Micro-Routines Every Mom NeedsThese quick routines offer powerful support to anchor your family and homeschool day.📌 #295 – The 10-Minute Morning Reset That Changes EverythingPair this with today's episode to create peace and momentum—starting in the morning.📌 #306 – The Overwhelmed Mom’s Simplification Plan: Rhythms, Rest, and PeaceA roadmap to escape burnout using simple, sustainable rhythms that support your energy.📌 #310 – From Resentful to Recharged: 3 Surprising Ways to Reset Your Mom BrainLearn how to reset your mindset and energy with simple practices that help you feel like yourself again.💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)LOVE Homeschooling Your Special Needs ChildMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!Escaping OVERWHELM - Landing Pageherhomeandheart.com

Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you’re still behind in your homeschool day? You’re juggling all the moving parts of family life—yet the to-do list grows and the peace you imagined seems out of reach.In this episode, I share a personal story of overwhelm and offer a simple way to bring calm and clarity to your homeschool and family flow. You’ll learn the difference between anchors (steady points in your day) and rhythms (the flexible flow around them), and how they work together to create a more peaceful home atmosphere.Whether your current routine feels too rigid or too chaotic, this gentle habit-building approach can help you reset with confidence.❤️ Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 Road Trip Mysteries USA Edition – A story‑driven cross‑country adventure packed with puzzles, mystery, history, and geography. Perfect for ages 8–12, screen‑free fun, and available in softcover or Kindle.📚 Road Trip Mysteries Yellowstone Edition – Explore the wonders of Yellowstone National Park through an interactive mystery adventure! Kids follow clues, learn about geysers, wildlife, and history, and unlock a final code to earn their Legacy Keeper badge. Available in softcover or Kindle.🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy🌟 Other Episodes You’ll Love📌 #163 – Homeschool Tutorials vs. Homeschool Co-ops: Which One Fits Your Family Best?Clarify your educational rhythm and choose what fits your family dynamic best.📌 #169 – 5 Steps to Nurturing Strong Sibling Relationships with Charlotte Mason PrinciplesBuild peace and connection into your daily routine through relationship-centered rhythms.📌 #231 – From Drowning in To-Do’s to Celebrating Wins: 1 Simple Mindset ShiftA simple inner shift that helps reduce overwhelm and bring joy into your rhythm.📌 #285 – Feeling Scattered? 8 Micro-Routines Every Mom NeedsThese quick routines offer powerful support to anchor your family and homeschool day.📌 #295 – The 10-Minute Morning Reset That Changes EverythingPair this with today's episode to create peace and momentum—starting in the morning.💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneedsMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

Have you ever looked at the clock at 2:00 PM and realized—yet again—you haven’t started math? You’re doing all the things, but nothing ever feels like enough.I’ve been there. I was juggling medical appointments, babies 16 months apart, portfolio requirements, and never-ending laundry. I lived in a constant state of anxiety, never feeling caught up or good enough. I knew something had to change, but I didn’t want a rigid schedule that would just make me feel like more of a failure.That’s when I discovered the power of anchor-based rhythms—and it completely shifted the way our homeschool flowed. In this episode, I’ll show you the 3 anchor points that gently shape our day and how they brought our family more peace (without adding more to my plate).If you’ve been chasing a perfect routine, let me show you a better way—one that works with your real life, not against it.I even included 3 bonus tools—like loop scheduling and the Daily 3—to make this so doable, even on hard days.❤️ Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 Road Trip Mysteries USA Edition – A story‑driven cross‑country adventure packed with puzzles, mystery, history, and geography. Perfect for ages 8–12, screen‑free fun, and available in softcover or Kindle.📚 Road Trip Mysteries Yellowstone Edition – Explore the wonders of Yellowstone National Park through an interactive mystery adventure! Kids follow clues, learn about geysers, wildlife, and history, and unlock a final code to earn their Legacy Keeper badge. Available in softcover or Kindle.🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy Other Episodes You Might Enjoy:#163 – Homeschool Tutorials vs. Homeschool Co-ops: Which One is Right for You? — A helpful look at homeschool rhythms and how your schedule impacts learning.#169 – 5 Steps to Nurturing Strong Sibling Relationships with Lasting Peace — How habits and intentional routines strengthen your family’s connections.#231 – From Drowning in To-Dos to Celebrating Wins: 1 Simple Shift for Moms — Using rhythms to restore peace when life feels chaotic.#285 – Feeling Scattered? 8 Micro-Routines Every Mom Needs — Simple, repeatable systems to keep your home and homeschool running smoothly.#295 – The 10-Minute Morning Reset That Changes Everything — A short, impactful habit to start your day with clarity and peace.💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneedsMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

