teachable tuesday // Rebuilding the Ruins

In the spiritual life, following Jesus often means walking the narrow way. It's the path of humility, surrender, and obedience. In this conversation, Jenna and Beth reflect on what it means to lay down our lives with Christ, not only in big moments, but in the small, daily “deaths” that shape our hearts to become more like Him.They talk about how God lovingly reveals our weaknesses, not to shame us, but to invite us into deeper transformation. When we begin to see our sins, limitations, and struggles more clearly, it can actually be a sign that the Lord is working in our hearts.Jenna and Beth also reflect on the beauty of obedience: how choosing God’s will over our own can feel costly, but ultimately leads to freedom, healing, and new life. Jesus shows us that the path to resurrection always passes through surrender.If you’ve ever struggled with vanity, pride, weakness, forgiveness, or the call to surrender more deeply to God, this conversation is for you. The Lord meets us exactly where we are and gently leads us forward on the path that leads to life. ✨

Are you wondering, “How do I become Catholic?” You’re not alone and you’re in the right place! In this episode of Catholicism for Catholics, Alison Oertle walks through the beautiful invitation of the Catholic Church and explains the Order of Christian Initiation of Adults (OCIA), the process through which adults are welcomed into the fullness of the faith.Becoming Catholic isn’t just about joining a church, it’s saying yes to a lifelong relationship with the God of the universe. Through baptism, confirmation, and Eucharist, we receive His grace, live in communion with the Church, and grow closer to Jesus every day.Alison compares the OCIA process to a love story with God, starting with inquiry (getting to know Him), moving through the catechumenate (falling in love and learning about the faith), and preparing for initiation at the sacraments. Whether you’re a new Christian or already walking with Him, OCIA is a chance to encounter Jesus and experience His love in a profound way. 💜“The future depends on love.” What you fall in love with shapes your life. Let this invitation into the Church transform your heart, your daily life, and your understanding of God’s grace.If you’re ready to explore the Catholic faith, consider contacting a local parish to attend an inquiry session, the first step in your journey with Jesus and His Church. ⛪️Head over to our YouTube channel to watch our Catholicism for Catholics series.

Jesus says something striking in the Gospel of John: “I am the way, the truth, and the life.” 🙏🏽But what does that actually mean for the way we live?In this conversation, Jenna and Beth reflect on the invitation to follow Jesus on the narrow way, a path that isn’t always easy, but leads to the fullness of life we’re truly made for. They talk about what it looks like to choose belief, to walk in truth, and to trust that Jesus Himself is the path forward.They also dive into:🌿 Why who you surround yourself with shapes your faith🌿 How God’s mercy is louder than our mess🌿 What it means to choose belief even when faith feels hard🌿 Why honesty and consistency are the only things we can control in prayer🌿 And the freeing realization that God might care about your dreams more than you doWhether you’re thriving in prayer or just trying to show up, this conversation is a reminder that Jesus is the way and walking with Him leads to real life.

What does it actually mean to live an abundant life? 🌿In this episode, Jenna and Beth are talking about the kind of life Jesus promises, not one of control, comfort, or perfectly executed plans, but one marked by trust, surrender, and deep awareness of God at work in the ordinary.They explore what it looks like to move from thinking we depend on God…to actually living with radical dependence. To loosen our grip on timelines, expectations, and the illusion of control, and instead become open, expectant, and ready for the ways He is moving.Because sometimes what feels like a detour is actually His plan.If you’ve ever felt discouraged by how things should have gone, or struggled to trust God’s timing, this conversation is for you. There is more happening than we can see and He is closer than we think. 💜Come be reminded:– You don’t have to be in control– Your timeline isn’t the measure of God’s faithfulness– The abundant life is found in relationship, not perfectionLet’s learn to live with a little more ✨alacrity✨, a cheerful readiness for whatever God is doing next.

Join Jenna and Beth as they dive into the beautiful rhythm of following Jesus in everyday life. From moments of personal conversion to learning how our lives can witness to others, this conversation explores how intimacy with the Lord transforms not just us, but the people around us.They reflect on the ways God invites us into deeper relationship, whether through prayer, obedience, or simply giving Him our whole hearts. They also reflect on how that connection shapes our ability to share His love with the world. Along the way, they touch on discernment, spiritual growth, and the joy of letting the Good Shepherd guide us.✨ If you’ve ever wondered how your personal faith can impact others, this discussion is for you.Topics Covered:- How we individually relate to Jesus- Living a life of virtue in modern times- Conversion as a pathway to witness- Hearing the voice of the Good Shepherd vs. the enemy- Spiritual intimacy and relational discipleship- Practical insights for following Jesus in daily life💌 Join us LIVE every Tuesday at 1pm ET and deepen your walk with Christ.

