S6E23: A Call to Arms by Spiritual Anarchist Tara Sullivan - Part 1

What happens when a woman stops behaving?In Part 1 of this wide-ranging, fire-lit conversation, I’m joined by Tara Sullivan - Spiritual Anarchist, High Priestess of The Church of Tara, and proud W.I.T.C.H. (Woman in True Celebration of HerSelf).We talk about spiritual anarchy, internal oppression, and the quiet (and not-so-quiet) ways women are trained to become obedient, palatable, and self-policing.This episode moves through Tara’s path from actor to healer, the power of language to clarify identity, and why reclaiming sovereignty begins by dismantling the inner jailer.We explore:Spiritual anarchy and blowing up the boxes we’ve internalisedLanguage, naming, and how clarity sharpens purposeHow obedience, “goodness,” and self-monitoring become internal oppressionHealing as remembering the original blueprint beneath conditioningWhy reclaiming pleasure, body, and intuition restores powerCommunity, ritual, and creating spaces where women can speak freely🎧 Part 2 continues with embodiment, pleasure as protest, political conditioning, and the creation of Elements of W.I.T.C.H.Mentioned in this ep:Listen to Tara's Call to Arms on Instagram here.Elements of W.I.T.C.H. | A Crash Course in Spiritual Anarchy, Self Sovereignty, & Sacred Insurgency🗓 February 15–22, 2026🔥 8 days. 5 elements. 1 revolution.💥 $88👉 Join the revolution at www.churchoftara.com/elements PLEASURE | A Life-Lubricating Soul SoakAn on-demand pleasure-packed masterclass for women ready to fuel life, leadership, and liberation with aliveness.👉 Say yes to pleasure as protest here  ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

What happens when a woman stops behaving?In Part 1 of this wide-ranging, fire-lit conversation, I’m joined by Tara Sullivan - Spiritual Anarchist, High Priestess of The Church of Tara, and proud W.I.T.C.H. (Woman in True Celebration of HerSelf).We talk about spiritual anarchy, internal oppression, and the quiet (and not-so-quiet) ways women are trained to become obedient, palatable, and self-policing.This episode moves through Tara’s path from actor to healer, the power of language to clarify identity, and why reclaiming sovereignty begins by dismantling the inner jailer.We explore:Spiritual anarchy and blowing up the boxes we’ve internalisedLanguage, naming, and how clarity sharpens purposeHow obedience, “goodness,” and self-monitoring become internal oppressionHealing as remembering the original blueprint beneath conditioningWhy reclaiming pleasure, body, and intuition restores powerCommunity, ritual, and creating spaces where women can speak freely🎧 Part 2 continues with embodiment, pleasure as protest, political conditioning, and the creation of Elements of W.I.T.C.H.Mentioned in this ep:Listen to Tara's Call to Arms on Instagram here.Elements of W.I.T.C.H. | A Crash Course in Spiritual Anarchy, Self Sovereignty, & Sacred Insurgency🗓 February 15–22, 2026🔥 8 days. 5 elements. 1 revolution.💥 $88👉 Join the revolution at www.churchoftara.com/elements PLEASURE | A Life-Lubricating Soul SoakAn on-demand pleasure-packed masterclass for women ready to fuel life, leadership, and liberation with aliveness.👉 Say yes to pleasure as protest here  ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In Part 2, Etai and I go deeper into the lived, embodied experience of Human Design - where charts stop being abstract diagrams and start becoming mirrors for real life.This episode is a masterclass in how to work with a chart, not just understand one.We explore:Human Design as a co-creative, conversational processProjected channels, invitation, and why most people are trying to live their design backwardsThe difference between conscious and unconscious chart energy (and why others often see what we can’t)Willpower, burnout, creative surges, and “stuck on the accelerator” patternsChiron returns, healing cycles, and reframing breakdowns as initiationsWhy storytelling, language, and permission are essential to integration🔗 Connect with Etai NaharyInstagram: @intuitivehdguide/LinkedIn: @intuitivehdguideEtai offers Human Design explorations including natal charts, connection charts, life cycles, and intuitive deep-dives grounded in psychology, archetypes, and lived wisdom. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

