christian dating: crushes, talking stages, boundaries & everything in between

Offense isn’t just a feeling—it’s a trap the enemy uses to keep us stuck, bitter, and far from God’s presence. In this episode, we’ll uncover how offense works, why it’s so dangerous, and how you can overcome it before it takes root in your heart. ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

What does it truly mean to be a godly woman? In today’s world, femininity is defined in so many different ways — but what does the Word of God actually say? In this episode, we dive into biblical womanhood and uncover what it really looks like to live as a woman after God’s heart.✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

in this episode, we take a real and faith-based look at christian dating — from the butterflies of a crush to navigating boundaries and keeping God at the center. here’s the breakdown: 01:29 – understanding the why 05:12 – love vs lust 06:42 – having a crush 11:46 – talking stages 19:38 – going on dates 21:26 – flirting 24:38 – relationship boundaries 27:56 – how far is too far 29:56 – how do the abstinence girlies do it 33:38 – helping your partner during spiritual lows ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨ www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl ✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨ https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1 ✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨ https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr ✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨ https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66 ✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨ https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

Do you have a relationship with God or are you just following religion? Let’s talk about it on today’s episode! ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

The enemy’s greatest attack isn’t always on your finances, career, or relationships — it’s your mind. In this episode, we expose how the enemy uses lies to keep you stuck: making you believe you’re unworthy, unforgivable, or unloved. Once he has your thoughts, you do the job for him. Let’s talk about taking back your mind and walking in the truth and freedom God has already given you.Podcast description ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

How long will you be a baby Christian?Hebrews 5:12-14 talks about believers still needing milk when they should be eating solid food. Many of us stay spiritually immature because we hold onto the world, ignore God’s voice, and keep pleasing our flesh over our spirit. Let’s talk about what it really means to grow in Christ and move from baby steps to deeper faith.Timelapse 0:00 – Introduction4:51 – What does it mean to be a baby Christian?5:40 – Things that keep you spiritually immature9:40 – What does spiritual maturity look like?11:40 – How to grow out of being a baby Christian✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

Hiiii DTS FAMMMM!!!!!! 🥹Just a quick note – there’s a little editing glitch in the first 3 minutes 😭 I was editing on my PC for the first time and somehow missed it, so thank you for your grace! 🙏🏽✨ Still hope the episode blesses you. 💚I’ve missed you so much!Today’s episode is a life update on how this year has been so far (spoiler alert: not so great 🥲). I also met my younger self for coffee and reflected on where I was before Christ. ☕✨✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv⏱️ Timestamps:0:00 – Welcome + little life update6:00 – Reintroducing Death to Self7:06 – Introducing myself (kinda)9:13 – What God has been teaching me this year12:38 – dealing with Financial worry15:32 – God is the best DAD18:46 – I met my younger self for coffee

Life pulls us in many directions—chasing the bag, earning a degree, pursuing passions—but in the midst of it all, are you making time for God? In this episode, we dive into hustle culture and the importance of seeking God first, above all of life’s demands.The podcast episode I recommend watching-https://youtu.be/jpUIFv6qUJ4?si=qIHFdsb9MbLV9LuK✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

Fear…the one thing that stops us from living in our calling…the fear of what will people say, failure, the past repeating Itself, is it God who really told me that? Let’s talk all about it on today’s episode! ✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv

Many of us have been called by God to do incredible things for His kingdom—write the book, start the podcast, launch the website, or build the YouTube channel. We begin with excitement, but when the results don’t match our expectations, we struggle with inconsistency. In this episode, we dive into the importance of obedience over outcomes, staying faithful even when growth feels slow, and trusting God’s timing in the process. Let’s talk about it!✨Watch the Podcast on YouTube✨www.youtube.com/@deathtoselfpodcastbyPearl✨Follow the podcast on TikTok✨https://www.tiktok.com/@deathtoselfpodcast?_t=8rotqEVc0Nb&_r=1✨Follow the podcast on instagram ✨https://www.instagram.com/deathtoselfpodcast?igsh=MWV1a243cGhxZTRlcw%3D%3D&utm_source=qr✨death to self playlist on Spotify ✨https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3YZWX13cOazDMzGIrmFQ5s?si=2S6-P19dRZe_bM3qCpt37A&pi=e-N_m0vvPIQR66✨death to self playlist on Apple Music ✨https://music.apple.com/za/playlist/death-to-self-playlist/pl.u-oZylDglIGaXvyMv