Setting Boundaries or Being Controlling

Here are the three key topics discussed at a recent leadership coaching session. Some or all of it may apply to you, so give it a watch and let me know what you think.   — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach

I wanted to share with you how I got through - or more accurately, getting through - my comfort zone. Whilst it may not be a step by step guide, I talk about how I helped myself break through and get uncomfortable.  — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #ComfortZone #Fear #Breakthrough

After being labelled as 'controlling', I took a moment to see whether this was accurate. What I noticed that rather than being controlling my responses were far more to do with setting boundaries. In this episode I explore both sides.  Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #Boundaries #Controlling #Narcissistic #Gaslighting

I really invite you to try my suggestion in this episode. It can be one of the most empowering mindset shifts. especially when you're finding someone's behaviour difficult or challenging. Please watch it and try my suggestion and just notice if you experience any change.  Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #BreneBrown #RussellBrand #Perspective #Mindset

Getting back into climbing has brought up interesting feelings. There's a nervousness of trying something new and unknown, but as I exlpain I no longer what to let fear, apprehension or worry make my decisions for me. Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #ComfortZone #Apprehension #Decisions

If we can believe that someday we can look back and laugh about a current challenge, then why not do it now? Why wait. Sometimes by accessing our future selves we can accelerate our healing in the present.  — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #Emotions #Feelings #Negativity #Past

I’m trying to focus my mind on the up coming months and the demands of childcare particularly over the summer holidays. In this episode I wanted to share my approach when trying to juggle our responsibilities and demands.   — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #Expectation #Gratitude #Happiness #Life

Being told to just 'let it go' can feel really difficult. The attempt to let go can create more pain and anxiety. The alternative that I've found helpful is less about letting go but more about 'letting in' the feelings.   — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #Relationships #LettingGo #NegativeEmotions #Therapy

Back in April 2019 I began counselling. Unsure how long it'd last I wanted to document the journey and made short videos at the end of each session and posted them to Instagram. An important reason was to help give a little insight into the counselling process or at least my journey. There were 6 sessions in total before the therapy was completed. This is all those videos put together as a single video.   — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #Instagram #Counselling #Therapy

In the light of recent conversations I wanted to revisit the topic of failure. But more specifically in the importance of it, and how as parents we can over-protect our children which can result in their inability to deal with and handle problems.  — Thank you for your time and attention. Wherever you consume my content please subscribe, like and drop me a comment. More importantly, share your learnings with those that need to hear it. Your comments mean the world to me, so please take a second and say ‘Hey’ ;) — Follow Me Online Here: Instagram: http://instagram.com/benjacksoncoach Facebook: http://facebook.com/benjacksoncoaching LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjacksoncoach Snapchat: http://snapchat.com/add/benjacksoncoach Website: http://benjacksoncoaching.com  Twitter: http://twitter.com/benjacksoncoach Medium: http://medium.com/@benjacksoncoach #Parenting #Failure #Rejection #Criticism