The Dream Team

What do you actually want from your professional life?Not a job title. Not a specific company. Not the next logical step in your industry. What do you want?In this episode of Arin It Out, Arin shares how a list she created years ago—without a single job title on it—helped her get clear about the salary, flexibility, leadership, lifestyle, and professional experience she wanted. Years later, she realized she had gotten almost exactly what she asked for.Now, it’s time to make a new list.In this episode, we explore how to:• Get clear about what you actually want• Define the ingredients• Separate the WHAT from the WHERE• Stop expecting one job to give you everything• Update the listBecause getting clear about what you want professionally isn't necessarily about finding one perfect job. Your professional life can include employment, entrepreneurship, volunteering, content creation, speaking, teaching, and more.You don't have to know the exact job title you're looking for.Get specific about what you want. Stay flexible about where it comes from.So, what do you want?

What if the question isn’t “How do I get motivated?” but instead, “What’s been eroding my motivation?”In this episode of Arin It Out, Arin gets real about her own struggles with motivation and explores why losing motivation doesn’t always mean we’re lazy, undisciplined, or no longer want the things we’ve been working toward. Sometimes, our experiences slowly chip away at the motivation we already had.In this episode, we explore five things that can erode motivation:• Not experiencing enough wins• Boredom and lack of stimulation• Mental and physical depletion• Discouragement from having to keep fighting• Goals that simply feel too far awayThis isn’t just a career conversation—it’s a life conversation. Because what’s happening within us inevitably affects how we show up for our work, our relationships, our goals, and ourselves.And this week, we’re not trying to fix it. We’re simply asking:What’s eroding your motivation?

Have you ever felt like you were falling behind because someone else seemed to be moving ahead?Comparison has a way of convincing us that we're late, not enough, or somehow missing out. But the truth is, your journey was never meant to look like anyone else's.In this episode of Arin It Out, Arin explores why comparison is one of the biggest obstacles to contentment and growth. Together, we'll unpack how comparison steals our joy, shifts our focus to other people's lives, and ignores the unique circumstances, timing, and purpose that make each of our stories different.Because success isn't about keeping pace with someone else—it's about faithfully walking your own path.In this episode, we'll discuss:• How comparison robs you of the joy in your journey• Why comparison quietly puts other people at the center of your life• The danger of ignoring the unique context of your own story• Practical ways to stay focused on your own growth and purposeYour journey is your journey. Stop measuring it by someone else's milestones.

In this episode of Arin It Out, Arin explores the idea of "looking again"—at yourself, at other people, at your dreams, and at your circumstances. Drawing on psychology concepts like the primacy effect, confirmation bias, and growth mindset, this conversation challenges us to reconsider conclusions we've accepted as permanent.Because people change. Circumstances change. Perspectives change. And you change.Maybe the dream isn't dead. Maybe the relationship isn't what it once was. Maybe you're not the same person who tried before.Sometimes growth requires more than moving forward—it requires looking again.In this episode, we'll discuss:• Looking again at yourself• Looking again at others• Looking again at your dreams• Looking again at your circumstancesWhat new information do you have now that you didn't have then?

Season 2 of Arin It Out begins with an honest conversation about growth, disappointment, leadership, and becoming. After a several month break, Arin reflects on navigating unexpected setbacks, finishing the final stages of graduate school, continuing to speak and lead publicly, and learning how to trust the process even when life doesn’t unfold the way you planned.In this episode, we explore four avenues of growth:Growth Through ExposureGrowth Through DisappointmentGrowth Through CommitmentGrowth Through AlignmentBecause growth doesn’t happen overnight… but it happens.

As Arin It Out closes its first season, host Arin Patterson goes back to the foundation with one essential question: What is leadership?Drawing on Silva’s (2016) five dimensions of leadership — process, influence, context, acceptance, and shared goals — Arin blends research, real-life stories, and practical reflection to help listeners see leadership not as a title, but as a living, evolving practice. From the memorable Graduation Gridlock story to lessons learned across education, nonprofit, and higher education leadership, this finale invites listeners to slow down, think deeply, and redefine what leadership means for them.In this episode, Arin helps you:Understand the five core dimensions of effective leadershipReflect on your own influence and leadership momentsLearn how to adapt leadership to different contextsExplore how acceptance and trust shape true followershipBuild a personal Leadership Vision Framework through Purpose, People, Practice, and PromiseThis isn’t just a summary — it’s an invitation. As you look ahead to the new year, craft your own leadership vision and step into influence with clarity and confidence.

Leadership doesn’t start with a promotion, a corner office, or even a job title. In this episode of Arin It Out, host Arin Patterson explores what it means to lead from where you are—without waiting for a title to give you permission.Drawing from her own career journey across education, higher ed, nonprofit management, and operations, Arin unpacks five keys to leading without a title:Why leadership starts with your posture, not your positionHow influence is earned through trust and credibilityThe power of everyday leadership momentsThe trap of clinging to titles and statusPractical ways to add value and show leadership right nowWith stories, insights, and actionable takeaways, this episode challenges listeners to rethink what leadership really looks like in their own careers—and sets the stage for next week’s season finale, What Is Leadership?

In this episode of Arin It Out, host Arin Patterson unpacks why great leaders also know how to be great followers. Drawing from her own experiences, Arin shares how followership is more than obedience—it’s about respect, alignment, and discernment.She introduces The Five Marks of a Great Follower:Respect comes before agreementAlignment mattersWatch and learnExercising influence without authorityKnowing when to stay and when to goThrough practical insights and personal reflection, Arin shows how following well not only supports leaders and teams, but also prepares you for your own leadership journey.

In this episode of Arin It Out, host Arin Patterson explores what it really means to lead with courage, clarity, and care—drawing inspiration from Brené Brown’s book Dare to Lead.Arin reflects on three powerful themes that mirror her own beliefs about leadership:Rumbling with vulnerability — why courage requires leaders to set down their armor and embrace hard conversations.Living into values — the role of integrity, relationships, and growth in shaping authentic leadership.Learning to rise — how setbacks like layoffs or career pivots can become classrooms for stronger leadership.She also shares how leaders often learn to “function in dysfunction,” normalizing unhealthy patterns that hurt both them and their teams. Instead, daring to lead means naming dysfunction, owning mistakes, and rising stronger.This episode is equal parts personal story and practical insight, designed to help leaders reflect on where they need to “dare” a little more in their own work.

In this episode of Arin It Out, host Arin Patterson explores what makes a truly dynamic team. Drawing from her own experience working on a group that called themselves “The Dream Team,” Arin shares why balance—not sameness—is the key to lasting team success.She unpacks the five elements that every team needs:The Connector — builds trust and relationshipsThe Doer — ensures things get done and done wellThe Thinker — analyzes, questions, and prepares for the futureThe Influencer — moves people, ideas, and systems forwardThe Balancer — brings adaptability and emotional intelligence to keep the team steadyWith stories, practical insights, and a yin–yang perspective on opposites working together, this episode will help you see your team in a new light—and reflect on how you can build your own dream team.