S6E3: Behind the Scenes Confessions of an Overpreneur - How Hustle is Hiding Your Visibility

Feeling unseen? Stuck in hustle and struggle? Wondering why your business still feels harder than it should?This conversation isn’t about your polished “origin story.” It’s about the raw, soul-deep why that fuels everything you do — the reason you give a fuck, the reason clients feel you, and the reason your work matters.I share the moment my own why cracked wide open — from a childhood of hypervigilance, to a womb-healing session that rewove my DNA in golden threads, to finally seeing that my true work is helping people feel deeply, unapologetically seen.Inside you’ll hear:Why “origin stories” don’t cut it (and what lands instead)How childhood patterns sneak into your visibility + businessThe real reason clients choose YOU (spoiler: it’s not strategy)Why formulas + comparison keep you invisibleHow unleashing your unapologetic voice changes everything — your business, your relationships, your sense of selfThis one’s for the rebels who are done hiding and ready to be unstoppable.🦁 ROAR Live Invite If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR Live: Voice + Visibility Reclamation.Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks.📅 September 23–25 (replays included).🎟️ Grab your seat here: www.kyliepatchett.com/roar-liveBecause silence isn’t safety. It’s a cage. And the world needs your unapologetic ROAR. 🦁🔥 ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Ever felt like you’re hustling harder than anyone else, overdelivering for clients, undercharging, and still somehow invisible? Welcome to the world of the Overpreneur – my own Achilles heel when it comes to visibility. In this episode, I take you behind the scenes of how the Overpreneur fear frame runs the show: Why hustle and overwork are actually massive visibility blocks.How childhood conditioning and good girl proving keep us locked in duty + obligation.The cost of running a business in Overpreneur mode (health, family time, creativity, and cashflow).The moment I realised my first business model was built on burnout.The shift into the Pulsepreneur Freedom Frequency – working from desire, not duty, resting without guilt, and creating only what lights you up. If you’ve been telling yourself “this is just the way it has to be” while secretly drowning in overwork, this episode will hit home. And it’s also your invitation into a new way of doing business – one lit up by joy, play, and your unapologetic magnetism.If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR. Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks. 📅 September 23–25 (replays included). 🎟️ Grab your seat here: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/roar-live• Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/gspot• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/phoenix🛒 Explore the store: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

What’s the one comment that would crush you if it landed on your social post, ad, or stage talk? That thing you secretly fear someone will say about you? In this episode, Kylie pulls back the curtain on her own worst-case scenario – being called arrogant and harmful – and shares what happened when those exact words showed up in the middle of her ROAR Live launch. You’ll hear:Why your biggest fear is actually the clue to your deepest visibility blockThe difference between defensiveness, discernment, and integrity check-insHow childhood conditioning (good girl, don’t shine too bright, don’t upset anyone) still shapes your voice todayWhy entrepreneurship is the ultimate self-development crucible (and how to survive it)The choice between letting your scared inner good girl drive the bus vs. letting your wild, unapologetic woman lead If criticism has ever made you shrink, shut down, or want to burn your business to the ground — this episode is your reminder that those fears aren’t the truth of who you are.If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR. Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks. 📅 September 23–25 (replays included). 🎟️ Grab your seat here.• Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy collide.• Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here. 🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

