You've Been Missing THIS About the "Wish Fulfilled"

What does it ACTUALLY mean to live in the wish fulfilled? And how on earth are you supposed to "ignore reality" when you're still living in it every day?! After a week of practicing Neville Goddard's teachings, something finally CLICKED for me about manifestation, visualization, and the power of our internal state of being. I genuinely know this realization can change the way you approach your biggest dreams. In today's Big Conversations episode, we're talking about what living in the wish fulfilled really means, why constantly checking your circumstances for proof can keep you feeling stuck, and how to stop postponing your happiness until something outside of you changes. (Watch on YT: https://youtu.be/yRPVwhxF0ko) I'm also sharing some fascinating connections between Neville Goddard, Joseph Murphy, Abraham Hicks, and the Bible, along with a few very personal stories about my music career and a HUGEEE manifestation mistake I made in Paris last year along these lines (never again!!!). The biggest takeaway? You don't need your reality to give you permission to feel the way you want to feel. You can experience the gratitude, joy, confidence, and completion of your future self RIGHT NOW. But let's get into it. I hope this episode inspires you to stop looking for proof, surrender the need to figure everything out, and start enjoying your beautiful life as it's unfolding. 💗 ✨ WATCH NEXT: My 7-Day Neville Goddard / Wish Fulfilled Experiment: https://youtu.be/a_erKxlhaY4 How to Let Go of the How (Big Conversations): https://youtu.be/Xj28rCb2jAw ✨ EXPLORE DREAMAWAY: Go deeper with EFT tapping, visualization, and subconscious transformation inside Dreamaway: https://dreamawaymembership.com/join 💗 📲 Follow me everywhere: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyhoffmansmith/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@haleyhoffmansmithmusic TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@haleyhoffmansmith Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478 📖 My book, You Have the Magic: https://youhavethemagic.com 🎵 My music: https://haleyhoffmansmithmusic.com  💻 Everything else: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com

What if the reason you can't figure out HOW your biggest dreams are going to happen is that you're not actually supposed to know yet? ✨ Today we're talking about one of the BIGGEST questions I get asked about manifestation: "HOW do you actually let go of the how?!" I get it!! When you want something SO badly, it can feel almost impossible to stop trying to strategize, predict, plan, and orchestrate every single detail of how it's going to happen. (Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Xj28rCb2jAw)  But here's the thing: your dreams were never meant to be a one-person operation. In this episode, we're diving into the Bridge of Incidents (a fascinating concept from Neville Goddard), the idea of unseen magic unfolding behind the scenes, and why you might be trying to solve an equation without having all the variables yet. I'm also sharing one of the WILDEST full-circle stories from my own life, one of which starts with a time I spent $75 to send an empty cardboard box to a literary agent. We talk about the difference between being an active participant in your dreams and feeling like you have to manage the entire unfolding, how to recognize little moments of divine inspiration, and why the path to your dreams might look completely different (and so much better!) than anything you could have planned. I hope this episode gives you the biggest exhale and reminds you that there is SO much more possible than what your logical mind can currently see. ✨ WANT TO GO DEEPER? Inside Dreamaway, my subconscious transformation and EFT tapping membership, we're exploring this exact topic in our Money Date: Let Go of the How. Come tap with me and start shifting your relationship with control, surrender, and receiving. Start your 7-day free trial: https://dreamawaymembership.com/join 💗 Sessions mentioned in this episode — find them inside Dreamaway: Money Date: Let Go of the How: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/letgoofthehow?category_id=294323 Boomerang Stabilizer: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/boomerang-stabilizer 📲 Follow me everywhere: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyhoffmansmith/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@haleyhoffmansmith YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@haleyhoffmansmithmusic Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478  📖 My book, You Have the Magic: https://youhavethemagic.com 🎵 My music: https://haleyhoffmansmithmusic.com 💻 Everything else: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com

