How to Keep Money from Coming Between Friends

How do you handle money with friends without it damaging the friendship? Speak up early, kindly, and simply, before the awkward moment turns into silent resentment. This episode of Finerate covers how. Money comes up with friends all the time, but actually talking about it can be hard: the check at dinner, the wedding invitation that costs a month's rent, the friend who earns far more or far less than you. In this episode, CFP® Anastasia Taber and her father Bill Taber, a 45-year investment advisor, talk about why money feels so awkward between friends and how to protect the relationships you care about. In this episode, you'll learn: Why money feels so loaded with friends What happens to friendships when money resentment goes unspoken, and what people who handle it well do differently Why Bill never loans money to friends How to split a check without making it a big deal, and why it helps to settle it before the server arrives What it costs to be a wedding guest How to decide whether to say yes to a destination wedding or group trip How wedding events have grown bigger across generations, and why empathy matters when friends can't make it The first sentence to use when you want to suggest a cheaper plan or raise a money concern Made for anyone who has felt awkward about the check, an invitation, or a friend's income, and wants ways to protect the friendship. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com.

How do you talk to your parents about money without it feeling awkward or intrusive? This episode of Finerate shows you how.   Nearly 1 in 4 American adults now provides ongoing care for a family member, according to AARP's 2025 caregiving report. For many families, the money conversation doesn't happen until a health event forces it. In this episode, CFP® Anastasia Taber and her father Bill Taber, a 45-year investment advisor, flip the script from an earlier episode on talking to your kids about money. This time, the conversation goes from adult child to parent. You'll learn: Why talking to your parents about money feels harder than talking to your kids What a parent wants from this conversation, and what makes them open up or shut down from Bill's perspective How to start: the first sentence to say, the best setting, and what to avoid The five things worth knowing about a parent's finances How to help without taking over, and how to protect a parent's independence and dignity How siblings, in-laws, and blended families can get on the same page, and why "fair" isn't always "equal" Real life examples of family conversations that came too late, and one sentence you can use this week to start Made for adult children and caregivers who want to start the money conversation with a parent, and for parents who aren't sure how to bring it up with their own kids. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com. Referenced Episodes: Fraud-Proof Your Finances: How to Keep Your Wealth Safe The Money Conversations Teenagers Actually Need  

The Fed is raising interest rates again, the national debt keeps climbing, and AI is reshaping the stock market. What does any of it mean for your money? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber work through the big economic questions people are asking right now, in plain English. Anastasia and Bill start with an "explain it like I'm five" look at how rising interest rates affect the stock market, then turn to the national debt, what it means for everyday consumers, and what the latest Social Security projections really say. They tackle whether you should count on refinancing your mortgage when rates come down, and how to tell a sound prediction from a biased or hype-driven one. They also look at how much AI is driving the stock market, whether stock market strength and economic strength are the same thing, how today compares to the dot-com era, and what to think about the reported Anthropic IPO. They close with what to say to someone who wants nothing to do with AI. In this episode, you'll learn: How rising interest rates affect the stock market, explained simply What the national debt is and how it can affect consumers What the latest Social Security projections mean and what they don't Why you shouldn't count on a future mortgage refinance, and how to think about it instead How to tell accurate predictions from inaccurate or biased ones Whether the AI boom looks like the dot-com bubble, and how stock market strength differs from economic strength How to think about any hot IPO without chasing hype What to say to someone who wants nothing to do with AI Whether you've been nodding along to financial headlines without fully following them, or you're wondering what rates, debt, and AI mean for your own plan, this episode offers a grounded, judgment-free look from two financial professionals who have seen plenty of "this time it's different." Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com.

