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How Much Life Insurance Do I Need? Why That’s the Wrong Question If you’ve ever asked, “How much life insurance do I need?”—you’re not alone. It’s a common starting point. But in this article, Bruce and I (Rachel) want to challenge that question and offer something better. Because "need" is often based on a survival mentality—what’s the bare minimum? But the real question isn’t about scraping by. It’s about what you want your life insurance to do—for you, for your spouse, for your children, and for future generations. https://www.youtube.com/live/xhGublGpz7w In this article, you'll learn: Why a needs-based approach might be leaving your family unprotected How to calculate a more empowering life insurance amount What insurance companies actually look for (and why you can't be "overinsured") The role of Infinite Banking in maximizing death benefit and legacy How to think long-term, strategically, and legacy-minded when it comes to life insurance How Much Life Insurance Do I Need? Why That’s the Wrong QuestionWhy My Husband’s First Thought Was Our Life InsuranceNeeds-Based Life Insurance Leaves You ShortThe Real Question: How Much Life Insurance Do I Want?Income Replacement + Future Value = What You’re Really ProtectingDeath Benefit Grows with Infinite BankingInsurability: Use It or Lose ItCost vs. Value: What Wealthy People UnderstandBuild a Life Insurance Strategy That EmpowersLearn More in the PodcastBook A Strategy Call Why My Husband’s First Thought Was Our Life Insurance Six years ago, I was in the ICU. My husband, Lucas, held our newborn baby girl as the doctors delivered updates that swung between hope and despair. One moment, it was "we stopped the bleeding," the next, "this is still serious." As he prayed through the fear and the unknown, one practical thought anchored him: We have life insurance. Not just any policy—we had as much life insurance as we could get. And in that moment, he knew he wouldn't have to make rushed decisions or shoulder financial pressure on top of emotional trauma. That policy was our safety net, our peace of mind. That’s why this conversation matters. It’s not just about numbers on paper. It’s about preparing for the moments you hope never come—and giving your family the ability to respond from a place of strength. Needs-Based Life Insurance Leaves You Short Most people approach life insurance with a checklist: Mortgage? Check. College for kids? Check. Debts? Check. Burial expenses? Check. And that’s how traditional advisors calculate the "amount you need." They total up obligations and say, “That’s your number.” But this method reduces life insurance to a bill-pay strategy. It doesn’t account for who you are, the value of your work, or the future your family deserves to continue building. In the Infinite Banking world, we don’t view life insurance as just a financial parachute. We see it as a tool for opportunity, a storehouse of value, and a means to start your family ahead, not just keep them from falling behind. The Real Question: How Much Life Insurance Do I Want? "Need" is survival. "Want" is vision. If your life insurance policy could fund your family’s future, preserve your estate, and launch the next generation into opportunity—how much would you want? Bruce and I often see families with grossly underfunded policies simply because they didn’t know what was possible. Insurance companies assess what’s called your human life value—a calculation of your income, age, and potential future earnings. Based on that, they allow you to apply for a corresponding death benefit. If you qualify for $4 million in coverage, it's because they believe your life’s economic value warrants it. You can’t be overinsured. The carriers won’t let you. So the real question becomes: If they’ll insure me for this amount… why wouldn’t I take it? Income Replacement + Future Value = What You’re Really Protecting

Lately, we’ve seen a troubling trend online. People—some well-meaning, some not—are sharing misinformation about mutual holding companies, claiming these companies are no longer mutually owned or that they’ve quietly abandoned their policyholders. That couldn’t be further from the truth. So Joe, Bruce, and I decided it was time to clear the air. Because when it comes to protecting your family’s legacy, clarity matters more than opinion. You deserve to understand the facts—not fear-based interpretations. And as we’ve seen too often, when confusion spreads unchecked, people start making financial decisions on the wrong foundation. That’s not stewardship. That’s reaction. Why We Had to Talk About Mutual Holding CompaniesWhat Is a Mutual Holding Company?Do Policyholders Still Have Ownership and Voting Rights?Why Would a Company Make This Change?Are Mutual Holding Companies Dangerous?What Does This Mean for Your Infinite Banking Strategy?What This Means for YouBook A Strategy Call Why We Had to Talk About Mutual Holding Companies When you use whole life insurance as a long-term asset—and especially when you're building a Privatized Banking System—you want to know the company you’ve partnered with is stable, aligned with your values, and