Taking On Your Twenties

In this episode Carla discusses what attachment theory is, what the different attachment styles are, and how these attachment styles effect our adult relationships. Do you ever wonder why certain relationships continue to fail? Or why you get stuck in the same toxic cycles? Understanding your attachment style can help you to reflect on the type of love you seek out and which type you attract. Knowing this and being aware can allow you to see what you want to work on within yourself in future relationships. It can help to also communicate with your partner so they better understand why you may be a certain way with your partner. 

Following the episode on "Hookup Culture" Carla felt like it was only right to discuss her tips and tricks for sliding into the DM's. She takes a more lighthearted approach this episode and gives her advice on how to start talking to someone during our 20's. She addresses how your approach may be different depending on whether you're just looking for sex, or for something more. Regardless the tips have the same theme: confidence, finesse, and games are key for making sure it all goes in your favor. 

This week Carla discusses how "Hookup Culture" is toxic. She goes into the hypocrisy that is men being able to be with as many people as they want yet want to pass judgements on women who do the same. Men have expectations when it comes to the first "Netflix and Chill" vibe yet dont want women to have any expectations down the line if the time comes for a committment. Carla talks about her personal experiences within hookup culture and discusses the difficulties she has encountered. 

In this episode Carla goes into how things are not always as they seem. Those same people you are comparing yourself to financially may be frauds. People tend to show what they want to show off so those shoes may be Dior while their mattress is on the floor. PRIORITIES PEOPLE! She discusses how to get ahead with your finances from one ametaur to another. Carla touches on credit as well and how to build it starting with small steps.

This week Carla dives into why you cannot trust ANYONE. "Untrustworthy until proven trustworthy" is the motto as she dives into her experiences with how men have lied, cheated and deceived. In this episode she details her experience of being the side chick and getting cheated on. Carla reveals the signs that your man is cheating on you and divulges her tips and tricks to catch a cheater!