Let’s Play The Blame Game with Delena Zimmerman, LMFT

What makes you feel wanted? The answer can be different for men and women. Khadeen, Devale, Matt, Josh and Tribble discuss desire in this episode. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to the 50/50 conversation, we know that nothing in life or relationships is truly equal. So how do you manage power dynamics in love, work and relationships, so that nobody feels like they're getting the short end of the stick? The Ellises and the crew talk about how to make things truly fair in love and war. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

All money ain't good money, so how do you make yours? And when you got it, what you do with it says a lot about your values. In this episode, the Ellises and the crew talk about what they think it means to be rich and ethical. Like my girl Diamond from The Player's Club said "make the money, don't let it make you." Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to conflict, crashing out may not always be the best way to handle it. But when is crashing out necessary? Or is it ever? The Ellises and the crew discuss. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trying to do your best is always a good thing. Until it keeps you from doing anything at all. The Ellises and the crew discuss when perfectionism is low key self-doubt. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We've all heard the terms "Black excellence" and "Black power", but what is the difference between the two? In this episode, Khadeen, Devale, Josh, Matt and Tribble discuss it. What do you think? Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When it comes to being Black in America, the hoops we have to jump through just to be recognized as worthy are ever changing. But do you think code switching is harmful or necessary for Black excellence? The Ellises and the crew give their opinions in this episode, Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What do you do when you're tired, worn out, at your max? Do you keep pushing through the stress? Do you take a break to recharge? Or do you even notice when you're on the verge of burnout? In this episode, The Ellises and the gang talk about burnout. How it feels to be tired and ambitious. Dead Ass. Watch the full video version early on Patreon! Go to https://Patreon.com/EllisEverAfter to see the After Show and more exclusive Ellis Ever After video content. And find us on social media at @EllisEverAfterPodcast, @khadeniam and @iamdevale, @joshua_dwain @_matt.ellis, @tribbzthecool. And if you’re listening on Apple podcasts, be sure to rate, review and subscribe.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We always talk about legacy and what we want to leave behind in. But beyond generational wealth, what does legacy really mean? In this episde, the Ellises talk about what wisdom they hope to impart on their four boys, and the crew joins in on the conversation. #DeadAss.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.