built to honor policyholders for the long haul. That's why we recorded this episode: To define what a mutual holding company really is To contrast it with traditional mutual companies To explore how it affects voting rights, ownership, and trust And to provide clarity amid a cloud of online confusion Our goal is not to push any specific company, nor to attack those raising questions. But we do want to make sure the conversation is grounded in accuracy—because your stewardship depends on it. What Is a Mutual Holding Company? At its core, a mutual holding company (MHC) is a specific kind of corporate structure that allows a life insurance company to retain mutual ownership while gaining the flexibility to create stock subsidiaries. This means the parent company is still owned by policyholders, while the subsidiary has the ability to raise capital through stock offerings. Bruce broke it down this way: “A mutual company is owned by the policyholders... When it becomes a mutual holding company, it’s still owned by the policyholders, but they insert a stock company below that for reasons like expanding or raising capital.” This structural change is about flexibility—especially for future growth, acquisitions, or increased reserve requirements. It’s not inherently negative. It’s a strategic business decision, and it's one we should understand, not fear. Do Policyholders Still Have Ownership and Voting Rights? Yes—and this is where the misinformation gets loudest and most misleading. In a mutual holding company, policyholders still own the mutual holding company itself. That hasn’t changed. What has changed is that the operational insurance company underneath the holding company is now a stock entity—one that may have shareholders in addition to the parent company. Rachel explained: “There’s this perception that if a company becomes a mutual holding company, they’re no longer mutually owned... But that’s not true. The policyholders still own the mutual holding company. They still elect the board.” So yes, the structure is layered. But no, policyholders haven’t been stripped of ownership or voting rights. Joe added that this structure can even be a way for companies to avoid full demutualization, which would entirely sever mutual ownership. Why Would a Company Make This Change? There are many reasons an insurer might transition to an MHC: To raise capital for growth To meet solvency or reserve requirements To create a defensive structure to avoid hostile takeovers or future demutualization To diversify business offerings or form subsidiaries Bruce emphasized that mutual companies must act in the poli...

A few weeks ago, something special happened as we kicked off a podcast recording—Joe DeFazio held up a first edition copy of Becoming Your Own Banker by Nelson Nash. It had just arrived in his hands, passed down like a sacred trust. https://www.youtube.com/live/4MpwxirBpGA We weren’t in the same room, so Bruce and I couldn’t flip through the pages or feel its weight for ourselves—but even through the screen, we felt the gravity. Because legacy isn’t just a word. It’s a responsibility. A principle to be protected. A baton handed from one generation to the next. That moment with Joe sparked a powerful conversation—one that led us straight into one of the most debated and misunderstood topics in the Infinite Banking world: Single Premium Paid-Up Additions (SPUA). So we hit record. What This Article Will Help You UnderstandWhat Are Single Premium Paid-Up Additions (SPUA)?Why Single Premium Paid-Up Additions Sound So AttractiveThe Hidden Risks of SPUA-Focused Policy DesignWhat Nelson Nash Actually TaughtWhen Might Single Premium Paid-Up Additions Make Sense?Designing Policies with Stability, Not Just SpeedWhy This Matters to Your LegacyLearn More in the Full EpisodeBook A Strategy Call What This Article Will Help You Understand Whether you're new to Infinite Banking or already several policies in, the way your policy is designed will either set you up for long-term success or put you on shaky ground. In this article, you’ll learn: What a Single Premium Paid-Up Addition (SPUA) actually is Why it’s used and how it can be beneficial in certain scenarios The hidden risks of designing your policy with a large SPUA The difference between short-term cash value and long-term capital building What Nelson Nash really taught—and why his principles are more relevant than ever How to make smart, future-focused decisions about your family’s financial system This is for anyone who wants clarity, not confusion. Stewardship, not hype. And legacy, not just liquidity. What Are Single Premium Paid-Up Additions (SPUA)? Let’s define this clearly. A Single Premium Paid-Up Addition, or SPUA, is a one-time lump sum payment you make into your whole life insurance policy. This premium increases your death benefit and creates immediate cash value—without any future obligation to continue funding that specific rider. It’s often marketed as a fast way to “supercharge” your cash value in the first year of your policy. But here’s what we want you to know: while that may be true in the short term, SPUAs come with trade-offs that must be understood