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What if the most powerful thing you could do for your manifestations… is stop wanting them? In this episode, I'm sharing the gift I'm giving myself this December: presence. After realizing there was nothing I wanted to buy, chase, or add, I landed in a deeper truth—this is the state where manifestation actually happens. Presence isn't passive. It's not giving up. It's the embodied knowing that nothing is missing. In today's episode, we explore how being fully present shifts your nervous system, helps you hold what you manifest (love, money, success), and aligns you with what Neville Goddard called the Sabbath—the state of inner stillness where desires no longer feel active because they're already done. This is an invitation to soften, integrate, and become the woman who can receive and keep everything she calls in. 💫 In This Episode, You'll Learn: Why wanting creates resistance—and presence creates magnetism How presence signals safety to your nervous system The reason many women manifest things they can't hold What Neville Goddard meant by living in the Sabbath How December is the perfect month for integration and embodiment A gentle 21-day presence practice you can begin today Morning, midday, and evening rituals to anchor into the present moment How to stop chasing manifestations and let them arrive naturally 👑 Invitation: Manifestation Queen Academy If you're ready to stop manifesting things you can't hold—and instead become the woman who feels safe receiving love, money, ease, and success—this is the work we're doing inside Manifestation Queen Academy. This month, we're practicing embodiment, nervous system safety, and living in the Sabbath so you can close the year integrated, grounded, and deeply aligned. ✨ Join us and step into the woman who has it all. 👉 Join Manifestation Queen Academy here ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Receive my FREE weekly personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare   

If you loved last week's episode on detaching from your thoughts, you're going to melt into this one. Today, we're going deeper — into the body, the nervous system, and the science behind why manifestation only works when your body and mind are in full alignment. Inside this episode, I'm sharing the 8 daily rituals I've been using to move out of survival mode and back into my feminine power — especially during the overstimulating holiday season. We're talking about presence, softening, Pinterest visioning, havening, classical music frequency, and how to activate your prefrontal cortex (your manifestation center) by calming the amygdala (your fear center). This is the episode that will help you stop manifesting from stress… and start manifesting from safety, embodiment, and magnetism. ✨ In this episode, you'll learn: Why your nervous system is your true manifestation portal The science behind manifestation: amygdala vs. prefrontal cortex How calming the amygdala increases clarity, intuition, and receiving Why your manifestations can't land if your body is in survival mode Feminine embodiment rituals that regulate your nervous system How to step into the identity of the operant power How Pinterest vision boards help you FEEL your future — not just think it How to create safety, softness, and presence in chaotic seasons ✨ Mentioned in this episode: 📝 Full Nervous System Glow-Up Blog Post: All the home tools, wellness items, and high-support products I use daily → 💗 Manifestation Queen Academy: A full month of embodiment + nervous system rewiring Includes: 60-minute prefrontal cortex rewiring training Feminine receiving practices Nervous system rituals Identity-level manifestation work Join here →  CLICK HERE to download my FREE Manifestation Mindset Makeover guide  

Welcome to Manifestation Monday! In today's powerful episode, Ashlina breaks down one of the most important mindset shifts every woman must understand if she wants to manifest with ease: ✨ Your mind will always create problems — but you don't have to believe them. Inside, you'll learn: The science behind why your brain is wired to search for danger, fix problems, and overthink Why overthinking slows manifestation and keeps you stuck in survival mode How to step into the observer mind and detach from spiraling thoughts The exact step-by-step method to calm your mind, regulate your nervous system, and shift into ease How this applies to business (especially Pinterest growth), relationships, and healing Why consistency, softness, and grounded feminine presence change EVERYTHING This episode is for you if: You feel stuck in your head You overanalyze every sign You constantly worry about outcomes You're building a business and want long-term growth You want to understand manifestation on a deeper, more scientific and spiritual level ✨ BOOK A COACHING SESSION WITH ASHLINA Get personalized support to clear your blocks, rewire your mindset, and shift your identity into your highest self. ✨ JOIN MANIFESTATION QUEEN ACADEMY Your full feminine reinvention, self-concept upgrade, and manifestation identity makeover. ✨ ENROLL IN PINTEREST WEALTH ACADEMY If you want consistent traffic, freedom, and income through long-term compounding growth online. If this episode inspired you, share it on Instagram and tag @ashlinakaposta — I love seeing you transform.

