Ep 14: Finding Common Ground

Desmond Lomax, Co-Director of the Public Safety Practice for the Arbinger Institute, joins Chad to talk about how to correct ourselves and others using Dangerous Love. Desmond, whose background is a African-American law enforcement officer turned mental health therapist, shines a light on how we get correction wrong and what we can actually do, at home, in our communities and in law enforcement to help invite others who are struggling to change. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

How can Dangerous Love apply practically to organizational culture? Jamie Asante-Asare, Director of Operations for PeacePlayers joins Chad to discuss how to implement the values of Seeing People As People, Inside-Outside Transformation and Culture of Collaboration in withe workplace. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Major Charles “Chip” Huth, a Commander in the Kansas City, Missouri Police Department, joins Chad to talk about, in the wake of protests against law enforcement in the United States, policing can. be done with a more dangerous love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad and guest Colette Rausch explore the impact of trauma on us as humans, our relationships with each other and our broader society. And the peacebuilding power of healing trauma and strengthening resilience.  You can find more about Colette's work at https://www.coletterausch.com and https://www.transformtraumasolutions.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad and guest Dr. Chris Wallace, a licensed clinical psychologist and therapist, discuss what happens in conflict when someone struggles with self-conflict, self-blame and an unwillingness to see their mistakes as just that, mistakes, instead of character flaws.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad is joined by Sharla Watene, a Marriage and Family Therapist and co-founder of Āhua Wellbeing, a non-profit aimed at helping working mothers develop better work-life balance through education and developing holistic skills. Chad and Sharla discuss how couples can work through conflict by "getting naked", setting boundaries and learning how to show their partners love. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad is joined by Dr. Carl Stauffer, Co-Director of the Zehr Institute for Restorative Justice and Associate Professor of Justice Studies at the Center for Justice & Peacebuilding at Eastern Mennonite University. Chad and Dr. Stauffer discuss his work in South Africa as a restorative justice practitioner and researcher and then look at how that work might apply in the context of a Truth and Reconciliation Commission on race in the United States. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad is joined by Jessica Murrey a social change communication expert with Search for Common Ground and the Co-founder/CEO of W!CKED SAiNTS Studios.  Chad and Jessica talk about her journey as a bi-racial women to peacebuilding work with Search for Common Ground, her work on the Black Lives Matter movement and a new video game she's creating that helps young people learn how to navigate conflict. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad is joined by Nasiphi "Nas" Khafu, the Executive Director of PeacePlayers South Africa. Nas explores her journey from a participant, to coach, to fellow in Northern Ireland back to leading a peacebuilding program in South Africa aimed at reconciling racial divides and uses her experiences in South Africa to shed insight on how to bridging the current racial divides in the United States. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Chad and Mitch Warner, Managing Partner at the Arbinger Institute, talk about inward and outward mindset, and how it relates to conflict at home, at work and in the context of the larger social conflict happening in America today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.