before you jump in. Why Single Premium Paid-Up Additions Sound So Attractive In theory, Single Premium Paid-Up Additions are incredibly appealing: You get immediate access to a large chunk of cash value You avoid the need to commit to an ongoing payment You increase the policy's death benefit right away You can “jumpstart” the banking process sooner If you just received a windfall—or you want liquidity right now—this can sound like the perfect fit. And that’s why it’s being marketed so heavily. But we urge you: don’t just ask what sounds good today. Ask what still works 30 years from now. Because when you dig into the details, you realize it’s not about how fast your policy can go. It’s about how well it can hold up when the storms come. The Hidden Risks of SPUA-Focused Policy Design Here’s where we need to slow down and talk about the bigger picture. When a policy is designed to accept a large SPUA, a few things must happen under the hood: The policy’s base premium is minimized A significant term rider is added to prevent MEC (Modified Endowment Contract) status The design often pushes the illustration right up to the IRS limits for tax-advantaged treatment This creates a fragile foundation. Think of it like this: if your policy is a sailboat, the base is the hull. The PUA is the sail.

In today’s post, Bruce and I (Rachel Marshall) want to bring you behind the scenes of a candid and educational conversation we had with Matt Ewald, Vice President of Life Insurance at Advisors Excel. If you’ve ever wondered when and why to use guaranteed universal life insurance (GUL) —especially in the context of estate planning—this one is for you. We’ve been having more and more conversations with families who aren’t just thinking about how to grow their wealth—but how to keep it intact for the next generation. And when estate taxes enter the picture, the stakes change. It’s not just about protecting income anymore—it’s about protecting impact. About making sure what you’ve built doesn’t get lost in fees, confusion, or government claims. Because when it comes to life insurance in the context of wealth transfer, you’re not just planning for protection—you’re planning for legacy. Let’s get into it. Why This Conversation MattersFrom Infinite Banking to Estate Strategy: A Shift in FocusGuaranteed Universal Life insurance 101: What It Is (and Isn’t)Estate Planning and the Tax ConversationThe Myth of “Set It and Forget It”What About Accessing Capital?Roth Conversions, IRA Taxes, and Legislative RiskThe Real Value: Peace of Mind, Not Just Rate of ReturnWhat We CoveredBook A Strategy Call Why This Conversation Matters If you’re like most of our clients, you’re already successful. You’ve created wealth, you’ve stewarded well—and now you’re asking deeper questions. Questions like: How do I pass on what I’ve built with intention? How do I shield my estate from unnecessary taxation? Is whole life the only tool for this? Or is there something else I should consider? In this blog, we’re breaking down exactly what guaranteed universal life insurance is, how it’s different from traditional IULs and whole life, and why it could be a strategic piece in your legacy plan. From Infinite Banking to Estate Strategy: A Shift in Focus We spend a lot of time on this podcast talking about whole life and its power as a privatized banking system—a way to store capital, access liquidity, and fund your life on your own terms. But not every financial goal calls for cash accumulation. Sometimes, the goal isn’t to use the money during your lifetime at all. It’s to transfer wealth efficiently, minimize estate taxes, and ensure your heirs receive more—without the friction and loss. And that’s where guaranteed universal life enters the scene. Guaranteed Universal Life insurance 101: What It Is (and Isn’t) Matt Ewald described guaranteed universal life insurance as a permanent term contract. That phrase stuck with me. Here’s what it means: GUL is designed to give you the most death benefit for the least premium. Unlike cash-rich whole life or traditional IULs used for banking or income, GUL is a protection-first strategy. The focus is not on growing cash inside the policy. The focus is on locking in a death benefit that will be there guaranteed—no matter what the market does. And what makes it guaranteed? The no-lapse guarantee rider. This rider is the linchpin. It says, “As long as you pay the premium exactly as illustrated, this policy will not lapse—no matter how the underlying market indexes perform, no matter what cap rates change, no matter what happens behind the scenes.” It’s simple. It’s predictable. And it’s ideal for estate planning when death benefit certainty is the priority. Estate Planning and the Tax Conversation Here’s the reality we’re facing: The estate tax exemption today is high—around $13 million per person. But it won’t stay there forever. Just 20 years ago, it was $1 million. And the political winds are already shifting toward reducing the exemption again. That means more families will face estate tax exposure in the future—even those who don’t consider themselves “ultra-wealthy.” And taxes at death are not just a theoretical prob...

There’s a story Buffy Ruthardt shared that still gives me chills. She and her husband Darren were on a drive, just processing life and legacy—wondering aloud what it might look like for their children to live in their inheritance while they were still alive. Not just financially, but spiritually, relationally, and generationally. https://www.youtube.com/live/dMMgfxEohsI It was a bold idea. But they didn’t know how to do it. No roadmap. No clarity. No strategy to get there. And then… they heard a Facebook ad for Seven Generations Legacy®. That was the nudge. They followed that moment of divine appointment to begin faith-based legacy planning, and today, their family is operating with a whole new level of clarity, unity, and purpose. “We were doing our best… but we had no tracks to run on.”Faith-Based Legacy Planning in ActionFrom Disconnected Assets to a Unified Legacy VisionThe Meaning: Writing Down the Culture That Was Already ThereThe Mechanism: Getting the Legal and Structural House in OrderThe Money: From Siloed Accounts to Stewardship StrategyThe Fruit of Faith-Based Legacy Planning: Family Meetings, Health Goals, and a Future PodcastWhat It Really Means to Align Wealth with ValuesWant to Build Your Own Legacy?Book A Strategy Call “We were doing our best… but we had no tracks to run on.” I’ll never forget this moment. Buffy and Darren sat across from me on Zoom, eyes bright with conviction, reflecting on their journey. They’d built a beautiful life—decades of hard work, provision, blessing. But as they looked at their children, now adults, they knew something deeper was stirring. “We had direction,” Buffy said, “but no map.” That’s when they found the Seven Generations Legacy® Coaching Program. And everything changed. They weren’t just searching for a way to preserve wealth. They were on a mission to steward something sacred: their faith, their values, and the legacy they knew God had placed in their hands for generations to come. Faith-Based Legacy Planning in Action When we talk about faith-based legacy planning, we’re not just talking about trust documents or estate strategies. We’re talking about shaping the kind of family culture that lasts beyond your lifetime. That’s what Darren and Buffy came looking for—and that’s what they built. They had wealth. They had faith. They had a vision. What they needed was a mechanism. At The Money Advantage™, we don’t talk about inheritance the way the world does. This isn’t about how much you leave—it’s about what you leave in the people you love. If you’ve ever thought… “I’ve built something valuable—but how do I pass it on with meaning?” “Our kids aren’t quite ready… but I want to guide them.” “We have the assets, but not the structure. Where do we start?” …then you’re not alone. And this story is for you. In this episode of The Money Advantage™ Podcast, we unpack their full journey—from feeling stuck with disjointed entities and unspoken hopes… to confidently stewarding their family’s meaning, mechanism, and money with purpose.We’ll walk you through Darren and Buffy’s real-life experience using the Seven Generations Legacy® process, including: Why they felt stuck, even after decades of success How they aligned their faith, finances, and family The power of creating meaning and mechanism—not just money What happened after they hosted their first Family Legacy Summit This isn’t theory. This is transformation. If you’ve ever wondered how to truly align your values with your wealth—or how to pass on something deeper than money—this story is for you. From Disconnected Assets to a Unified Legacy Vision Darren and Buffy didn’t come to Seven Generations Legacy empty-handed. They had two decades of successful business ownership, investments, and assets. But what they didn’t have was an integrated plan—or a way to ensure it wouldn’t all unravel when passed to the next generat...

