The Boss Bitch Show Podcast

Kirsten & Rachel talk to retired pro-dominatrix, now aesthetician & comedian, Madame Namio. She opens up about overcoming abuse and sexual assault through a healing domination performance art piece that led her to become a professional dominatrix. They discuss the possible dangers but also the healing capabilities of BDSM. Namio shares how her foundation of boundaries, communication, and consent from sex work has informed her practice as an aesthetician specializing in sugar waxing. She also shares the horrors of being a server at a high-end NYC hotel and how it led her to stand-up comedy career. Follow Madame Namio on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter. Aesthetician salon updates on IG and check out her queer strip night Thirst at The Sultan room Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

Rachel and Kirsten talk to adult film GODDESS, Arabelle Raphael. She shares about the Boss Bitch life she created for herself through a myriad of sex work and breaking into the industry as a heavily-tattooed, curvy, mixed-race Middle Eastern Jew (aka SUPER HOT). They dissect the umbrella term of sex work, and what boundaries mean for the safety and risks of sex workers. Of course, they ask about Arabelle's funniest stories from set, what kind of porn she likes to watch (think The Little Mermaid Rated XXX), and about playing MILFS (and loving it)! The juicy conversation continues as they discuss the silliness of sex, sex with young men, Arabelle's experiences with some of Rachel's favorite stars, romantic relationships while working in the industry, and the pleasures of being a SLUT.  If you're enjoying the podcast and want to show some love, here's our Venmo Check out Arabelle on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter and of course OnlyFans Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

Rachel and Kirsten talk to Ian Goldstein, musical comedian and producer of The Autoimmune Saloon, a comedy variety show about chronic illness. Ian opens up about his Crohn's disease and the batsh*t things people say to him. They discuss the dangers of TikTok doctors, and the joys/horrors of colonoscopies, LEEP procedures, and colonics. Ian shares about his split from keeping Kosher and Orthodox Judaism, and Rachel shares about her Birthright trip and almost choice to be Orthodox. The three also discuss holistic medicine, the mind-body connection and the possible links between intergenerational trauma and chronic illness, and have a good laugh about the bs of ancestry tests. Ian tells us about his apartment show meet-cute with his literal clown girlfriend.  Follow Ian on Instagram and check out his show Autoimmune Saloon at Caveat on May 23 Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

The OG Boss Bitrches dish on dating - from Facebook Dating, XXX GIFs, sexting and equal opportunity f*ckers to guys that love to tell you how much they love Dave Chappelle (and probably Joe Rogan). Kirsten implores men to dismantle their internalized misogyny and white supremacy, and she admits to some of her own binary thinking after a friend she thought only dated men, posted a hard launch of their girlfriend. Kirsten reminisces about her "feral" days, and they both make plans to grill self-proclaimed doms about their aftercare game. Other topics include Rachel getting oral on her balcony from "The Serbian'' and the "Flossing Fairy" in German Schools. Enjoy the chaos! Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

Kirsten and Rachel talk to Rev. Wendy Van Allen -- priestess, counselor, and author of her new book, "Relighting the Cauldron: Embracing Nature Spirituality in Our Modern World." Wendy talks about her lifelong practice of witchcraft and how self-healing contributes to the healing of our planet. She shares her interfaith approach to counseling and the different indigenous and pagan traditions that have influenced her practice. In a new segment, "Bitch or Boss Bitch" Rachel and Kirsten ask Wendy's thoughts on fellow spiritual teacher and 2024 presidential candidate, Marianne Williamson. They go down the rabbit hole of politics discussing anti-LGBTQIA+ legislation, book banning, abortion laws, the f*$&ing state of Florida, and the dangers of proximity to power. Kirsten fangirls over TikTok AGAIN, and the three share their hope in the next generation and the true Age of Aquarius.  Check out The Soul Blossom Center and Wendy's new book Relighting The Cauldron. Follow her on Facebook, TikTok, or this August at the Parliament of World Religions in Chicago Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

