Silence is the lethal injection in any relationship. It's more invective and hurtful than a barrage of expletives and a slamming door. In silence, you deny your partner the surety of knowing where you stand and giving them the option to do something about it. I've written a short fictional story called "Answer Me You Son Of A Bitch," that chronicles the agony of a married woman who is ghosted by her married lover for months and months, until one day fate brings a chance for her to win him back. At the start of the episode I narrate "Answer Me You Son Of A Bitch", then follow it up with a roundtable discussion with my guests and friends David, Samantha and John, who react to the story and share their own thoughts on infidelity.
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Stuck Overseas With My Cheating Ex Husband + I Can’t Go Home
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38:52You meet the man of your dreams and you fall madly in love. He’s from another country, and his homeland is far from yours. One day he gets his dream job abroad and you agree to follow him to a foreign country, then back to his homeland to start a family. Years later the relationship starts to fall apart and he winds up having an affair. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Susan. When Susan decides she wants to leave her cheating husband, she soon finds out that the worst part about following him wasn’t leaving her homeland, her parents or giving up her own career, but something far, far worse than she ever could have imagined. Joining Susan and me is Beth Miller, owner of Soulify Wellness. Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, Lee and many women explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. Find Beth at: www.freemarriageguide.com/ www.instagram.com/soulifywellness/ www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ www.soulifywellness.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/infidelityaffairsupportforwomen Share your own story at Jillianhamilton.online. Follow, subscribe and share @cheatingwhenlovelies
How My Lover’s Wife Became My Ally
1:00:01The man you’ve fallen in love with is another woman’s husband. As much as you try to resist the lure of his flirtation, eventually you succumb to his charm and start an affair. Your relationship with this married man feels deeply emotional, sexy and passionate. But when his wife finds out about you, the affair turns into a tumultuous saga involving you, your affair partner, his wife, his children, and your family. This is what happened to my guest whom we’ll call Nicole. The affair starts to spiral out of control and you’re going down with it. Then one day you and your affair partner’s wife uncover a painful truth that bonds you as confidantes and allies. As a wife, could you ever befriend your husband’s lover?
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Do Men Cheat On Women They Love?
23:53I discovered this week’s guest, best selling international author Christopher K. Lopez on Medium, where he publishes his top-rated articles about relationships. According to Christopher, what does love have to do with cheating?He says successful men like him can have women as either the main event, options, or back ups. But he also says that there is a way for women to earn what he calls the privilege of exclusivity. Join Christopher and me as we explore the question, “Do Men Cheat On Women They Love? @cheatingwhenlovelies www.Christopherklopez.com/book www. Christopherklopez.com @i_made_it_then_i_didnt
I Thought It Was Just One Affair, Then I Uncovered The Horrible Truth
28.08.2023Your husband has an affair which leads you to ask for a divorce. But it’s what you discover after you file for divorce that shocks you and has you facing a moral dilemma. Your husband’s been unfaithful and now you’re divorcing him, so what’s the use in trying to learn even more about his philandering ways - why torture yourself? My guest whom we’ll call Gail uncovered disturbing facts about her husband after his affair destroyed their marriage. Now Gail is facing a dilemma: should she warn her husband’s new girlfriend about his abusive and toxic behavior? Once you file for divorce are the effects of infidelity really over?Answer this episode’s listener question on IG @cheatingwhenlovelies. Find relationship coach and Owner of Soulify Wellness Beth Miller at: http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ http://www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiHRjsv0neY3wWVlHLlMJJw Find me @CheatingWhenLoveLies and JillianHamilton.online
Gaslighted By My Boyfriend For 9 Years
21.08.2023As we wrap up vacation we bring you another favorite episode from the past. Look forward to new episodes coming soon. Gaslighting is a term we often hear, but would you know when and if it was happening to you? ??For those who don't know what gaslighting is, it's when someone tries to convince you that something they said or did never occurred. The gaslighter denies the reality of what you know happened, then makes you question yourself and what you know to be true.?? My guest today whom we'll call Wende (that's not her real name) was gaslighted throughout her nine year relationship, so she never really knew for sure if her partner cheated on her. I have my own point of view as to whether or not Wende's partner cheated, but I'll let you listen and decide what you think was really going on behind all that gaslighting.?? It will amaze you to learn what Wende's job is. It reminded me that love can sometimes obscure the most obvious of truths.
Once Porn Was The Only Culprit, Now A New Fantasy Reeks Havoc On Relationships
14.08.2023We are still on vacation so please enjoy one of our favorite past episodes. On this episode we talk about fantasy: erotic fantasy worlds that men create in their minds inspired by scrolling social media. It's not about an addiction to porn, it's something else. A whole new world of fantasy that many men are addicted to despite the disastrous impact it has on marriages and partnerships. In my conversation with leading psychologist Dr. Jennifer Guttman we explore a whole new genre of cheating, that prior to social media, just did not exist.
Cradle Robber? Mature Married Woman’s Affair With A Young Married Stud
7.08.2023We are on vacation this week, so we are revisiting one of my favorite episodes from last summer. A mature married man who's been with his wife for 20 odd years decides to go off and have an affair with a hot young 20 or 30- year-old. Nothing newsworthy there. In fact, some more cynical types might say it's commonplace. But what about a mature married woman in her 40s or 50s having an affair with a married 20 or 30 something? It feels like she'd be tarred and feathered on Twitter. There's a double standard for women. On this episode we're going to talk to a mature married woman (we'll call Lisa) about her torrid affair with her married, much younger, hottie neighbor. Was it all she expected it to be? Lisa is not her real name is and her voice has been altered.
Surviving Abuse From A Cheating Narcissist Husband
31.07.2023Emotional abuse comes in many forms: withholding affection, withholding sex, withholding money, and the particularly torturous one – gaslighting. That’s when your partner tries to convince you that what you’re feeling, thinking and seeing, and that you know to be true, well isn’t. You’re told you’re too sensitive and all your suspicions are just a figment of your imagination. With no money, no family and no support, my guest survived this and more emotional abuse. Margot is so confident in what she’s accomplished that she’s asked me not to disguise her voice or change her name. This is one badass woman.
When Your Husband’s Affair Partner Is Obsessed With You
43:41What if your husband’s affair partner is not only obsessed with your husband, but she’s also obsessed with you! She does everything in her power to lure your husband — like “mini dates,” disguised as dog walks, calls and incessant texts. But she also wants to know you so badly, she infiltrates your home and your online world to get as close to you as she possibly can. It’s intrusive. It’s bizarre. It’s creepy. And it all happened to my guest whom we’ll call Lee. Joining Lee and me is Beth Miller, owner of Soulify Wellness. Beth’s 12 week program teaches women how to transform themselves in order to transform their lives and relationships. Using Beth’s Soulify Wellness method, Lee and many women explore memories and unprocessed emotions which are often the real reasons for the unhealthy patterns and communication issues in a marriage or partnership. Find Beth at: www.freemarriageguide.com/ www.instagram.com/soulifywellness/ www.facebook.com/soulifywellness/ www.soulifywellness.com https://www.facebook.com/groups/infidelityaffairsupportforwomen
After 100s of Interviews, My Own Thoughts On Infidelity
26:49What have I learned about infidelity in since starting Cheating: When Love Lies? I get asked this question a lot, and recently listeners have written in to ask my own views on infidelity. What do I consider cheating? Who cheats more men or women? Should everyone get a hall pass? These and so many other questions. So on this episode, I’ve asked my friend, actor and podcast host Brendan Fitzgibbons to interview me. Brendan is the host of the podcasts Spiritual Assholes and Hammered Heroes. Brendan is hilarious and quick witted —the perfect person to have an informative but lively conversation about my experience on Cheating: When Love Lies. Brendan made it so great to be a guest on my own podcast. Check it out!