Let me tell you a quick story. Imagine walking into your local grocery store, grabbing a can of peas, and sneaking out the back door without paying. It sounds ridiculous—maybe even unethical, right? Now, imagine the opposite: You pick up the same can, go to the register, pay for it, and walk out the front door with a receipt in hand.  https://www.youtube.com/live/GZ7wNDb-ugY That simple act—paying at the register instead of sneaking out the back—perfectly illustrates one of the most misunderstood aspects of how to design a whole life policy for Infinite Banking. In the world of Infinite Banking, how you design your policy—how you pay into it, structure it, and use it—determines whether you’re building a self-sustaining system or just draining your wealth through the back door. Why Policy Design Isn’t Just Technical—It’s TransformationalWhy Most People Start Too Small—or Too FastHow to Design a Whole Life Policy for Infinite Banking That Lasts a LifetimeUnderstand the Balance: Base Premium vs. PUAYou’re Plugging Into a 200-Year-Old Business ModelCompound Interest Only Works If You Stop Interrupting ItLegacy Isn’t a Caboose—It’s the EngineWhat Happens When You Design It RightBook A Strategy Call Why Policy Design Isn’t Just Technical—It’s Transformational Most people hear about infinite banking and jump to the mechanics: “Just get a whole life policy, borrow against the cash value, and repeat.” But here’s what they don’t realize—the policy design is the difference between building a thriving family banking system and being stuck in financial frustration. It’s not just about having a policy. It’s about knowing how to design a whole life policy for infinite banking that supports liquidity, growth, leverage, and generational transfer. In this blog, we’re going to walk you through: Why policy design matters more than people think The difference between base premium and paid-up additions (PUAs) The hidden costs of “high cash value” quick starts How to build a system of policies, not just one Why thinking generationally changes everything By the end, you’ll understand exactly how to create a design that serves your financial life now and becomes a blessing to future generations. Why Most People Start Too Small—or Too Fast We see it all the time. Someone discovers infinite banking and gets excited. They want a policy with the most cash value right now. And that’s not wrong—it’s just shortsighted. Here’s the truth: Policies that prioritize high early cash value often sacrifice long-term performance. The reason? To make those numbers work, designers load up the policy with PUAs (paid-up additions) and sometimes minimal base premium. That means you get very high liquidity early, yes—but you may cap out your insurability and miss the long-term efficiency that comes from a well-balanced policy. As Joe put it: "The only truly bad policy is the one that uses up all your capacity and then handicaps you from fixing it later." The real win is designing a policy you can grow with—and expand into a system over time. How to Design a Whole Life Policy for Infinite Banking That Lasts a Lifetime Nelson Nash, the father of infinite banking, made it crystal clear: You’re not solving your entire banking need with a single policy. You’re building a system—a privatized family banking system that scales with your life. If you view your first policy as the only policy, you’ll over-optimize for short-term performance and miss the compounding tailwinds available when you structure for longevity. Instead, when you're considering how to design a whole life policy for infinite banking, think in terms of scalability. Start with one. Make sure it’s structured well. Then expand. Think of it like building a fleet of airplanes, not just one solo jet. Each new policy adds to your system's speed, altitude, and carrying capacity. Over time,

It started with a bold question that showed up in a public comment: "If infinite banking is so powerful, why wouldn't I just put all my income into a whole life policy?" That single comment sparked a deeply layered, thoughtful conversation that we knew needed more attention. It wasn't criticism. It was curiosity. And curiosity, when channeled with wisdom and humility, can be a catalyst for generational transformation. So today, we’re opening up that conversation—and giving you the full picture of what it really means to go "all in" with infinite banking. What You’re Really Asking When You Consider Putting All Your Income into a Whole Life PolicyShould You Really Put All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy? (The Real Answer May Surprise You)The Spirit Behind the Question Think Long Range: The Power of Time Don’t Be Afraid to Capitalize—But Be Strategic Policy Design: Base vs. PUA, and Why It Matters Understand Insurability and Premium Affordability Sustainability Is Freedom The Danger of Over-Leveraging and Poor RepaymentWhy All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy Shouldn’t Be Your Only StrategyBook A Strategy Call What You’re Really Asking When You Consider Putting All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy The idea of putting all your income into a whole life policy sounds bold—even