The Boss Bitch Show talks to Maggie Lalley, standup & musical comedy star of Sex Witch The Musical, and its upcoming run at Soho Playhouse! They also discuss therapy (duh), spiritual advisors, and Maggie's fond memory of getting railed in a park by the Harlem Sex Ghost?? The three talk about their writing processes, and all the times they thought they were going to "make it", like when Maggie got recognized on the street for playing a Dutch sex slave. Rachel counts how many people she has peed on and reveals a sexy CityMD story, and Kirsten reminisces about the lovers whose names she forgot.  Follow Maggie on Instagram for fab content and discount code to Sex Witch The Musical. Also check her out on TikTok and Twitter. Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

In this episode, Kirsten & Rachel attempt to go live on Instagram during the recording (and fail). They discuss everything from dating app disasters, men thinking they're funny (when they're not), the importance of a mental connection and how going to therapy is hot. Current events like the Silicon Valley Bank crash, Angela Bassett at the Oscars, and Rihanna's Super Bowl performance are discussed along with the patriarchy's deep need to control women. Kirsten shares about her latest Tik Tok rabbit hole and her beaver's hibernation until further notice, and they both share about dramatic breakups and their favorite board games! Please DM us your questions, suggestions, topics you would like us to discuss or guests you would like us to interview.   Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

Alt titles: "Don't get finger banged in the hot tub at Spa Castle" and "Getting railed up the butt by a strap-on (for a cis white man) is the ultimate act of feminism." Rachel and Kirsten talk to Reid Mihalko -- internationally known sex and relationship geek who helps adults create more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives. Rachel and Reid talk about their 20-year friendship (and sometimes sex), and how their outlooks on sexual health have been impacted by play parties and the poly community. The three extensively discuss the destigmatization of / how to have safer sex conversations -- Reid and Kirsten even practice having one right on the show! Reid shares his experience and process of being held accountable for causing harm. Rachel and Kirsten commiserate over their struggles with dating app culture and their boundaries around sexual conversations (even though they tell a million sex jokes on stage). And lastly, of note, Kirsten has her ankles in the air for most of the episode. Follow Reid on Instagram, his Website. Get the safer sex elevator talk, learn about his accountability process, Sex Geek Summer Camp Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

Rachel and Kirsten chat with Yokasta -- Holistic Health Practitioner, Licensed Massage Therapist, Reiki Practitioner, Interspiritual Minister, and founder of NYC's Kasa Healing. Right out the gate, they take a deep dive into boss bitch terminology and how it can be reclaimed for good or co-opted by capitalism. The three discuss energy, intention and projecting intuition -- through spirituality, shared vibrational experience, sacred geometry, various modalities, and Dr. Emoto's studies on water consciousness. Yokasta presents the inquiries - how do we empower ourselves without disempowering others, and how do we state our needs and boundaries while detaching from the results? The conversation flows into gender expression, the multitudes we embody, not dimming your light, Caroline Myss, nature's higher intelligence... of course Madonna!  Follow Yokasta and Kasa Healing on Instagram or Linktree where you can book a session or learn about workshops and other self-care resources Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green

Rachel and Kirsten talk with musical composer, NY Times best-selling author, and mental chiropractor, Daniel Maté. The conversation spans diverse topics including the power of aligning with your intention, the pros and the cons of psychedelics for psychological use, and loving everything you do as an expression of your purpose. Daniel speaks about the importance of who we become in the face of catastrophe, how we create and reflect our inner life (including our wounds) within our relationships, and the gifts and challenges of working and writing books (The Myth of Normal, Hello Again) with his renowned psychologist father Dr. Gabor Maté. They also share a surprising conversation about the ethics and culture around sex work. Check out Daniel's Instagram, Mental Chiropractic, Let's Get Lyrical Podcast, Musical Compositions, The Myth of Normal and Hello Again Follow The Boss Bitch Show on Instagram, TikTok. Attend the live show. Boss Bitch merch. Follow Rachel Green on Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube or her Website Follow Kirsten O'Brien on Instagram, TikTok or her Website Produced by Rachel Green & Kirsten O'Brien Original jingle music by Justin Henry & Rachel Green