You know that thing you've been wanting to do FOREVER? The habit you keep meaning to start, the project you know would change your life, the thing you KNOW would make you feel so much better… and yet, for some reason, you just keep putting it off??? 👀 Today we're getting to the bottom of WHY - and I have ONE sole intention for this episode: to completely change the way you think about consistency, procrastination, and self-sabotage..and then for you to get up and go DO THE THING!!! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7d5Y4uUMtl8 We're getting into alllll of it: the hidden costs your brain associates with changing your habits, the rebellious inner teenager who wants absolutely NOTHING to do with another obligation (lol), the perfectionist who thinks starting something means committing to it forever, and the protective part of you that might actually be a little nervous about how much your life could change. I'm also sharing my own experiences with getting back into running, going over a month without scrolling (!!), and completely changing my relationship with consistency after years of feeling like routine just wasn't my thing. We're talking about making the things you WANT to do feel so much more fun, natural, exciting, and aligned with who you actually are. So think of that ONE thing you've been putting off, grab your journal if you want, and let's get you into a completely different headspace about it. Because you deserve to experience what happens when you say OK LET'S GO. 🥹💗 ✨ Inside Dreamaway, my tapping and subconscious transformation membership, we have two sessions that are PERFECT for this episode: Consistency and It's Allowed to Be Fun. Both are available in the Aligned tier, so you can explore the resistance that's been coming up and start creating a completely different relationship with showing up for yourself TOTALLY FREE -  Start your 7-day free trial: https://www.dreamawaymembership.com   Wanna go deeper? There's also a brand new 90 min replay called "Vibrance from Within: Healthy Habits." Access in Higher Self or purchase as a standalone: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/vibrancefromwithin   Love you guys!!! Now go do the thing! 💛   Mentioned previous pod ep of moving from self-optimization: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478?i=1000772961163   📲 Follow me everywhere: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyhoffmansmith/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@haleyhoffmansmith YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@haleyhoffmansmithmusic Big Conversations on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478 📖 My book, You Have the Magic: https://youhavethemagic.com 🎵 My music: https://haleyhoffmansmithmusic.com 🌐 https://haleyhoffmansmith.com

What if the secret to attracting everything you want is to stop feeling like you NEED any of it? ✨ Welcome to your MAGNETISM MASTERCLASS!!! Today we're getting into one of my all-time favorite energetic principles: "in your neediness, you repel; in your completeness, you attract." (Abraham Hicks). Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gzDt52f1lzw We're talking about the difference between wanting something and NEEDING it, why trying to force an outcome can leave you feeling even further away from it, and how to move into what I call completion energy: that delicious, peaceful, abundant feeling of knowing your life is already SO full, even while you're excited about everything that's still to come. Grab your journal, go on a walk, or just press play and let yourself get into a completely different energy. We're entering RECEIVING MODE, my friends!!! 💗✨ Want to take this work even deeper? Come join us inside Dreamaway, my tapping and subconscious transformation membership, where we work on shifting the beliefs, patterns, and self-image that shape how you experience your life. ✨ Start your 7-day free trial: https://www.dreamawaymembership.com/join/ 📲 Follow me everywhere: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyhoffmansmith/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@haleyhoffmansmith YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@haleyhoffmansmithmusic Big Conversations on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478 📖 My book, You Have the Magic: https://youhavethemagic.com 🎵 My music: https://haleyhoffmansmithmusic.com 💻 Everything else: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com

What if the secret to changing your entire life is to start becoming your future self… before anything in your outer world changes? 👀✨ In this episode, I'm joined by the incredible Mimi Bouchard @mimibouchard, founder of Activations, for one of the most inspiring conversations about visualization, self-image, magnetism, and stepping into the version of you who already has everything you desire. Mimi shares her story of going from broke, unhappy, and living paycheck to paycheck to creating a life that once felt completely out of reach. And the way she began changing things is SO fascinating: she started recording her own guided visualizations, pairing them with cinematic music, and practicing the feeling of being her future self during the most ordinary moments of her day. We get into alllll of it—from how to embody the energy of the person you want to become, to why your *bounce-back rate* might matter more than perfect consistency, to what it actually looks like to make abundance, confidence, love, and success feel NORMAL to you. One of my favorite takeaways from this conversation is that you don't have to wait for the money, the relationship, the opportunity, or the external proof to begin experiencing the feelings you've been associating with that future. What if you could start practicing that identity TODAY? While you're making coffee, going on a walk, getting ready in the morning, or simply living your life? Because maybe becoming your future self isn't about waiting for some magical day when everything finally clicks into place. Maybe it's about learning how to BE HER NOW. 🥹✨ I'm also especially excited to share this conversation because I've personally been using Mimi's Activations app for years (I've done over 150 activations!!), and it's become one of my favorite ways to get excited about my future and reconnect with that feeling of possibility. SPECIAL GIFT FOR BIG CONVERSATIONS LISTENERS! 🎁 Mimi is generously offering you *2 weeks FREE* of Activations, followed by a special discounted offer! 💗 Try Activations: https://activations.com/conversations Put on your headphones, press play, and get ready to meet your future self. She's closer than you think. ✨  

What if your life could look completely different three months from now? Like… genuinely. 👀✨ I don't mean because you made a giant list of goals, felt wildly motivated for four days, and then quietly forgot about all of them lol (easy to dooo). I mean actually creating enough momentum in one area of your life that you can look back 90 days from now and KNOW something shifted. In this episode, I'm walking you through exactly what I do when I'm ready to lock in and make things MOVE - from choosing the one thing you're going all-in on, to setting yourself up to stay consistent when the initial motivation wears off, to working with the subconscious patterns that can quietly pull you back into what's familiar. Because sometimes you consciously want something SO badly…and then somehow find yourself falling off, procrastinating, getting discouraged, or snapping right back into old patterns. We're getting into alllll of that. (WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/HUVJw-GBuzE) But this also isn't an episode about grinding your way into a new life. We're talking about the ENERGY of these 90 days too: getting yourself into what I call the "miracle frequency," putting things on your calendar that make you genuinely excited to be alive, tracking the tiny wins you might normally overlook, letting yourself get better as you go, and leaving some room for the HOW to completely surprise you. 🥹 P.S. If you want to go deeper into the subconscious piece with me, you can try Dreamaway free for 7 days! I specifically talk about the Boomerang Stabilizer session in this episode, which is SO juicy if you've ever wondered why you can be doing amazing, gaining momentum, feeling consistent…and then suddenly find yourself snapping back into an old pattern.  Come tap with me! 💫 Start your 7-day free trial of Dreamaway (Aligned tier) here: https://dreamawaymembership.com/join 💗   Sessions mentioned in this episode — find them inside Dreamaway: • Boomerang Stabilizer: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/boomerang-stabilizer • Consistency: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/consistency 🧘‍♀️ I Already Am — Morning Meditation (the one I mention in this episode): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJysLaNRp8E  💗 WATCH / LISTEN NEXT: 1. The More You Chase Results, The More You Lose Yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOpceYfkVOs 2. The Self-Image Rebrand: Feel Different About Yourself ASAP https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s0Bp7TqI9W8 3 . Become Your Future Self ✨ | I Already A.M. Morning Meditation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJysLaNRp8E 📲 Follow me everywhere:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/haleyhoffmansmith/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@haleyhoffmansmith Big Conversations podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-conversations-with-haley-hoffman-smith/id1494643478

What if I told you that the fastest way to lose the magic in something you love is to start needing it to give you something back? In my official favorite episode I have recorded to date (Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/GOpceYfkVOs), we're talking about the difference between being fully in the LIVED experience of going for your dreams vs. constantly measuring whether they're working. Is it growing? Is anyone noticing? Am I getting the validation? Am I there yet? I'm sharing some very emotional stories from my own relationship with music, creativity, and success - including real talk about the season when something I loved became consumed by striving and optimization, and what it took to find my way back to creating from joy, fulfillment, and truth. Because somewhere along the way, we can accidentally abandon the experience of our own lives while waiting for the outside world to tell us we've arrived. If no one else in the world ever validates this… can this still be enough for me? Maybe you don't need to try harder. Maybe you need to come home to you. You have the magic, after all! 💗  Dreamaway Membership 7 Day Free trial: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/dreamaway/ My book: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/book/ @haleyhoffmansmith

What if the way you experience your life has less to do with what's happening around you…and everything to do with the version of YOU who is interpreting it? In this episode, we're doing a full-blown self-image rebrand!! My intention is that you actually start feeling different about yourself TODAY after listening. We're talking about the assumptions you hold about who you are, what you believe other people think of you, the old experiences that may have quietly shaped your identity, and why you can sometimes have incredible evidence right in front of you…and still struggle to actually receive it. DREAMAWAY SESSIONS MENTIONED… Self Image Reconstruction:  https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/higher-self-self-image-reconstruction-2c4394 I Am Certain - Self Image Certainty: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/higher-self-i-am-certain-self-image-certainty-67c4e5   I'm sharing one of my favorite (and honestly WILD) stories from my own self-image work as a singer-songwriter, when I was convinced nobody cared about a song I had written......only to discover that the evidence I desperately wanted was quite literally sitting somewhere I "hadn't seen it." That experience completely changed the way I think about internal validation, assumptions, and the evidence our current self-image allows us to notice. Then we're getting PRACTICAL.  I'll walk you through creating new internal dialogue, giving yourself the evidence within first, making your own Future Self visualization, practicing the identity of the person you want to become, and going full Nancy Drew mode to start collecting evidence for your new story. You don't have to wait for the outside world to give you permission to feel confident, talented, magnetic, successful, worthy, iconic, or like the person you've always wanted to be. Give yourself the evidence first. Then start noticing what changes. HYPNOSIS NIGHTTIME EPISODE MENTIONED: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/let-your-future-self-reprogram-your-reality-bedtime-hack/id1494643478?i=1000715320496 Watch this ep as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s0Bp7TqI9W8 Dreamaway Membership 7 Day Free trial: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/dreamaway/   My book: youhavethemagic.com   @haleyhoffmansmith