radical. And in the context of the infinite banking concept (IBC), it’s a question worth exploring. As someone who's lived and breathed this philosophy, I (Rachel Marshall) have heard this question before. And in this conversation with my colleague Joe DeFazio, we wanted to approach it with both clarity and candor. Because here’s the truth: Yes, whole life insurance and infinite banking can be incredibly powerful tools for financial freedom, stewardship, and legacy-building. But like any strategy, the design and implementation matter. In this article, we're going to unpack the principles behind the idea of putting all your income into a whole life policy, the risks, the benefits, and most importantly—the mindset that helps you use this tool to its fullest, most sustainable potential. You’ll learn: - Why infinite banking isn't just about the numbers—it's about long-term thinking - The role of policy design and insurability - How to balance capitalization with sustainability - Why freedom comes through commitment Let’s dive in. Should You Really Put All Your Income into a Whole Life Policy? (The Real Answer May Surprise You) If you're asking whether to put all your income into a whole life policy, you’re not alone. It’s a question we hear often—and for good reason. The Infinite Banking Concept is compelling. It gives you control, liquidity, privacy, and long-term access to capital. It feels like the financial tool we’ve all been waiting for—and in many ways, it is. But let’s be clear: Infinite Banking is a system. Not a silver bullet. Going "all in" on a whole life policy without the right structure is like planting seeds without soil. Yes, premium matters. But without a clear understanding of how that premium fits into your broader wealth strategy, you could easily find yourself over-leveraged and cash-strapped. Nelson Nash taught us that capitalization is essential, but he never said to abandon wisdom in the process. That’s why our answer is almost always: no, don’t put all your income into a policy. Instead, fund it based on your long-term strategy, your liquidity needs, your investing rhythm, and your ability to keep the policy active through every season of life. Think marathon, not sprint. When clients ask this question, we gently guide them back to the deeper one: What are you really trying to build? Because when you understand the real vision, your policy becomes a tool—not a trap. The Spirit Behind the Question We weren’t offended by the question. Quite the opposite. It takes courage to ask, "Why not go all in?" But before we can even answer that,

Recently, Bruce shared a story that perfectly illustrates unexpected life challenges—his basement flooded, turning a peaceful Easter weekend into an emergency cleanup session. Just as unexpected problems can flood your home, unanswered financial questions can flood your business strategy, especially questions like: "Can you deduct life insurance premiums?" https://www.youtube.com/live/crKKtLvZ44k Tax questions, much like sudden home repairs, can disrupt your carefully planned financial landscape. Whether it's water damage or unclear tax regulations, not addressing the problem can lead to costly mistakes down the road. Today, Bruce and I aim to clear up one of these significant financial uncertainties for business owners. Why Understanding Life Insurance Deductions MattersUnderstanding the Deductibility of Life Insurance PremiumsCan You Deduct Life Insurance PremiumsThe Supreme Court’s Stance and Its ImplicationsStrategic Ways to Indirectly Deduct PremiumsAvoiding Short-Term Tax MistakesContracts vs. Accounts: Ensuring Long-Term CertaintyNavigating Complexity with Professional HelpThe Strategic Power of Life Insurance PremiumsBook A Strategy Call Why Understanding Life Insurance Deductions Matters The question "Can you deduct life insurance premiums?" isn't just a minor tax issue—it's central to building an efficient, effective, and robust financial strategy. Life insurance policies are powerful financial tools that, when used correctly, can significantly enhance your financial well-being. However, misunderstandings about their tax implications can lead to missed opportunities or even costly errors. In this detailed article, you'll gain clarity regarding the question "Can you deduct life insurance premiums?", the rationale behind IRS rulings, practical and legitimate strategies to indirectly achieve similar benefits, and the pitfalls to avoid in your quest for tax efficiency. By mastering these concepts, you'll be well-equipped to incorporate life insurance intelligently into your broader financial planning strategy. Understanding the Deductibility of Life Insurance Premiums Can You Deduct Life Insurance Premiums Bruce frequently encounters confusion among business owners about deducting life insurance premiums. Let’s clear this up immediately: in most cases, you cannot directly deduct life insurance premiums from your taxes if the business owner benefits directly from the policy. The IRS views this scenario as lacking genuine "economic substance," as the policyholder ultimately recoups these premiums through a tax-free death benefit, meaning there's no real economic loss to justify a