When Religion Replaces Romance: Is That Still Love?

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Send us a textThis week, Billy’s in Los Angeles and he’s linking up with Jacob Willis from the Just Us Podcast to break down the #1 first date mistake that’s probably keeping you single — yes, YOU. 👀From awkward vibes to oversharing trauma to showing up like you already planning the wedding... we’re unpacking why your first dates might not be hitting like you think. Jacob brings the realness, the laughs, and the perspective you didn’t know you needed.Whether you're boo’d up, tired of ghosting, or tryna figure out why you never get that second date — this episode is for you.🎙️ Special Guest: Jacob Willis (@jacobwillsofficial)📍 Live from: Los Angeles, CA📚 Hosted by: Billy The Bad Guy (@billy.thebadguy)Support the show

Send us a textIn this episode, Billy catches up with the lovely Renay and things get real. From AI giving better relationship advice than your bestie, to how technology might actually be the thing saving our situationships—nothing is off-limits. We also get into friendship dynamics, Renay’s upcoming birthday (turn up loading 🎉), and Billy finally moving… but did he make a purchase he already regrets? (Of course he did.)It’s laughs, life, and a little lowkey therapy—just the way we like it. Tap in!Support the show

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Send us a textIn this episode of Needs to be Studied, Billy the Bad Guy teams up with the hilarious and unfiltered Renay (@renayproppa on IG) to break down one of the messiest topics in the workplace—how to flirt with a coworker without ending up in HR. We’re giving you signs to look for if they actually like you back, and what you should NEVER do when shooting your shot in the breakroom.Then we slide right into our next lesson: The Common Mistakes Friends With Benefits Make. Spoiler alert—it’s not just catching feelings. We’re studying the missteps, the red flags, and the unspoken rules that get ignored way too often.Grab your notebook, this episode is full of tea, chaos, and “oh damn, that’s me” moments. Let’s get into it.Support the show

Send us a textRenay is back, and class is officially in session! After stepping away to grieve the loss of her father, she returns to share her healing journey and opens up about navigating grief while trying to keep it all together.This week’s syllabus is loaded:💸 How to ask a man for money without feeling broke or embarrassed👄 Why some say oral cheating hits harder than sex💔 Grief, healing, and showing up when your world falls apartIt’s real, it’s raw, and it’s still messy in all the best ways. Tap in and take notes — you don’t wanna miss this lesson.Support the show

Send us a textWelcome back to Needs to be Studied! In today’s lesson, I’m joined by the hilarious and insightful host of the Safe and Secure Podcast for a no-holds-barred convo that might just get us both detention. We’re talking Marriage vs. Dating—the pros, the cons, and the straight-up confusion.From messy hall passes to getting expelled from situationships, we’re pulling out our old report cards and sharing wild dating stories from our younger, toxic years (yes, class, we had extra credit in chaos). Whether you’re applying for your marriage license or still getting played on the playground, this episode is full of laughs, lessons, and late-night confessions.Grab your notebooks, take attendance, and get ready to study these relationship dynamics—because baby, this one needs to be studied! 🎒📚💋Support the show

Send us a textEver wondered what really turns you on? Spoiler alert: You might be kinkier than you think! 👀🔥In this episode, we’re diving deep into the world of kinks, desires, and sexual exploration with Sir Leezus, a kink advisor who helps people unlock their hidden pleasures. We’re breaking down how to discover your true kinks, the biggest misconceptions about exploring BDSM and polyamory, and why so many people are afraid to embrace their freaky side.We also get hands-on with sensory play, take a deep dive into breath play, and discuss the importance of aftercare in kink dynamics. Whether you’re a total newbie or already deep in the lifestyle, this episode is packed with juicy insights that will expand your pleasure and boost your confidence in the bedroom.Press play and find out: 🔥 How to figure out what kinks you secretly enjoy 🔥 The #1 myth about polyamory & BDSM 🔥 What sensory play is and how to try it 🔥 Breath play—why some love it & the risks involved 🔥 The importance of aftercare & how to do it rightThis is a judgment-free zone, so get comfy and let’s unlock some desires together. You just might surprise yourself!📲 Follow & Connect: Follow Sir Leezus: @sirr.leezus Follow Needs to be Studied: @billy.thebadguy | @needstobestudiedpod 🎧 Listen now & subscribe for more spicy conversations! 🚀Support the show

Send us a textBilly is joined by Mistress Nita for a spicy crash course in sex party survival! 🌶️ In this sizzling episode, we reveal the steamy secrets of what goes down at a sex party, expose the hidden vetting process, and teach couples how to avoid rookie mistakes and master boundaries before getting hot and heavy. Plus, in our "Needs to Be Studied" segment, we show you how to find the perfect party that matches your vibe—how to spot red flags, ensure inclusivity, and keep it safe. Get ready to turn up the heat!Support the show