What if Human Design wasn’t a box, a rulebook, or another identity you had to squeeze into - but a living, breathing storytelling tool?In Part 1 of this expansive, truth-rich conversation, I’m joined by my friend Etai Nahary, an Intuitive Human Design Guide, multilingual storyteller, and deep thinker whose life journey weaves together psychology, spirituality, disability, and archetypal wisdom.We explore how Human Design becomes radically more powerful when it’s treated as an exploration rather than a prescription - and how story, language, and self-permission change everything.In this episode, we talk about:Etai’s extraordinary life path - from growing up multilingual to studying psychology, narrative therapy, and spiritualityLiving in a disabled body - and what embodiment, intuition, and “grounding” really mean when your lived experience challenges the normWhy Human Design works best as a storytelling framework, not a set of rigid rulesThe danger of dogma in Human Design (and why permission beats prescriptions every time)Archetypes, language, and how stories shape our identity and self-worthRewriting internal narratives through Human Design, psychology, and conscious inquiry🎧 Part 2 continues this conversation with a deeper dive into chart dynamics, energetic patterns, Chiron, and the lived experience of Human Design in real time.🔗 Connect with Etai Nahary•Instagram: @intuitivehdguide•LinkedIn: @intuitivehdguideEtai offers Human Design explorations including natal charts, connection charts, life cycles, and intuitive deep-dives grounded in psychology, archetypes, and lived wisdom. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

If you’ve ever thought SEO was “boring,” “too hard,” “too technical,” or “for the bro-marketing crowd,” sweetheart… this episode is about to blow that myth sky-high.In this super giggly, deeply grounded convo, I sit down with SEO strategist + coach Brittany Herzberg aka The SEO Queen to unpack:Why SEO is the nervous-system-friendly stability you and your your business has been begging forHow Brittany accidentally became the “SEO Queen” after moving states + losing her entire client base overnightThe BIG 3 questions every entrepreneur must answer before SEO or messaging will ever workWhy neuro-sparkly, multi-passionate rebels often struggle with clarity – and how SEO actually simplifies your business (instead of boxing you in)Why SEO is the “anchored big brother energy” compared to the “hot bad-boy dopamine hit” of social mediaHow SEO supports you in seasons of grief, illness, burnout, family emergenciesKylie’s own wake-up call – the moment in a hospital bathroom she realised she wanted her dopamine from a forest - not socials stats!Why people who Google you are already in a BUYING state… unlike the $29-offer complainers in your DMsWhy clarity in your SEO = clarity in your business, your boundaries, and your soulmate client experienceThis episode is equal parts practical and profound – and yes, you’ll walk away rethinking how you’ve been “doing visibility.”This is sustainable, spacious, energetically aligned business strategy for rebels who refuse to sacrifice their life, scruples or sanity to be seen. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

If you’ve ever thought SEO was “boring,” “too hard,” “too technical,” or “for the bro-marketing crowd,” sweetheart… this episode is about to blow that myth sky-high.In this super giggly, deeply grounded convo, I sit down with SEO strategist + coach Brittany Herzberg aka The SEO Queen to unpack:Why SEO is the nervous-system-friendly stability you and your your business has been begging forHow Brittany accidentally became the “SEO Queen” after moving states + losing her entire client base overnightThe BIG 3 questions every entrepreneur must answer before SEO or messaging will ever workWhy neuro-sparkly, multi-passionate rebels often struggle with clarity – and how SEO actually simplifies your business (instead of boxing you in)Why SEO is the “anchored big brother energy” compared to the “hot bad-boy dopamine hit” of social mediaHow SEO supports you in seasons of grief, illness, burnout, family emergenciesKylie’s own wake-up call – the moment in a hospital bathroom she realised she wanted her dopamine from a forest - not socials stats!Why people who Google you are already in a BUYING state… unlike the $29-offer complainers in your DMsWhy clarity in your SEO = clarity in your business, your boundaries, and your soulmate client experienceThis episode is equal parts practical and profound – and yes, you’ll walk away rethinking how you’ve been “doing visibility.”This is sustainable, spacious, energetically aligned business strategy for rebels who refuse to sacrifice their life, scruples or sanity to be seen. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