Do you really need to check the markets every day to be responsible with your money? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber take on the constant pull of financial news and dig into what is truly decision-relevant, why financial media is often structured to provoke a reaction rather than inform a financial decision, and what a sustainable, realistic "news diet" looks like in practice. They also dive into their own media habits and where they devote their attention to achieve financial success. In this episode, you'll learn: A practical test for telling decision-relevant financial news apart from noise Why financial media is often incentivized toward urgency and alarm How the news cycle has changed over 40+ years and what that means for how we consume it today What a "financial news diet" looks like Which financial news is worth checking regularly, and which is safe to check only a few times a year What to keep track of, and what's safe to let go if you want to feel engaged with your money without feeling anxious about it If you check the markets daily out of habit, feel guilty when you don't, or want a healthier relationship with financial news, this episode offers a CFP®'s and investment advisor's take on what actually deserves your attention. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com.

A daily coffee, invested instead of spent, can grow into real money over a few decades. It's also true that one large purchase can wipe out years of saving on small items. So why does that one small purchase often carry more guilt than expenses that cost far more? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber dig into the psychology behind small, recurring purchases, and what they've paid attention to in their own lives that has made a meaningful difference. Using behavioral economics, they explore why frequent, visible purchases get scrutinized while larger, less frequent ones often go unquestioned. They answer where your focus is best spent - is it the small purchases, large purchases, or something else entirely? In this episode, you'll learn: What the math says about small daily purchases compounded over time Why frequent small expenses get more scrutiny than larger, one-time purchases What "mental accounting" is, and why it explains the guilt around small spending How decision fatigue plays into daily money choices The expenses Anastasia and Bill have paid attention to that have meaningfully contributed to their net worth How to determine which small expenses actually contribute to your sense of well-being and which ones don't What to do this week if you've been feeling guilty about a small recurring habit If you've ever felt a flicker of guilt over a coffee, a subscription, or any small recurring purchase, this episode offers a grounded, judgment-free look at why that feeling shows up and where to put your financial attention instead. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com. Resources: Compound Interest Calculator for the one action Anastasia recommends to take this week

Does writing down a goal actually make you more likely to achieve it or is that just motivational-poster advice? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber separate the research from the popular myths around goal-setting, and make the case for why a written plan changes financial outcomes. Anastasia and Bill dig into what happens psychologically when you put a goal on paper instead of just thinking about it, why specificity matters more than motivation, and how accountability plays a role in whether a goal gets achieved. They also build directly on the previous episode's conversation about visualization, exploring how belief and a written plan work together rather than as separate steps. In this episode, you'll learn: Whether the research supports writing down your goals Why writing forces specificity, and why vague goals rarely get accomplished How accountability changes the odds of actually following through on a goal How a written plan connects to visualization and belief What an effective written financial plan looks like The most common mistakes people make when writing down goals A practical first step for putting your own financial goals on paper this week Resources: Flow by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi The Success Principles by Jack Canfield The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey The Franklin Planning System  Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com.

What if getting clear on your priorities isn't about giving things up but about creating more freedom? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber make the case that real abundance starts with knowing exactly what you want. Anastasia and Bill reflect on the phrase "You can have it all" and discuss how the power of visualization and believing in what's possible can change the financial decisions you make today. They talk through being intentional about priorities and share what's worked for them in attaining all the goals they've set for themselves. In this episode, you'll learn: Why getting clear on your priorities leads to taking action How visualization can shape the financial choices you make right now Why working for an employer may increasingly become the riskier decision How to figure out what matters to you, versus what you've been told should matter Why trying to keep every option open often works against you A practical process for choosing confidently between two goals, instead of picking whichever feels less scary What growth feels like (spoiler: It's not comfortable) Whether you're weighing a big financial decision, feeling stuck, or want a more intentional way to think about what you're building your life around, this episode offers a motivating and grounding approach from two financial professionals who believe wealth is about focus, not endless options. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com. Resources: Olympian Eileen Gu on neuroplasticity Ira Glass on the creative gap

What should you actually be teaching your teenager about money and when? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber tackle the real, practical money conversations parents should be having with 13-17 year olds, drawing on Bill's firsthand experience raising four financially independent adult children. Anastasia and Bill break down the specific financial "firsts" worth being intentional about, from a teen's first job to their first credit-building move, along with the most common mistake parents make when talking to teenagers about money, and when to adjust your approach based on personality. They also cover Trump Accounts, the new federal child savings account that launched in July 2026, and how it stacks up against a Roth IRA or 529 plans. In this episode, you'll learn: The financial "firsts" every teenager should experience before leaving home What Trump Accounts are, how they work, and whether they're actually a good fit for a working teen compared to a Roth IRA or 529 plan The most common mistake parents make when talking to teenagers about money and how to adjust your approach based on your teen's motivation style Why financial knowledge alone doesn't build financial confidence and what actually does Whether you're the parent of a teenager, planning ahead for one, or curious about what real financial preparation for young adults should look like, this episode offers grounded, experience-based guidance from two financial professionals; one who's done it in his own family, four times over. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence. Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com.

Why are so many young investors choosing meme stocks, options trading, and crypto over traditional saving and investing? In this episode of Finerate, CFP® Anastasia Taber and 45-year investment advisor Bill Taber break down the psychology and economics behind the rise of high-risk retail trading and what it says about the state of financial confidence today. A growing share of investors under 35 say they need to take big financial risks to reach their goals. Anastasia and Bill dig into why: rising home prices, wealth inequality, and a feeling that the slow, steady path - save consistently, invest patiently, wait decades - no longer guarantees the future it once did. Bill shares his read on strategies like buying call options on large-cap stocks, and reflects on how "paying tuition" for a hard lesson in the markets means something very different for a disciplined long-term investor than it does for someone chasing a quick win. In this episode, you'll learn: Why more investors are embracing high-risk trading strategies instead of traditional investing How options trading actually works and what the real odds of success look like Whether Gen Z and millennials are falling behind financially versus feeling that way early on Why access to zero-commission trading apps changed retail investing forever How the housing affordability crisis is connected to rising financial risk-taking What separates destructive risk-taking from productive risk-taking What a healthier alternative to "swinging big" looks like If you're curious about the meme-stock economy, wondering if you're behind on your own financial goals, or just want a grounded take on why so many people are gambling on their financial future, this episode offers real perspective from two financial professionals who've seen market cycles come and go. Finerate is a financial education community helping people move from financial anxiety to financial confidence.  Join the waitlist at getfinerate.com. Resources: Gen Z Traders Go For Broke in Pursuit Of A New American Dream Related Episodes: Is Investing in the Stock Market the Same as Gambling? What Really Makes Us Happy? Insights from Yale's Science of Well-Being, Part One  

After six years and 163 episodes of Creating Wealth, we're turning the page. This is the episode where we tell you what we're building, why now, and what drove each of us to take this step. Because Finerate came from something we kept seeing and haven't stopped thinking about. Anastasia has spent years watching the financial planning industry concentrate its resources on high net worth families. But what about the people who are earlier in their journey, who are trying to figure it out, who know they should be doing something with their money, but don't have a clear path to professional guidance? They've largely been left out. Finerate is their answer to that gap. Bill has spent 45 years in the room for conversations about money that most people never get to have, watching what separates the people who build financial security from those who don't, and wanting to give that knowledge to the people who need it.  Together, we're building Finerate: A financial education community for people who are ready to act. Not just another place to get financial information, but a place to close the gap between knowing and doing. In this episode: Why we started Creating Wealth in April 2020 and what six years of conversations with listeners taught us about what people actually need The gap in the financial planning industry that motivated us to build something new  What Bill has witnessed across four decades of advising that drives his conviction What Finerate actually is, including what the name means and who it's for Why this has to be a community and not just content The one question to ask yourself if you're trying to figure out whether Finerate is for you How to join from the very beginning and help shape what this becomes If you've been listening to Creating Wealth and wondering what's next: This is it. And if you're new here, this is actually a perfect place to start. Join the Finerate waitlist at getfinerate.com Finerate is the home of the podcast formerly known as Creating Wealth. Hosted by Anastasia Taber, CFP®, and her father Bill Taber, a 45 year investment advisor. New episodes every other Friday.