What if you've spent years dreaming about more success, visibility, abundance, and expansion… only to finally start getting it and realize that part of you is a little bit terrified because of that whole BELONGING THING? 👀✨ In this episode, we're exploring one of the sneakiest subconscious fears around thriving: the fear of what success might cost us in our relationships and sense of belonging. We're talking about why you might find yourself shrinking your wins, downplaying your excitement, worrying about outgrowing people you love, or even unconsciously holding yourself back because some part of you has learned that being successful = being less relatable, less supported, or more alone.   I'm sharing some very real stories from my own "come up" era (including friendship dynamics I absolutely did NOT see coming 😂), why "lonely at the top" does not have to become your story, and the practices that helped me completely change my relationship with thriving - so that success, visibility, love, support, and belonging could all exist in the same reality. Because they CAN.   You are allowed to thrive.... and to be wildly, deeply loved & celebrated as you do. Watch this ep as a video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/CjzrLi3u9bQ   Dreamaway Membership 7 Day Free trial: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/dreamaway/   90 MIN SESH - Safe to Thrive: Beyond the Gray | Saturday, September 26th 1-2:30pm ET Back in 2022, I hosted a widely beloved Slingshot session called Going Beyond the Gray, all about the fears that can arise when we leave what Robin Sharma calls "the cult of mediocrity" and allow ourselves to become more successful, visible, and fulfilled. Because thriving can bring up surprisingly deep questions around belonging: What happens when we begin to thrive in areas where people we love are struggling? Especially when we have big hearts, it can feel selfish or inconsiderate to fully inhabit our joy when someone else is going through a difficult season. We may shrink, downplay our achievements, or leave our own thriving energy in order to remain relatable. We may also FEAR thriving in the first place because of this. In this potent 90-minute session, we'll clear fears around standing out, being judged, outgrowing others, and what people might think or feel as you step into thriving. You don't have to choose between belonging and becoming everything you're meant to be.     MONEY DATE - Next Wealth Normal: Beyond the Financial Gray | Tuesday, September 15th 7-8pm ET In the theme of feeling safe to thrive, we have to talk about what happens when our subconscious considers skyrocketing to a whole new level of income….and what we believe it might mean to start making significantly more money than the people around us. Because our subconscious minds are hardwired for belonging, we can accidentally adopt the financial ceilings of our families, friends, or communities simply because exceeding them can feel unfamiliar, isolating, or even unsafe. In this Money Date, we're going beyond the financial gray: exploring the invisible upper limits you may have inherited, releasing fears around what others might think or expect of you as you become wealthier, and beginning to make a whole new level of wealth feel normal, safe, and available to you.   My book: youhavethemagic.com @haleyhoffmansmith

What if the thing that didn't work out wasn't proof that your dreams aren't happening for you….just proof that you simply couldn't see the whole picture yet?  In this episode, I'm sharing what I call The Doors Theory: a perspective that has completely changed the way I process rejection, disappointment, closed doors, and those painfully specific things I was sure had to work out. We're talking about healing the "hope wound," releasing our attachment to exactly how and when our desires arrive, rebuilding trust after disappointment, and remembering that we never actually know what's waiting behind the door that didn't open. Maybe the vision wasn't wrong. Maybe the "casting" was. This is your invitation to hope again, surrender the specifics, and trust that what is truly meant for you can arrive in a way even better than the one you imagined. 🌟 Watch video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jRC_WFOIF6E Dreamaway Hope Wound Session: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/higher-self-the-hope-wound-844ebd Dreamaway The Best is Yet to Come Session: https://dreamawaymembership.com/programs/best-is-yet-to-come Try Dreamaway's Aligned Tier free for 7 days: www.dreamawaymembership.com @haleyhoffmansmith on Instagram & TikTok My book, You Have the Magic: https://haleyhoffmansmith.com/book