✨ Go Deeper with Kylie:🔥 Claim your free seat at MAGNETIC: The Messaging Masterclass🔥 Or join ROAR: The Voice + Visibility Activation for Disruptors, Rebels + RevolutionariesWelcome back, rebels – it’s Season Six and we are turning the volume way up. After a seven-week sabbatical, I’m back with fresh fire, juicier stories, and a whole new lens on visibility and voice.In this kickoff episode, I spill:The truth about my “Overpreneur” Achilles heel (and why hustle addiction nearly broke me).How True Sidereal Human Design flipped my world from Generator to Manifestor – and why that matters for the way I run my business.The evolution of my Making Friends With Fear archetypes into the 9 Visibility Fear Frames – the blocks that keep disruptors and paradigm-shifters small, and how to alchemize them into freedom.Why “good girls do not lead revolutions”… and why unleashing your wild, unapologetic roar is the strategy your business has been waiting for.WHAT'S IN EPISODE 1:  Introduction to the new seasonReflections on taking a break, resting, and tuning into personal needs.Backstory on business, overworking, and the “overpr preneur” archetype.Deep dive into human design, differences between tropical and True Sidereal astrology.Insights from human design about energy centers and personal conditioning.Evolution of the “Making Friends with Fear” book, introduction of visibility block archetypes.How conditioning shapes visibility, voice, and business patterns.Rejecting one-size-fits-all marketing, embracing unique approaches.Layering ancient and modern systems for self-understanding.How to move from fear to freedom, using archetypes for growth.Details about the upcoming ROAR Live event and its purpose.👉 Wanna join ROAR Live (Sept 23–25, $33) and change the way you see your visibility forever? Comment 61 and I’ll send you the link straight to your DMs.🛒 Explore the store — packed with resources + programs to help you unleash your voice, visibility, storytelling, magnetism, Human Design power, and unapologetic truth… no matter how wild, witchy, or woo woo you are.🌟 Connect with me on socials:Instagram → @kyliepatchettstorytellingFacebook → @kyliepatchettonline ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this final solo episode of Season 5, I’m dropping into the sacred pause.⁣⁣We’re talking about:Leaning into the natural slow-down of Aussie autumnTaking a sabbatical from the podcast while I listen for what’s nextThe trap of performative consistency vs. choosing what actually feels goodThe end of an era - lessons and learnings from business down my way - the yawn wayLetting go of what’s ready to be composted in your businessRecommitting to what feels delicious, soul-led, and truly yoursThis is your permission slip to recalibrate, refine, and reclaim what business gets to look like for you.If this episode fired something up inside you, come join me for ROAR.Three days. $33. A firestarter for rebels, disruptors + paradigm shifters who are done with good-girl rules and ready to burn down their visibility blocks.📅 September 23–25 (replays included). 🎟️ Grab your seat hereBecause the world needs your unapologetic ROAR 🦁 ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Kate Hemingway is not your average acupuncturist. She’s an energetic catalyst for deep soul liberation. In this episode, we dive into the magic of the Ghost Points - 13 powerful acupressure portals originally used for "de-possession," now reclaimed as a pathway to remember who you truly are.We talk ritual, revolution, and the radical reclamation of your gifts. Kate shares her journey from Reiki and ayahuasca to guided energetic acupressure, how these mysterious points can clear layers of conditioning and awaken your divine gifts, and why your “tiny” vision might just be a portal to something world-changing.We get into:What the Ghost Points actually are (and why you probably haven’t heard of them)Why healing doesn’t have to be about “fixing” — but about rememberingThe wild transformations Kate’s clients experience (yes, penthouse upgrades included)How these ancient points help visionary women rise into their truth, visibility, and powerWhy magic, music, and ritual belong in your biz journeyKate also leads us through a guided journey using one of the Ghost Points (yep, you’ll wanna lie down for this one if you can, definitely not listening whilst trying to drive!).Connect with Kate: IG: @katehemingwayheal Website: www.katehemingwayheal.com ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Akary Busto is an Emotional Biohacker dedicated to helping individuals transform their trauma and reclaim their power through nervous system regulation techniques. Combining HeartMath practices, Human Design, and breathwork, she supports clients in moving from survival mode to thriving with vitality.Akary isn’t just here to regulate your nervous system - she’s here to help you reclaim your power, rewire your story, and return to your truest self. A self-described emotional biohacker, Akary blends Human Design, HeartMath, breathwork, and quantum wisdom to support women moving from survival mode into sovereignty.In this juicy, soul-stirring episode:Why trauma isn’t personal—and how to break generational patterns without shameHow nervous system regulation is the missing link in deep transformationThe truth about breathwork, addiction, and that “just keep swimming” energyQuantum Human Design vs Traditional HD—what it is, why it matters, and how it supports healingThe shift from “it stops with me” to “it STARTS with me” (get ready to feel that one land)This isn’t your average wellness chat. It’s deep, nuanced, heart-led—and packed with permission slips to stop striving and start feeling.Find Akary and the resources mentioned in this episode at https://uhkare.com/ and @uhkarebreathwork on Instagram ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

