S4 EP10 A Spiritual Director's Personal Experience as a Social Two

In this week's Episode, Beatrice Chestnut and Urânio Paes interview Desta Goehner, a spiritual director who has helped several spiritual workers and leaders improve themselves in their journey using the Enneagram. They also discuss her personal growth journey as a Social Two, highlighting how the Enneagram is a powerful tool that can help in your own personal, psychological, and spiritual work. Desta also shares her experience with CP Enneagram's inner work retreats!Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ to join thousands of monthly readers. Get exclusive content and be the first to know about events. Just quality in all things Enneagram. Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://enneagramcompass.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn about the Enneagram test they created, Enneagram Compass.Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot!Subscribe to our YouTube channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademyFollow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠Questions? ⁠[email protected]

In this episode, Bea and Uranio sit down with psychotherapist Karen Carlsen to explore how the Enneagram can be integrated into deep healing and therapeutic work. Karen shares her approach to using the Enneagram as a map for understanding personality defenses, the power of knowing her clients' Enneagram types, and transformation in psychotherapy and coaching work. Together, they discuss real-life applications, the importance of presence in the healing process, and how the Enneagram can support both therapists and clients in uncovering the true self beyond personality patterns.

Beatrice Chestnut has a conversation with Dina Elbadry about the power of recognizing and accepting trauma. The act of sharing personal stories with a group of people has a profound effect on self-development. Learn how being vulnerable in a group of people who validate and resonate with pain can help release the power trauma holds. Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ to join thousands of monthly readers. Get exclusive content and be the first to know about events. Just quality in all things Enneagram. Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, Enneagram Compass.Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot!Subscribe to our YouTube channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠

All Enneagram types have a particular thing that they focus their attention on (often unconsciously). Understanding each of these points of focus is one of the best ways for people to learn about the Nine types and the 27 subtypes. People tend to become very good at the thing they pay attention to, but they tend to miss the bigger picture. For inner growth, it’s essential to expand your vision and to be able to shift your focus to things that your personality tries hard to hide.Bea and Uranio offer tips on how to observe what you habitually pay attention to and how to expand your narrow focus to encompass a greater, more balanced perspective so that you can mature both psychologically and spiritually.If you want to discover which Enneagram Type you could be, visit our webpage ⁠cpenneagram.com/compass⁠ to learn about the Enneagram Test they just launched, CPS Enneagram Compass.If you have enjoyed this podcast, please subscribe and share it with others that you think would enjoy it. It will help us out a lot!Check out ⁠cpenneagram.com⁠ to learn more about our online learning portal and try it out for free. Follow us on Instagram ⁠@cpenneagram⁠ and join our ⁠Facebook group⁠ to share your perspectives and keep the discussion going! And check out our ⁠Calendar of Events⁠ to study with Bea and Uranio directly! Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠.

In this episode, we dive deep into the psychological layers of the Enneagram’s three instincts: Self-Preservation, Social, and Sexual. We explore the profound influence of parenting dynamics on the dominant instinct, uncovering how caregivers shape our instinctual survival strategies.How does a parent’s role reinforce or distort an instinct’s expression? Why do some of us become hyper-independent while others seek belonging at all costs? And what happens when our core needs feel unmet? Join us as Beatrice Chestnut and Uranio Paes bridge the wisdom of the Enneagram with psychological inquiry.Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to join thousands of monthly readers. Get exclusive content and be the first to know about events. Just quality in all things Enneagram. Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, CPS Enneagram Compass.Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot!Subscribe to our Youtube channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠

Each of the three Centers of Intelligence has upsides and downsides. Being a Body Type, Heart Type, or Head Type plays a big role in our daily experience and how we navigate the world in collaboration with others. Some adaptive strategies that come with Anger, Sadness, and Fear have some pros, while other traits have a negative impact on daily life. Beatrice Chestnut and Uranio Paes explore this topic and shine light onto the upsides and downsides of ego regarding Centers of Intelligence. Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠ to join thousands of monthly readers. Get exclusive content and be the first to know about events. Just quality in all things Enneagram. Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, CPS Enneagram Compass.Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot!Subscribe to our Youtube channel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠

Beatrice Chestnut and Uranio Paes both have experience applying the Enneagram to business teams. In this episode, they discuss how the three dominant instincts, Centers of Intelligence, and each of the nine Enneagram types influence the way people work with others. In the team building process, it is important to keep these influences in mind, as they can bring both benefits and challenges.Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ to join thousands of monthly readers. Get exclusive content and be the first to know about events. Just quality in all things Enneagram. Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, CPS Enneagram Compass.Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot!Subscribe to our Youtube channel: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠

Beatrice Chestnut and Uranio Paes, who studied the Enneagram collectively for over 50 years, continue their discussion of time management of each of the Enneagram types. In this episode, they talk about their experiences with heart types, Enneagram Type 2, Type 3, and Type 4.  In general, these types’ perspectives of time are elastic, which can be heavily influenced by the colors of emotions. However, each Enneagram type of heart types has its own unique relationship with time and, therefore, unique solutions to develop past the personality trappings regarding time.   Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to know when our next course with subtypes and characters will be!   Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, CPS Enneagram Compass. Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot! Subscribe to our Youtube channel: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠ Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠

Beatrice Chestnut and Uranio Paes, who studied the Enneagram collectively for over 50 years, continue their discussion of time management of each of the Enneagram types. In this episode, they talk about their experiences with body types, Enneagram Type 8, Type 9, and Type 1.  In general, these types are prone to routines and are drawn to following an order or sequence of steps. They can be too controlled by the concept of time, causing stress and inefficiency. However, each Enneagram type of body types has its own unique relationship with time and, therefore unique solutions to develop past the personalities trappings regarding time.   Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to know when our next course with subtypes and characters will be!   Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, CPS Enneagram Compass. Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot! Subscribe to our Youtube channel: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠ Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠

Each Enneagram type has a default mode in how they relate and manage time. In this episode, Beatrice Chestnut and Uranio Paes, who studied the Enneagram collectively for over 50 years, explore how Enneagram type, and even subtype and instincts, affect the way we perceive time. Bea and Uranio offer tips that can not only help you manage time more intentionally but can serve as a catalyst to being more conscious.  Sign up for our newsletter on our website  ⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ to be the first to know when our next course with subtypes and characters will be!   Like learning about the Enneagram from Bea and Uranio? Join a community of Enneagram enthusiasts and participate in live monthly webinars and Q&As with Bea and Uranio. Sign up for a FREE trial of CP Online membership at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://learn.cpenneagram.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Want to discover which Enneagram type you could be? Visit our webpage ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/compass ⁠⁠⁠to learn about the Enneagram test they created, CPS Enneagram Compass. Please subscribe and share this podcast with others. It will help us out a lot! Subscribe to our Youtube channel: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ChestnutPaesEnneagramAcademy⁠⁠⁠ Follow us on Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/cpenneagram/⁠ Sign up for our newsletter ⁠⁠⁠https://cpenneagram.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ Questions? ⁠[email protected]⁠