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Join Over 8000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3T8Y9YvDespite having social anxiety growing up, Tom Hardy has transformed himself into someone that oozes confidence and is incredibly popular.Tom’s charisma is unusual because he doesn’t follow the normal advice you might see on something like a body language list. He’ll often slouch or fidget in conversation, doing things you’re quote unquote not supposed to do.But Tom has a few core mindsets you can steal that will instantly make you more confident in almost any social situation. These mindsets allow him to project a confident “I don’t give a f**k” attitude that draws people to him.⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:50 - #1: Be willing to polarize1:35 - #2: Allow yourself to have authentic reactions3:45 - #3: Stop trying to look flawless5:23 - The shadow rule6:47 - #4: Prioritize your own comfort8:38 - Are your fears holding you back?10:49 - Links & more videos-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHardy #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff:Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we're going to look at one of my favorite "charisma icons", Russell Brand. He's one of the sharpest people when it comes to speaking off the cuff. Which is why in this video we'll be looking at Russell Brand's most savage moments, and see what we can learn from them :-) Russell Brand on MSNBC video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9Na6CmJwn4Russell Brand VS Donald Trump word choice video:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EgTlQgabv2o⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - Clip #11:09 - Clip #22:02 - Clip #32:29 - Clip #43:16 - Clip #54:28 - Clip #64:42 - Clip #75:49 - Clip #86:23 - Clip #97:35 - Clip #108:00 - Clip #11 --------------------------------------------------------------------------------#RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 14,000 Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3UCIrpgSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeThere is a way of gaining respect and power that is not about projecting strength, but the truth of who you ARE So in this video we’ll be using Viserys Targaryen's dinner speech to show how you can influence effortlessly and command respect you for who you truly are. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:28 - Force1:00 - Manipulation3:44 - True power4:35 - #1: Share the complexity of your emotional truth5:04 - #2: Own clearly when you're asking someone else to behave in a way that makes you feel better6:06 - #3: Power is most effective when it's consistent6:51 - #4: Don't pretend your demands are requests7:34 - How to stop confusing demands and requests10:41 - How to build social power quickly-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #HouseOfTheDragon #DaemonTargaryen #ViserysTargaryen--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Join Over 9000+ Members At Charisma University:https://bit.ly/3w2U7sqSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeSome people can say just about anything, tell jokes huge that should be terrible and still make an audience roar with laughter. That was Norm MacDonald and its why in this video we’ll be breaking him down to cover how you can make people obsessed with you by telling bad jokes that still manage to kill. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:00 - Intro0:27 - #1: Smile while you're joking1:09 - #2: Explain your jokes2:31 - #3: The dead bait method4:09 - #4: Make it obvious you're lying6:10 - #5: The long, meandering prank joke7:36 - The Meta Method-------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #NormMacDonald #CharismaOnCommand--------------------------------------------------------------------------------Connect with us further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Facts Beat Feelings - The Trump PredictionDiscover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2BOeluPSo in the in February 2016, 9 months before the election I started making videos about Donald Trumps impressive powers of persuasion and in May, I made this videohttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LibRNYJmZ-IThe video talks about the specific things I saw and I recommend watching all of those, I’ll link to them for the specific things I wound up seeing, but I want to talk about the higher level thinking which led me there. And it’s one of the lessons that I got in 2016.Facts Come Before Beliefs Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Went back to Wharton Business School to talk with some MBAs about entrepreneurship. It's a bit long so feel free to skip around or watch on 1.5x ;-)Link mentioned: http://bit.ly/COC-FirstImpressionYTDIf just one person escapes investment banking because of this I will be proud! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Thank you to our sponsor Audible! Get a free audio book download with a free 30 day trial by signing up at http://www.audible.com/charisma or texting "charisma" to 500-500.Watch the playlist with every video I mentioned: http://bit.ly/2Ee7RSGWe show you all the six types of charisma in MCU that seems so irresistible to women. One of the most common misconceptions of charisma is that one size must fit all. The truth is that while there are some high level tips that everyone should follow, there are lots of different styles that you can adopt for success in charisma and in dating. So in honor of the release of Avengers Infinity War, we are going to look at six types of charismatic leading men and the pros and cons of each style then you can decide which style suits your personality best. A few caveats before we begin. One, yes, all of these guys are extremely handsome actors and absolutely, women will be drawn to them because of their looks. Still, there is value to be had for the rest of us in analyzing their personalities because they really are some of the most charismatic people I've seen. Second, I am NOT saying that each actor is always the type shown in this video. It's more about the habits that I've frequently seen in their interviews; and three, these aren't the only types of attractive behavior. There's others but I couldn't find MCU actors that represented them well so we might get to them in other videos00:58 Robert Downey Jr being The Cool Guy02:30 Chris Evans being The Giver04:02 Chris Pratt being The Goofball06:43 Sebastian Stan being The Suave09:04 Anthony Mackie being The Attention Grabber11:07 Tom Holland being The StorytellerConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommandOr if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertInstagram: @IamBenAltman Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this video, I open up about the difficult decision to leave Charisma on Command, the falling out with my co-founder, and the personal struggles that led to this moment.I'm also excited to share what’s next and to continue creating content that inspires and empowers.0:00 - Intro0:20 - The short version of the story0:43 - The long version of the story 4:58 - What's next9:02 - A big thank youSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandInstagram: @CharismaOnCommand Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Liars, Thieves, & H3H3Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2nJkIqHEthan and Hila from h3h3 are basically the Southpark of YouTube. They parody the most outrageous things going on in the community, and despite the fact that they are primarily a comedy channel, they often manage to make a point about the way we ought to behave. In this video we’re going to look at what has made h3h3 so popular. We’ll focus on Ethan in particular because he is on camera far more than Hila.0:27 h3h3 often gets their point across using parody3:54 h3h3 stands up for people like when Ethan & Hila was sued5:38 h3h3 holds on to their principles even if there's lawsuit involved8:09 h3h3 tells the truth and practices free speech Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: https://www.periscope.tv/charismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’ve been thinking a lot about the bad decisions I see people make, and even the bad decisions that I have made and I see a common pattern. First you have someone who is relatively uncertain, in a transition period of their life, and then they take the wrong advice.In this video, I want to clarify how to spot bad advice so that you don't wind up trudging down the wrong path for months or years. Here's what I've learned1. Only take advice from people who have the kind of life you desire - you'll know because of what they've achieved, what the people who have followed their advice have achieved and what testing their recommendations proves.2. When you have aspirations that no one around you has lived up to, you need to find a digital mentor. Get online, read a book, just find the person who has done it and study their path.3. Develop a circle of friends who are supportive of your happiness, even if that means change. Cut the ones that only want you in status quo4. Pick teachers that have strong morals. You can't learn a skill set without also picking up a life philosophy, so be careful who you let inHope that helps you filter out the bad advice and move closer towards the kind of life you dream of :-)Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandPeriscope: @CharismaonOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + me playing music):Instagram: @CharlieHoupertPeriscope: @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices