Strings and Locs

Solomon Buchi and Arike Adeola speaks about their journey of pregnancy, labour and childbirth as they welcomed their first child months ago. This episode highlights their experience and some helpful tips.

Pastor Nikki and Moyo joins me in this spontaneous episode to chat about their marital experiences as Black British Christian women. Enjoy!

Life after marriage can be different and a bit like a slowdown. After many months, we are back with this episode, talking about everything up until now — long-distance relationship to the wedding in Nigeria, to Adeola going back to England, to me applying for a spousal visa, to long-distance marriage, getting my visa approved and life in England. Please watch, like and subscribe.

A viral note Solomon Buchi shared publicly to his then fianceee, now wife, made the media go crazy. “You’re not the most beautiful woman neither are you the most intelligent woman…” After a few months of marriage, Solomon Buchi and Àríké Adeola, his wife, discuss about it, trying define realistic love and debunk the over-glamorization of commitment.

A casual conversation about the expectations of many women to have their bills covered in their relationship employment. Solomon Buchi and Àríké talks about this here. 

Solomon Buchi reflects on his journey till marriage, considering the consequences of his actions if he married at 25 when he was a fiery feminist. Adeola shared her thoughts on his journey and feminism.