What happens when a self-confessed princess, fresh out the other side of cancer treatment, decides to walk 800km across Spain with a backpack, a pair of hiking boots, and no idea what’s ahead?Colleen Sims wasn’t exactly what you’d call “outdoorsy.” Afraid of dogs, cows, and basically anything remotely icky, she was the last person anyone expected to fall in love with long-distance walking. But one spontaneous trip to Spain, a beachside shell moment, and a full-body YES later… she did it anyway. And it changed everything.In this tender, hilarious, and deeply inspiring episode, we chat about:how surviving cancer rewired her priorities—and cracked her wide open to purposethe unexpected magic of the Camino de Santiago (and how it brought her back to her childhood self)why walking is one of the most profound therapies we already have access tothe rise of the “walking club revolution” and how her simple local meet-ups turned into global soul trekswhat it really means to live free—and why lipstick still makes the cut, even in a backpack life 💄Also mentioned:The Camino de SantiagoVia FrancigenaCheryl Strayed's WildWalking as soul medicineThis one’s for the dreamers, the seekers, the tired souls craving simplicity—and the ones secretly Googling “solo walking pilgrimage” on their lunch break.Connect with Colleen: Then We Walked ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

Ready to ditch the hustle and tap into something way more magical? This episode is a full-body permission slip to believe in miracles again. I’m joined by the deliciously intuitive Amanda H. Young – Miracle Instigator, soul guide, and catalyst for secretly magical humans who are DONE living small and ready to expand into infinite possibility. Think fast, deep, and embodied transformation – no fluff, no bypassing, just truth, clarity, and sovereignty.We dive into:Amanda’s journey from corporate long lunches to full-blown miracle midwifery (spoiler: the signs were there all along)the sneaky ways we block miracles (even when we say we want them)why trying to “keep the pace” is killing your magic – and what to do insteadwhat it really means to live in a field of miracles – and how Amanda’s expanding into an even deeper frequency in her work right nowIf your soul is craving more ease, more flow, more magic – this convo is especially for you!Find Amanda and her miracle vortex at www.amandahyoung.com ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

*Trigger Warning*: a heads-up that this episode includes a discussion about su*cide. We approach the topic with care and compassion, but please use your discernment and prioritise your wellbeing. Monica Climaco (she/they) is a queer, immigrant, neurodivergent somatic practitioner, coach, artist, and activist. Her purpose on earth is to enjoy life being as true to herself as possible, with the hopes that people feel they can be true to themselves as well. Weaving movement, writing, art-making, play, improv, and other creative modalities into her practice, she believes that radical embodied authenticity and aliveness are foundational for healing, transformation, and collective liberation.As a survivor of su*c*de attempts, Monica is also devoted to providing support and safe spaces for fellow survivors to strengthen their relationships with their reasons to stay, in a world that gives so many to go. Monica has been coaching since 2020, and studying, practicing, and sharing about somatics since 2023.This is such a beautiful episode with a wise, wild woman, where Monica so generously shares:her experience with living through the experience of depression and suicide attemptsthe role somatic accessing and reweaving and the interplay of mind, body, heart and soul has played in her journeysome of the common sterotypical misconceptions around somatic coaching and a beautiful reclamation around [somatics = sovereignty]how choice, power, control and feeling the pain of living out of connection with exiled parts of ourselves who just want to be seen and tended toa delicious discussion around the simple power of naming our feelings and emotional responses and honouring the full spectrum of our human experience Find Monica on YouTubeAnd on Instagram @mmmonica_cJoin Monica's newsletter here. Also mentioned in this episode: Somatics for the People ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here