deduction. The Supreme Court’s Stance and Its Implications Bruce highlighted a crucial Supreme Court ruling that set clear boundaries for tax deductions related to life insurance. This landmark decision explicitly stated that deducting premiums or interest on life insurance loans is generally not permissible when the insured party directly benefits. The reasoning is straightforward: since you or your estate will eventually receive these premiums back in the form of a tax-free death benefit, the premiums do not represent an actual financial loss or expense that justifies a tax deduction. Understanding this ruling can save you from potentially costly mistakes and help you align your tax strategies with IRS expectations. Strategic Ways to Indirectly Deduct Premiums Despite the restrictions, Bruce and I discussed legitimate and strategic methods to effectively reduce taxable income and indirectly finance life insurance premiums: Employing Family Members: Bruce pays his father for legitimate business-related marketing tasks. As his father falls into a lower tax bracket, this transaction reduces Bruce’s taxable income and generates additional cash flow, indirectly supporting life insurance premium payments. Paying Your Children: Another powerful strategy is employing your children within your bus...

When we first started talking about estate planning with life insurance, it was because we saw a massive disconnect in how families were thinking about their wealth. Not just the numbers. But the purpose behind it. https://www.youtube.com/live/sqVXY199ygQ Bruce and I were in the middle of one of our deeper conversations—talking through how most people think life insurance is just a “check the box” kind of thing. They get the policy, set up a will or trust, and assume their family is covered. But what they haven’t thought through is how that money will be used. What it’s meant to fund. What kind of mindset or framework their children need to carry it forward well. Bruce said it best in the episode: “You’ve got a bunch of people out there who are trying to do the right thing—but they’re buying the wrong tool for the job. Or they’re leaving out the whole reason they got it in the first place: to provide for their family in a way that actually works.” And that’s what this article is about. This isn’t just about life insurance. It’s about using the right kind of policy inside an estate plan that’s built for generations, not just legal compliance. It’s about creating a strategy that protects your wealth and prepares your children. It’s about designing a legacy—on purpose. What Is Estate Planning with Life Insurance—and Why Does It Matter?Why Estate Planning with Life Insurance Creates Immediate LiquidityWhole Life Insurance vs. Universal Life: Why Guarantees MatterUsing Life Insurance to Offset Estate Taxes and Preserve WealthPassing on More Than Money: Embedding Stewardship Into the PlanDesigning Your Policy Without Triggering a MECWhen Estate Planning with Life Insurance Is Part of a Bigger VisionWhat the 2026 Estate Tax Sunset Means for Your FamilyWhat Is an ILIT—and Why You Might Need OneQuick-Start Checklist: How to Begin Estate Planning with Life InsuranceFinal Thoughts: Don’t Let the Opportunity Slip AwayWant Help Designing Your Legacy Strategy?Book A Strategy Call What Is Estate Planning with Life Insurance—and Why Does It Matter? Estate planning with life insurance is one of the most overlooked but powerful ways to ensure your family is protected, your assets are preserved, and your values are carried forward with intention. It's not just about paying estate taxes or transferring wealth efficiently. Done right, it gives your heirs time, options, and guidance. It replaces financial panic with peace of mind. And it makes sure that what you've built doesn't just last—it multiplies. If you have real estate, a business, investments, or a vision for generational wealth, this is a conversation you cannot afford to postpone. Why Estate Planning with Life Insurance Creates Immediate Liquidity Here’s what most people don’t realize: When you pass away, even if your estate is “in order,” your heirs may be stuck needing to pay estate taxes within nine months. If your wealth is tied up in real estate, private equity, or business holdings, your family might be forced to sell those assets at a loss—just to pay the bill. That’s where life insurance for estate taxes becomes mission-critical. With a guaranteed death benefit, whole life insurance creates instant liquidity—giving your family the cash they need to cover expenses, hold onto appreciated assets, and stay out of financial distress. In the episode, Bruce shared, “The beauty of this strategy is that it gives you certainty. And certainty is a gift—especially when the world is reeling from loss.” This is what makes estate planning with life insurance such a foundational part of a healthy, functional legacy plan. Whole Life Insurance vs. Universal Life: Why Guarantees Matter Not all life insurance is built to withstand the test of time. Bruce and I have reviewed countless policies that looked good on paper—but were designed with the wrong product. Universal Life policies may seem attractive because of ...