This episode is me telling the good-bad-on-my-knees-ugly truth about 2025.I went into this year declaring I’d finish it fit as fuck, rich as fuck, and relaxed as fuck.Reader - none of those things happened. ;)What did happen was a year of burning.Old identities.Old ways of working.Old beliefs about growth, worth, money, capacity, and who I thought I had to be to succeed.This year asked me to hold grief and gratitude at the same time.To sit in love and loss.To surrender instead of striving.To stop outsourcing my authority and start trusting my own authority again.In this episode, I share:What Phoenix energy really looks like when you’re living itWhy growth, visibility, and leadership are cyclical - not linearHolding grief, love, loss, and devotion in the same breathLetting go of hustle-based business conditioningReclaiming voice, truth, and self-trustEnergy medicine, money, nervous system capacity, and receivingWhy 2025 was about shedding - and why 2026 feels like the quickeningIf this year stripped you back instead of building you up,If your voice went quiet so something truer could emerge,If being seen felt harder before it felt safer,This episode is for you. Because - like me:You’re not behind.You’re not broken.You’re becoming.And sometimes the wisest thing to do is just to let go. ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this fiery AF mini-episode, I riff on the one thing almost nobody is talking about when it comes to AI in the coaching/creative/spiritual business space - the massive, flashing, non-negotiable asterisk that determines whether AI is a powerful amplifier… or a frequency-muddying sabotage loop waiting to happen.This is your friendly but firm PSA:AI is not the problem.Your parts using AI are the (potential) problem.(Side note → If you don’t know what I mean by parts – go listen to the Andrea Tessier episode first. It’ll blow your mind)In this bite-sized sermon, I break down why AI + fear-based parts = messy messaging, mismatched clients, and a bat signal tuned to the exact opposite of the people you actually want to magnetise.✨ What You’ll LearnThe difference between marketing Self to Self marketing and fear to fear marketingWhy AI becomes dangerous when it’s used by the parts that hate marketing, doubt your worth, or want to hideHow AI amplifies the frequency you start with – fear or freedomWhy “saving time with AI” often really means “avoiding clarity, courage, ownership, and visibility”What happens energetically when you outsource your offers, your voice, or your copy to the machineThe real reason spiritual + creative entrepreneurs struggle with sales and why your magnetism dies the minute fear drives your messagingWhen AI is useful (research, repurposing, admin, show notes – like right now) and how to use AI responsibly without diluting your geniusWhy honouring your gifts is a self-trust practice, not a marketing taskCome learn magnetic, soulmate-led messaging inside G-SPOT, THEN use my library of Self to Self AI prompts if you want once you've owned your freaking genius and can be shining that brilliant light of yours out there from Self energy: https://www.kyliepatchett.com/gspot ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this juicy AF episode, I sit down with the absolute gem of a human, Andrea Tessier – IFS practitioner, master coach, intuitive powerhouse, and the woman who helps people trust themselves for a living.We go deep into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – what it is, how it works, and why your so-called “problem parts” are actually the ones loving the hardest on you.This conversation is equal parts practical, magical, identity-shifting, and business-changing.If you’ve ever wondered why you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel stuck, this one's for you.What We Dive IntoWhat IFS actually is (spoiler: there are NO bad parts)Why certain patterns in business feel like sabotage… but aren’tThe truth about striver parts, perfectionists, procrastinators, rebels, people-pleasers, over-responsibility, and other familiar inner charactersWhat “Self with a capital S” feels like – and why it’s the ONLY place you can sustainably run a business fromHow “parts running your business” creates burnout, codependency, resentment, or confusionHow manager parts + firefighter parts work (and why your binge-eating, dissociation, scrolling, or burnout patterns aren’t moral failures)The difference between fear-driven business and freedom-driven businessWhy traditional coaching often becomes “manager-to-manager” instead of soul-to-soulWhy so much online marketing feels icky – and the IFS lens that explains it perfectlyHow to make business decisions, marketing, sales, and boundaries from Self-energyA big conversation about AI, urgency marketing, and integrity in the current coaching industryAndrea Tessier, M.Ed. is a Master Life Coach and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) Practitioner who helps visionary leaders and entrepreneurs cultivate deep self-trust and lead from within. Through her signature blend of psychology, spirituality, and embodied leadership, Andrea guides clients to move beyond perfectionism, over-responsibility, and self-doubt—so they can create lives and businesses rooted in freedom, purpose, and wholeness. Her work bridges the inner and outer worlds, helping people reconnect with their calm, wise Self and lead their lives with clarity, courage, and confidence.Resources mentioned:IFS Parts Work & Self-Trust Starter Kit - Andrea’s Free IFS Starter Kit - This is the freebie she mentioned inside the episode – and it’s SO GOOD.What’s InsideWhy self-trust feels hard (hint: it’s never willpower)The 3-step IFS process: Notice → Acknowledge → BefriendJournaling prompts to help you hear your inner wisdomA guided practice to meet your parts with compassion instead of shameA totally new way to understand the “personal problems” showing up in your businessWatch Andrea on YouTube @IFS & Spirituality with AndreaHer channel is full of processes, teachings, and guided IFS meditations:Connect With AndreaWebsite: https://www.andreatessier.co ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here

In this juicy AF episode, I sit down with the absolute gem of a human, Andrea Tessier – IFS practitioner, master coach, intuitive powerhouse, and the woman who helps people trust themselves for a living.We go deep into Internal Family Systems (IFS) – what it is, how it works, and why your so-called “problem parts” are actually the ones loving the hardest on you.This conversation is equal parts practical, magical, identity-shifting, and business-changing.If you’ve ever wondered why you’re doing “all the right things” and still feel stuck, this one's for you.What We Dive IntoWhat IFS actually is (spoiler: there are NO bad parts)Why certain patterns in business feel like sabotage… but aren’tThe truth about striver parts, perfectionists, procrastinators, rebels, people-pleasers, over-responsibility, and other familiar inner charactersWhat “Self with a capital S” feels like – and why it’s the ONLY place you can sustainably run a business fromHow “parts running your business” creates burnout, codependency, resentment, or confusionHow manager parts + firefighter parts work (and why your binge-eating, dissociation, scrolling, or burnout patterns aren’t moral failures)The difference between fear-driven business and freedom-driven businessWhy traditional coaching often becomes “manager-to-manager” instead of soul-to-soulWhy so much online marketing feels icky – and the IFS lens that explains it perfectlyHow to make business decisions, marketing, sales, and boundaries from Self-energyA big conversation about AI, urgency marketing, and integrity in the current coaching industryAndrea Tessier, M.Ed. is a Master Life Coach and a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) Practitioner who helps visionary leaders and entrepreneurs cultivate deep self-trust and lead from within. Through her signature blend of psychology, spirituality, and embodied leadership, Andrea guides clients to move beyond perfectionism, over-responsibility, and self-doubt—so they can create lives and businesses rooted in freedom, purpose, and wholeness. Her work bridges the inner and outer worlds, helping people reconnect with their calm, wise Self and lead their lives with clarity, courage, and confidence.Resources mentioned:IFS Parts Work & Self-Trust Starter Kit - Andrea’s Free IFS Starter Kit - This is the freebie she mentioned inside the episode – and it’s SO GOOD.What’s InsideWhy self-trust feels hard (hint: it’s never willpower)The 3-step IFS process: Notice → Acknowledge → BefriendJournaling prompts to help you hear your inner wisdomA guided practice to meet your parts with compassion instead of shameA totally new way to understand the “personal problems” showing up in your businessWatch Andrea on YouTube @IFS & Spirituality with AndreaHer channel is full of processes, teachings, and guided IFS meditations:Connect With AndreaWebsite: https://www.andreatessier.co ___Come Say Hi on Instagram Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide Browse KP offerings on our websiteLearn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here