In this empowering episode, I'm sharing the real reasons I decided to step away from Instagram and put all of my creative energy into Pinterest — and how that single decision completely transformed my business. If you've been feeling overwhelmed by the constant pressure to "show up" on social media — the algorithm anxiety, the comparison trap, the burnout of trying to stay visible — this conversation will feel like a breath of fresh air. Pinterest became my calm, consistent, wealth-building platform. It's where my content keeps growing even while I rest, where I can create from flow, and where my audience finds me with ease. I'll walk you through the 10 powerful reasons I made the switch — from evergreen visibility to feminine marketing energy — and how you can start building your own wealth ecosystem with Pinterest too.   🧭 Mentioned in This Episode 📘 Read the blog post: How I Got to 10+ Million Monthly Views on Pinterest 🎓 Join the Pinterest Wealth Academy Apply for 1:1 Mindset & Energy Coaching with Ashlina →  Connect on Instagram → @ashlinakaposta

Are you suddenly waking up at 3 A.M.? Crying for no reason? Losing friends or watching things in your life start to fall apart? It might not be chaos — it might be your quantum leap in motion. 💫 In this episode, Ashlina dives deep into the energetic and emotional signs that your manifestation is closer than ever — even when everything around you feels unstable. She breaks down the five most unusual indicators that you've already quantum-leaped into your next level, including: 💫 Why you can't sleep and what your 3 A.M. wake-ups are trying to tell you 💫 The spiritual meaning behind friendship breakdowns during transformation 💫 Why sudden emotional outbursts and crying spells mean you're releasing your old identity 💫 The reason everything in your home (or job or routine) starts breaking down at once — "the quantum crumbling" 💫 How to stay grounded in the in-between phase when nothing feels familiar anymore Ashlina also shares personal stories from her own recent quantum leap, what helped her move through the "crumbling" season, and how she learned to see chaos as confirmation that she was expanding into her next-level reality. 🌸 Mentioned in This Episode: Manifestation Queen Academy — Your sanctuary for mastering the art of alignment, reprogramming your self-concept, and navigating the energetic shifts of your quantum leap. Join the Academy to receive tools, coaching, and rituals that help you embody your next-level self with ease. Apply for 1:1 Mindset & Energy Coaching with Ashlina →  Connect on Instagram → @ashlinakaposta

You can sleep 8 hours and still wake up exhausted. Why? Because rest isn't just physical — it's emotional, mental, social, spiritual, creative, and sensory too. In this powerful episode, Ashlina unpacks the seven types of rest every woman needs to feel grounded, radiant, and fully alive again. You'll learn how to identify your unique "rest deficit," release guilt around slowing down, and rebuild your energy in a way that supports your feminine flow and ambition. If you've been feeling overextended, uninspired, or emotionally tired — this is your reminder that rest isn't weakness. It's how you rise. 🪞 In This Episode You'll Learn: The 7 types of rest every woman needs (and how to know which one you're missing) The difference between sleep and true restoration Why burnout keeps you in survival mode — and how rest heals it Feminine mindset shifts for resting without guilt Simple rituals to restore energy, creativity, and emotional balance 🕯️ Mentions & Resources: Join the Manifestation Queen membership Read the blog post here Apply for 1:1 Mindset & Energy Coaching with Ashlina →  Connect on Instagram → @ashlinakaposta

In this episode of The Feminine & Ambitious Podcast, I'm diving into the real-life changes I made once I started studying neuroscience and understanding how our brains truly work. When you learn the science behind habits, thoughts, emotions, and energy — you can't unsee it. I'll walk you through 8 powerful things I stopped doing (and what I started doing instead) that have completely changed how I think, how I manifest, and how I create results in my life. This episode is for every ambitious woman ready to upgrade her mindset, release self-sabotaging patterns, and finally feel in control of her inner world. You'll learn about: ✨ Why overthinking and rumination are keeping your brain in survival mode ✨ The neuroscience behind why "positive thinking" alone doesn't rewire the mind ✨ What I stopped doing that instantly improved my focus, mood, and manifestation results ✨ How to train your brain to feel safe, worthy, and abundant again ✨ The feminine way to work with your brain, not against it 💫 Ready to go deeper into this work? – Book a 1:1 Coaching Session with me → – Join Manifestation Queen Academy for monthly mindset rewiring and manifestation rituals → 