Ever feel like your homeschool days are barely held together by coffee and duct tape? I’ve been there. And I’ve discovered something that changed everything: the foundation of peace and progress isn’t a perfect curriculum—it’s habit formation—for our kids and ourselves.In this “Summer Throwback” episode, I’m opening up about how the Charlotte Mason approach to habits has helped our family navigate military life, special needs parenting, and everyday chaos. We’ll dive into how to start small, set realistic expectations, and use habit training to create consistency and peace.If you’ve been craving more peaceful homeschool days, less yelling, and a family rhythm that works, this one’s for you❤️ Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 The Road Trip Mysteries – Explore Fun Learning!https://www.amazon.com/Road-Trip-Mysteries-Yellowstone/dp/B0FH9VPT38/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36LVJ98LLA0N0&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.BRuKHdXeKZDkeu0dF3ufQ-5FAV2xn4FBGEMHtQvXZjrLHovmxZGN_cD6lS-kiSpZdW9NGUS7h0xJj72KxYUOSeO-lq0QtYVfwxxWR3JgMwD4OVq0GzAmL9rAHzDXKgRP.TNmgMEUz5zUp9MtPAgNgWDgNpP0nZs7_iuBdeGt9w0k&dib_tag=se&keywords=road+trip+mysteries+yellowstone&qid=1753233515&sprefix=road+trip+mysteries+yellowstone%2Caps%2C79&sr=8-1🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and EnergyRelated Charlotte Mason Episodes:#161,#163,#175,#179,#180,#182💡 Please Leave a Review:If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneedsMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

If you’ve ever felt completely overwhelmed by motherhood—juggling appointments, trying to homeschool, and holding everything together without help—this episode is for you. In this Summer Throwback, I’m sharing the simple, grace-filled system I created during a season of solo parenting and total exhaustion.When my husband was deployed and I was managing therapies, special diets, and daily life with little ones, I didn’t need a fancy planner—I needed a lifeline. So I made a three-ring notebook with basic daily checklists, snack ideas, therapy notes, and even encouraging Scripture. It wasn’t perfect, but it became my sanity-saver.You’ll also hear how this tool brought calm to our home and made space for connection, rest, and joy—things I never thought possible in that season. Whether you’re drowning in to-dos, managing special needs, or just craving a little more peace, this episode offers practical encouragement to help you simplify and breathe again.📖 “The wise woman builds her house…” (Proverbs 14:1)Let’s build homes of peace—even in imperfect seasons—with small tools that make a big difference.With love and grace,Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 The Road Trip Mysteries – Explore Fun Learning!https://www.amazon.com/Road-Trip-Mysteries-Yellowstone/dp/B0FH9VPT38/ref=sr_1_1?crid=36LVJ98LLA0N0&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.BRuKHdXeKZDkeu0dF3ufQ-5FAV2xn4FBGEMHtQvXZjrLHovmxZGN_cD6lS-kiSpZdW9NGUS7h0xJj72KxYUOSeO-lq0QtYVfwxxWR3JgMwD4OVq0GzAmL9rAHzDXKgRP.TNmgMEUz5zUp9MtPAgNgWDgNpP0nZs7_iuBdeGt9w0k&dib_tag=se&keywords=road+trip+mysteries+yellowstone&qid=1753233515&sprefix=road+trip+mysteries+yellowstone%2Caps%2C79&sr=8-1🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy💡 Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneedsMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

This quick story might change the way you think about decluttering forever.In today’s Pouring Out the Heart of It, I share what happened when I let someone else take over a mess—right in the middle of my chaos—and how that “shortcut” turned out to be a blessing for my home, my child, and my peace of mind.If you’ve ever felt guilty for not doing everything yourself, this episode is your permission slip to let go and let someone else step in. Especially as we wrap up June’s decluttering theme, this might be the gentle reset you didn’t know you needed.Scripture: Proverbs 13:20 (ESV) – “Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise.”With love,Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 The Road Trip Mysteries – Explore Fun Learning!🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy💡 Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneedsMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com

Have you ever walked into your kitchen and felt like it was yelling at you? Overflowing snack bins, forgotten leftovers, and no plan for dinner? I’ve been there too, and in today’s episode, I’m bringing you right into my pantry and basement decluttering journey.We’re talking about how simplifying your kitchen and food rhythms can calm the chaos and bring true peace to your days. I’ll share my three most powerful resets: clearing your pantry with purpose, creating a flexible meal rhythm, and doing one 30-minute prep session each week.We’ll also look at what science says about clutter and stress—and what Scripture reminds us about God’s design for peace in our homes. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about stepping into your calling as a homemaker who nourishes her family, body and soul.Let’s walk through this together, one shelf, one bite, and one prayer at a time. 💛With love,Katie🌟 Mentioned in This Episode:📚 The Road Trip Mysteries – Explore Fun Learning!🎉 Join Our Free Community – Homeschool Lifestyle for Christian Families💬 Energy Boost SECRET for moms:Peak Energy SolutionActivation and Energy💡 Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged you, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps so much!GIFT:10 Secrets To Homeschooling Your High Needs Child (WITHOUT Losing Your Mind)http://herhomeandheart.net/specialneedsMORE GOODIES and FUN THINGS!https://bit.ly/m/HerHomeandHeartherhomeandheart.com