This week on the podcast, Jenna + Beth are talking about what it really means to guard your heart and why staying connected to Jesus changes everything.Inspired by Week 2 of our Lent devotional Who Do You Say That I Am? by Debbie Herbeck, we dive into Jesus’ words in Gospel of John 10: “I am the gate… I am the Good Shepherd.”If He’s the gate… what are we letting through?From honest conversation about social media and “brain rot,” to the vulnerability of childhood exposure to pornography, to the quiet ways we feel helpless in a chaotic world, this episode is a raw and hope-filled look at:- Playing “fast and loose” with our souls when we scroll- Why we don’t have the grace to carry burdens God never asked us to hold- The lie that more information = more control- Closing the doors to sin and reopening the windows to light- Becoming holy so our prayers become powerful and effective (James 5:16)If you’ve felt overwhelmed, distracted, helpless, or spiritually exposed, this conversation is an invitation to come back to the Gate. To let Jesus protect what enters your heart. To deny yourself, pick up your cross, and follow the One who already won the battle.✨ It’s not too dark.✨ It’s not too far gone.✨ It’s not too serious for Him.Let’s close some doors in Jesus’ name and walk into the light together. 💜Resources mentioned in this episode:Mary Fabyan Windeatt's books on the Saints: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Mary-Fabyan-Windeatt/author/B00IVUY8UY?ref=ap_rdr&shoppingPortalEnabled=true&ccs_id=4207d765-23e1-4d90-bcb7-91ce8b8b0f4bOur Blessed is She Lent devotional written by Debbie Herbeck: https://blessedisshe.net/collections/lentA whole website dedicated to the analogy of the horse and chariot: https://www.horseandchariot.com/intellect-will-passions

In this episode of Catholicism for Catholics, Alison Oertle unpacks the Mass, the Divine Liturgy.What is it? How does one participate fully? And why does it matter?With so many ways to pray and worship as Catholics (personal prayer, small groups, times of praise) the Church calls the liturgy the primary act of worship. It is more than attending; it is coming together as the Body of Christ, joining with the worldwide Church, and even the angels and saints in heaven, to praise and receive God.This episode explores:The meaning of the word liturgy (“the work of the people”)How to participate consciously, actively, and fullyThe Scripture, prayers, and sacraments that guide the MassHow the Eucharist connects participants to Christ’s sacrifice and nourishes daily lifeWays to enter into the heavenly reality that the Mass revealsThe Mass is not just a routine; it is a real encounter with Jesus, a chance to set aside distractions, receive His grace, and leave sent to live as His light in the world.✨ Subscribe to our YouTube channel and tap the bell to be notified for future episodes. Blessed is She is grateful to walk alongside women on this journey of faith.

In this episode, Jenna and Beth reflect on Lent as a pilgrimage, not a performance. Together they explore what it means to “settle in” with the Lord, to pray like you would meet a friend for coffee, and to allow God to love every part of your story...even the parts you’d rather throw away. From learning how to be still, to noticing tension in our bodies, to encountering the Father who comes to meet us in the mud, this conversation is an invitation to walk with Jesus right where you are. If you feel like you don’t know how to pray, if Lent feels confusing, or if you’re discovering that becoming who God made you to be is a lifelong journey, you’re in good company here. Wherever you are on the road, He is already with you.🕊️ Topics in this episode:• Lent as a pilgrimage of becoming• Why settling in is part of prayer• God’s gentleness with our humanity• The mercy that embraces our whole story• Learning to receive grace instead of performing🙏🏽 We’re praying for you this Lent.

In this conversation, Jenna and Beth share a simple, honest look at Lent, not as something to “get right,” but as a season to let Jesus meet us right where we are. They talk about the quiet privilege of knowing Him, why healing takes time, and how the Lord often invites us into small, gentle changes (like slowing down or learning to be still). If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by Lent, unsure what to give up, or like you’re carrying a lot into prayer… this conversation is for you.Together they reflect on:• why forgiveness and healing are both gifts we need• how self-denial actually leads to freedom and love• what it means to bring your whole, imperfect heart to Jesus• the question He asks each of us: “Who do you say that I am?”• how prayer can be less about doing and more about receivingFeaturing reflections inspired by Debbie Herbeck and her Lent devotional, and encouragement from the heart of the Blessed Is She community. Whether your Lent feels peaceful, messy, or somewhere in between, you’re welcome here. Come as you are. Jesus isn’t asking for perfection, just your presence.If you want to journey through Lent with us, learn more here: blessedisshe.net/lentYou’re not alone. 💛Grab your Blessed is She Lenten devotional.Join our Blessed is She Member Community.

Lent can so easily become about checking boxes… giving things up, adding things in, trying harder. But what if this year was less about routine and more about relationship?In this Weekly Visit, Jenna and Steph will reflect on how to keep Jesus at the center of our Lenten practices, so fasting, prayer, and sacrifice become pathways to intimacy rather than "spiritual busywork." We’ll explore simple ways to stay rooted in love, grace, and presence, especially when motivation fades or life feels full.Come be reminded that Lent isn’t about perfection - it’s about proximity to the heart of Christ.Reflection Questions:When I think about Lent, what tends to motivate me most: discipline, obligation, or desire for deeper relationship with Jesus?Where have my spiritual routines become automatic, and how might Jesus be inviting me to re-engage with love and intention?What is one simple way I can intentionally place Jesus at the center of my Lenten prayer or sacrifice this year?Join us live every Tuesdays at 1pm ET in the BIS Member Community!