What do the St. Louis Rams and Prince have in common? Their stories illustrate the pros and cons of an ILIT—or, more accurately, what happens when estate planning tools like an ILIT aren’t used at all. https://www.youtube.com/live/ni7KgQ_ZTLI They both became cautionary tales of what happens when estate planning falls short. When Georgia Frontiere passed away, her heirs were forced to sell the Rams to cover estate taxes. Prince’s estate? Still tied up in probate years after his death. These aren’t stories of neglect or ignorance. These are stories of high-capacity individuals who didn’t have the right tools in place. And that’s why today’s conversation matters. Because we’re diving into a financial strategy that could mean the difference between your family being forced to sell a cherished asset—or preserving it for generations. We’re talking about ILITs: Irrevocable Life Insurance Trusts. Why ILITs Matter More Than You Might ThinkWhat Is an ILIT and How Does It Work?Estate Taxes: Why the Exemption Threshold MattersThe Pros and Cons of an ILITThe Pros of Using an ILITThe Cons of Using an ILITWhen Does an ILIT Make Sense?Strategic Flexibility: You Don’t Have to Choose All or NothingThe Generational Impact of Strategic PlanningIs an ILIT Right for You?Book A Strategy Call Why ILITs Matter More Than You Might Think Whether you’re familiar with ILITs or hearing the term for the first time, this strategy could hold the key to protecting your estate, reducing tax liability, and setting up your heirs for success. But it’s not a one-size-fits-all solution. In fact, it may not be the right move for everyone—but for some, it can be one of the most powerful wealth-preserving tools available. This blog will unpack what an ILIT is, how it works, and most importantly, the pros and cons of an ILIT. We’ll also explore the real-life application of ILITs, share client insights, and equip you with actionable steps you can take. By the end, you’ll know if this tool aligns with your multigenerational vision and the legacy you want to leave. And if it does, you’ll be empowered to act decisively. What Is an ILIT and How Does It Work? An ILIT—short for Irrevocable Life Insurance Trust—is exactly what it sounds like: a trust that holds life insurance outside of your estate. It has its own tax ID, its own trustee (not you), and its own beneficiaries. This separation means that when you pass, the death benefit doesn’t get added to your estate total—which could potentially save your heirs from paying up to 40% in federal estate tax on that benefit. At the state level, those percentages could be even more aggressive depending on where you live. That’s the power of an ILIT: separation equals protection. It turns your life insurance policy into a strategic asset that bypasses probate and keeps your wealth intact. Estate Taxes: Why the Exemption Threshold Matters Right now, the estate tax exemption for a couple is over $26 million. That means if your estate is worth less than that, you won’t owe federal estate taxes. But here’s the catch: that number is a moving target. It’s not static, and it’s not guaranteed. Congress has changed it before and will likely do so again. Under previous administrations, the exemption was as low as $2 million. And with $36 trillion in national debt and rising, the likelihood of Congress lowering that threshold is very real. It’s not a matter of if the rules will change—it’s a matter of when. And if you wait until after they do, it may be too late to put the right tools in place. That means even if your estate is valued at $10 or $15 million today, you could face estate taxes tomorrow—unless you plan proactively. The Pros and Cons of an ILIT The Pros of Using an ILIT Reduces Estate Taxes: The biggest benefit. By keeping the death benefit outside your estate, you prevent your estate from ballooning in value and triggering taxes.