3660: Tell People What You Want by J. Money of Budgets Are Sexy on Generosity and Collaboration

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3660: Author J. Money encourages readers to voice their desires clearly and unapologetically, showing how openness can attract support, opportunities, and positive outcomes. He shares personal stories demonstrating that simply asking or stating what you want often leads to surprising generosity and collaboration. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://budgetsaresexy.com/tell-people-what-you-want/ Quotes to ponder: “I’m here to remind you today that if you want something, tell people about it.” “The more people that know what you want, the more people can help you get it.” “You might not always get what you’re looking for, but you’ll 100% get nothing if you never ask.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3659: Zoe Kim examines why we sometimes feel stuck even when we know what we want, highlighting how overthinking and perfectionism keep us from moving forward. She shares how simple, small steps can help us overcome inertia and create lasting momentum toward a more intentional life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://nosidebar.com/stuck/ Quotes to ponder: "Feeling stuck isn’t a reflection of your abilities or worth; it’s a normal part of growth." "Overthinking and perfectionism often keep us frozen in place." "Taking small steps creates momentum, and momentum is what carries us forward." Episode references: Essentialism: https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382 The Slight Edge: https://www.amazon.com/Slight-Edge-Turning-Disciplines-Happiness/dp/1626340463 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3658: Allison Carmen explores how our thoughts shape our emotional world and offers practical ways to break free from patterns that cause unnecessary suffering. By shifting perspective and embracing uncertainty, she shows how we can regain power over our inner lives and cultivate greater peace and joy. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.allisoncarmen.com/can-we-choose-how-we-feel/ Quotes to ponder: “We can’t always choose what happens to us, but we can choose how we respond and how we feel about it.” “Often, we create more pain and suffering by how we think about a situation than the situation itself.” “When we let go of needing to control everything, we create space for peace, acceptance, and even joy.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3657: Small, consistent actions can transform daunting goals into achievable milestones. Kathy Robinson shares how steady daily effort and simple tracking methods helped her build strength and confidence over time, offering a practical blueprint for anyone ready to turn aspirations into lasting progress. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://athenawellness.com/blog/2022/1/1/small-steps-big-strides Quotes to ponder: "Small steps establish habits, give you confidence when you hit your micro-goals, and provide motivation for the enduring success." "Over time you’ll prove to yourself that small steps add up to big strides and long-term gains." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3656: Loneliness is rising to dangerous levels, yet Ryan Frederick highlights how thoughtful choices about where and how we live can help foster deep social connections and belonging. Drawing on insights from researchers like Dr. John Cacioppo and examples such as co-housing and walkable communities, Frederick explores practical ways to make the opposite of loneliness part of everyday life. Discover how simple kindness, intentional design, and community spirit can transform isolation into connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.here.life/blog/the-opposite-of-loneliness Quotes to ponder: "We don’t have a word for the opposite of loneliness, but if we did, I could say that’s what I want in life. What I’m grateful and thankful to have found at Yale, and what I’m scared of losing when we wake up tomorrow and leave this place." "It’s not quite love and it’s not quite community; it’s just this feeling that there are people, an abundance of people, who are in this together. Who are on your team." "Loneliness and weak social connections are associated with a reduction in lifespan similar to that caused by smoking 15 cigarettes a day and even greater than that associated with obesity." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3655: Marc Chernoff shares practical strategies to declutter your mind, reduce daily stress, and cultivate meaningful progress. By embracing small, intentional actions, you’ll learn how to simplify your routines, strengthen relationships, and focus on what truly matters for long-term happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: http://www.marcandangel.com/2016/04/06/7-little-ways-to-make-life-simpler/ Quotes to ponder: "Don’t settle for what’s available. Don’t accept an option simply because it’s the only option you’re being given." "Instead of dwelling on what you don’t want, consider what you do want, and then chart a course in that direction." "Saying no to unnecessary commitments gives you the time to say yes to the things that matter most." Episode references: Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less: https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown/dp/0804137382 The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3654: Leo Babauta explores the transformative power of truly listening with full presence and without the urge to interrupt or solve. By practicing this deep attention, you can foster stronger connections, reduce conflict, and cultivate inner calm. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://zenhabits.net/listen/ Quotes to ponder: "When we truly listen to someone, we are giving them a powerful gift." "We want to fix, solve, offer advice, share our own stories, or defend ourselves. But that’s not what’s needed." "Listening with full presence, without needing to do anything but be there, is transformative." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3653: As we navigate midlife, Kerry Ogden invites us to reflect on the transformative shift from external validation to inner truth. Through soulful insights and timeless wisdom, she highlights how releasing outdated roles and ego-driven ambitions opens the door to authenticity, deeper connection, and genuine freedom. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerryogden.com/2021/03/spirits-in-a-material-world/ Quotes to ponder: "If it’s something we can’t buy there must be another way." "The time has come to let go of who you think you’re supposed to be and embrace who you are." "If I had my life to live over again, I’d start barefoot early in the spring and stay that way late into the fall. And I would live each moment more." Episode references: The Gifts of Imperfection: https://www.amazon.com/Gifts-Imperfection-Let-Go-Supposed/dp/159285849X Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3652: Joshua Becker highlights how offering one sincere compliment in each conversation can profoundly uplift others, foster meaningful connections, and reshape the emotional environment around us. His simple challenge encourages mindfulness, empathy, and intentional kindness, all while helping us shift focus from ourselves to the people we engage with. Discover how this small, consistent act can spark a ripple effect of positivity in your daily life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/good-word/ Quotes to ponder: "Include one compliment in every conversation. It’s that simple. And it’s that difficult." "Our words are important. They have the potential to carry life within them." "When we share happiness, we receive it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3651: Kerri Richardson invites us to reflect on how clutter and excess can act as shields from vulnerability, and how letting go, even temporarily, can help uncover our true values and emotional blocks. This thought-provoking exploration challenges us to reassess priorities and discover the power hidden in simplicity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/stripped/ Quotes to ponder: "I have no choice but to feel all the emotions I usually distract myself from." "The clutter is actually your resistance, not the emotions." "When you clear out that which no longer serves you, you open yourself to powerful insight while making space to welcome in that which you desire." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices