Quick Question: I Know She Likes Oral. How Can I Get Better?

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy communityI love dirty talk, but my boyfriend is so quiet. How can I encourage him to talk more during intimacy?Why do I keep making embarrassing noises during sex, and is there anything I can do about it?I'm 27 and have no trouble getting hard on my own, so why do I struggle to stay hard with my girlfriend?A relaxed, honest conversation about dirty talk, sensual communication, queefing, erection difficulties, sexual confidence and enjoying intimacy without performance pressure.We also share some interesting results from our Instagram polls and a few of your favourite intimacy tips!No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Explore More Intimacy PodcastExplore More Intimacy AppKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: Alex GearFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy communityMy clitoris is so sensitive, how can I explore pleasure when direct stimulation feels too intense?Can I safely make my penis bigger?We've been together for years and want to spice things up. What should we put on our list?A relaxed, honest conversation.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Explore More Intimacy PodcastExplore More Intimacy AppKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: Alex GearFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

In this special bonus episode, Kat and Alex reflect on their recent London event and the important conversations surrounding the future of men's sexual wellbeing.We talk about the pressures men face around intimacy, confidence and performance, and why we need to start having more honest conversations about what men actually experience.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real conversation.If anything we've discussed resonates with you, or you'd like some personal support, you can find out more about working with Alex below.Work with Alex:https://www.alex-gear.com/Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.https://www.instagram.com/exploremoreintimacy.podcastExplore More Intimacy Apphttps://www.exploremoreintimacy.com/the-appKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/EXPLOREMOREINTIMACY/Website: https://www.exploremoreintimacy.com/Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/exploremoreintimacyAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacyanxietyalex/Website: https://www.alex-gear.com/For educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Is there a simple blueprint for giving a great blowjob?Why are my erections so much stronger in the morning than later in the day?My boyfriend wants me to sit on his face. How do I do it, and how can I feel more confident?A relaxed, honest conversation about oral pleasure, exploring new sensations, morning erections, sexual rhythms, responsive desire, face-sitting, confidence, trust, consent, communication and enjoying intimacy without performance pressure.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Explore More Intimacy PodcastExplore More Intimacy AppKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: Alex GearFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Why does my partner sometimes have an orgasm without ejaculating? We're curious about trying anal sex, but where do we start?My ex told me I was the worst sex she'd ever had!A relaxed, honest conversation about dry orgasms, ejaculation, anal pleasure, relaxation, trust, consent, communication, performance anxiety, rebuilding sexual confidence and learning to enjoy intimacy without fear of judgement.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Explore More Intimacy PodcastExplore More Intimacy AppKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: Alex GearFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex look at a question from Explore More Intimacy:“I don’t really feel anything during sex with my partner — is there something wrong with me?”In this Quick Question, we talk about how personal sexual sensation can be, and how to approach the conversation with curiosity rather than blame or pressure.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered with care.Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Kat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcastInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyExplore More Intimacy app: Join the waitlistPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: alex-gear.comFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex answer three real questions from the Explore More Intimacy community:Why does my boyfriend take so long to finish — and does it mean I’m doing something wrong?I really like being spanked. Why do I enjoy it, and how do I tell a new partner I want it?I’m in a long-distance relationship. How do we keep the sexual intensity and connection alive when we’re apart?A relaxed, honest conversation about delayed ejaculation, performance pressure, sensation and arousal, spanking, trust, consent, long-distance intimacy, anticipation, communication and keeping connection alive between visits.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Explore More Intimacy PodcastExplore More Intimacy AppKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: Alex GearFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:I know she likes oral. How can I get better?In this Quick Question, we talk about taking the pressure off the finish, slowing things down, building arousal and paying attention to what she responds to.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Kat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcastInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyExplore More Intimacy app: Join the waitlistPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: alex-gear.comFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex answer a quick question from the Explore More Intimacy community:“What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish?”A short, relaxed conversation about what each term means, where they overlap, and why having a particular turn-on doesn’t automatically mean anything is wrong or unusual.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just real questions and real conversation.Got a question for a future episode?Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Explore More Intimacy PodcastExplore More Intimacy AppJoin the early access listKat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: Alex GearFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.

Kat and Alex look at one of the questions from Explore More Intimacy:Why can’t I orgasm with my partner?In this Quick Question, we talk about why pleasure can feel different with a partner, even when you know what works for you on your own. We explore how pressure, feeling watched and trying to reach a goal can make it harder to stay with what feels good.We also talk about sharing what you enjoy with your partner and finding a pace that gives you both room to explore.No judgement. No awkwardness. Just one real question, answered properly.Send us a DM on Instagram — your question can stay anonymous.Kat – Explore More IntimacyInstagram: @exploremoreintimacy.podcastInstagram: @exploremoreintimacyWebsite: Explore More IntimacyExplore More Intimacy app: Join the waitlistPatreon: Explore More Intimacy MembersAlex Gear – Intimacy Anxiety CoachInstagram: @intimacyanxietyalexWebsite: alex-gear.comFor educational and conversational purposes only. This podcast is not a substitute for individual medical, psychological or professional advice.