Perimenopause 101 — What's Really Happening in Your 40s and How to Prepare In this episode of Feminine & Ambitious, I'm breaking down exactly what perimenopause is, the science of what's happening inside your body and mind, and the lifestyle shifts that can help you feel vibrant again. If you've been feeling tired, stressed, or unlike yourself, this conversation will give you clarity, relief, and tools to navigate this next chapter flawlessly. ✨ In this episode, you'll learn: What perimenopause actually is and when it begins The science behind hormonal changes (progesterone, estrogen, cortisol) and their impact on mood, sleep, and anxiety My personal story of discovering perimenopause and how hormone therapy helped The connection between perimenopause and stress, fear-based thoughts, and overwhelm 14 practical, science-backed tips to support your body — from protein and strength training to supplements, hydration, and nervous system care Why perimenopause is not the end of your vitality, but the beginning of a new season

As women, we set the tone of our homes. Our moods, our rhythms, our presence — they ripple through the atmosphere and shape how everyone feels inside those walls. In today's episode of Feminine and Ambitious, I'm sharing how to step into your role as the Hearth Keeper this fall and why your energy is the pulse of your space. I'll also be walking you through 15 inspiring tips straight from Martha Stewart's book that I'm using to create a full fall reset in my own home. From decluttering and seasonal rituals to cozy touches that instantly shift the vibe, these ideas are simple, soulful, and completely doable. Inside this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why clutter is always a reflection of your mind — and the science that proves it. ✨ How shame and overwhelm keep women stuck in messy cycles (and how to break free). ✨ Practical feminine leadership rituals to ground your energy and set the atmosphere at home. ✨ My favorite Martha-inspired fall refresh rituals that bring warmth, order, and joy into daily life. So grab your cup of tea, light a fall candle, and join me for this cozy episode. You'll walk away inspired to declutter, refresh, and step into your role as the radiant center of your home this season. 🔗 Mentioned in this episode: Book a High Vibe Home Mentorship Session with me  Take my High Vibe Home workshop  Martha Stewart's book 

Are you living too much in your masculine—or leaning too heavy in your feminine? In this episode, I share a personal story (yes, it starts with Kris Jenner's advice about keeping a clean car!) and how it woke me up to the importance of balancing my masculine and feminine energy. When these two energies are out of alignment, midlife becomes a recipe for burnout—whether in relationships, friendships, motherhood, or your own body. But when you bring them into harmony, you unlock clarity, radiance, and peace of mind. Inside this episode you'll learn: ✨ What masculine and feminine energy really are (and why they matter in midlife) ✨ How imbalance shows up in your body, relationships, and spirit ✨ My personal reset routine (starting with my car!) that sparked a domino effect of energy balance ✨ Practical tips to soften your feminine and strengthen your masculine—without burning out If you've been craving balance, this episode will give you the inspiration and steps to reclaim your energy and thrive. 💌 Mentioned in this episode: Get access to High Vibe Home - my personal Feng Shui workshop READ THE BLOG POST HERE 💫 Join the Manifestation Queen Academy If you want to go beyond listening and actually live this transformation alongside other powerful women, Manifestation Queen Academy is your home. We're a sisterhood where glow-ups become reality. 👉 Join here ⭐️Soul Aligned Success : 21 days to end the struggle with self-sabotage 💰 Soul Aligned Wealth : 21 days to heal your relationship with money  ***WELCOME TO MY WORLD*** 💌  Receive my FREE weekly personal development love letters  💻 Read my blog: ashlinakaposta.com 📖 Check out my my collection of e-books 🎥 Watch my videos on YouTube 👋 Connect with me on Instagram @ashlinakaposta 👉 Shop my favorites in books, spirituality & skincare