080. This is (Not) 40

Ted Lasso is THE flagship show on AppleTV+, and there are several reasons for that! This episode, Beatrice and Dante pull the series apart and discuss how, on the surface, it appears to just be a show about a soccer team, but in reality, it is a roadmap for life.Ted Lasso Trailer Ted Lasso Inspo on InstagramMary Poppins - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGrogu Saying “Yes”Homer Disappears Into a HedgeTed Lasso’s Shortbread RecipeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

One of the best parts of Beatrice and Dante's recent trip to Miami were the seminars and workshops run by Taylor Sparks, Sex Goddess. Taylor was kind enough to tell us her origin story, as well as the ins and outs (see what we did there?) of lifestyle events. Taylor (a.k.a Mariposa) Sparks is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess, certified in both holistic aromatherapy and human behaviour. With over twenty years of experience in the natural skin care/cosmetics industry, Ms. Sparks launched OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shops.  For more than 15 years before, she was a highly sought-after corporate trainer with a proficiency in the areas of: Communications, Negotiations, Leadership and Business Management skills, Customer Service and Team Building with a specialty in DISC Personality Assessments.  While traveling around the globe, Taylor has become renowned in the adult travel industry and is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally. Coaching couples, singles in both the ethically monogamous and ethically non-monogamous communities.Personally, she has two adult children, a 25-year marriage that was both ethically monogamous/ethically non-monogamous (12/13 years respectively) and has identified as ethically non-monogamous for more than 15 years. Taylor lives a plant-based life, socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter of all things organic, natural and eco-friendly...including Love. You can find Taylor on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter @organicloven.You should also visit organicloven.com and use the coupon code CHEATING20 for 20% off your order (until July 5th, 2023).An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy by Taylor K. Sparks - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSpanking for Lovers by Janet W. Hardy - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Beatrice and Dante are back from attending a hotel takeover event in Miami... and they have thoughts.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Honesty and communication are key to any healthy relationship. It's the reason that we are able to enjoy the type of relationship that we have. Ahead of our first foray into a Lifestyle take-over event, Beatrice and Dante dive into some sordid secrets that spouses keep from each other.Benny Hill trailer (in case you weren’t born in the last century!)Billy Madison thinks peeing your pants is the coolest.No one wants to play finger bang with Meg.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Our love lives and sex lives have been co-opted by dating app corporations and reality TV. What does this mean for the post-COVID world of love, sex and relationships?Love is Blind Season 4 trailer.Perfect Match trailer.This is why French’s Mustard is the best!Farming for Love casting call.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

There seems to be a rise in the number of men who consider themselves "nice guys", and then promptly show you they are anything but nice if you don't do or say exactly what they want. This week Beatrice and Dante take a look at some examples of self-professed "nice guys" and see that there is a big difference between being a "nice guy" and an actual good guy. Deadpool - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBorat - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDeadpool celebrates International Women’s DayPoliceman vs. FiremanBig Demitri EnergyCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Dante recently went back and watched This is 40 and wondered if we are we all doomed to fall apart after 40? Turns out, it all depends on the choices you make. This is 40 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThor: Love and Thunder - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAdam Driver in Marriage Story - Amazon.com, Amazon.caLost - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Break-Up - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmal Clooney’s Speech to George ClooneyThe Ambiguously Gay DuoFlorida Mother Barred from SchoolCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We had to succumb to the lure of "The White Lotus" and it didn’t disappoint! This week Beatrice and Dante chat about what they got right and what they got wrong about non-monogamy, jealousy and relationships.The White Lotus - Season 1 (Trailer) - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe White Lotus - Season 2 (Trailer)The Time Traveller’s Wife - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Time Traveller’s Wife TV Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDune - Part 1 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSeven Years in Tibet - Amazon.com, Amazon.caStewie Has Pink EyeIt Wasn’t Me by ShaggyPaul Rudd - Hey, Look at UsCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been awhile Brave Ones! We're back and discuss what's up with Adam Levine, Dante's travel to a Blue Zone, and the #1 indicator on the potential success of a relationship.CNBC article Here’s the No. 1 thing that makes relationships successful, say psychologists who studied 40,000 couples by Drs. John and Julie Schwartz GottmanCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

How much resemblance does love on reality tv shows have compared to real life? This week Beatrice and Dante discuss relationship reality shows like 90 Day Fiancé, Love Island and The Ultimatum. What can we learn from these shows, and what do the shows get right or wrong?Love Island trailerBorat - Amazon.com, Amazon.caWho Is America trailer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThor: Love and Thunder - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMaking Nice with Naughty by Dr. Tom Murray - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFboy Island USA trailer The Ultimatum trailerAndrew Tate scoffing at “Women!”Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your [email protected] & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear