@RV31 - Reconciliation, Travel and Reflections on Guests

CONTENT WARNING- This episode discusses mental health challenges and suicidal ideations as well as discussing the tragic death of a veteran. Adam Blum had a troubled start to life, plagued by health issues and enduring a debilitating series of surgical procedures. His school years were a torture. Experiencing health and weight issues and diagnosed with ADHD, Adam faced constant bullying. His self-esteem was shattered under the weight of the relentless taunts and physical abuse of his peers. The persistent bullying continued into adulthood and in the workplace. At the age of 22, while suffering from severe depression, Adam decided to take his own life. But one vision and then  a phone call changed his destiny.  We discuss forging fortitude, and how, Adam’s life was saved to enable him to become Adam V2.0  Adam lives in the foothills of the Blue Mountains and is currently a firefighter with the NSW Rural Fire Service (RFS). He is the creator and host of a highly successful podcast called True Blue Conversations (Formerly True Blue History).  Adam is the author of ‘Easy Target’ which he hopes will help others build their own inner strength and self-worth.    04:00       Adam talks growing up, health issues and bullying- and its impact 09:10       Adam’s social networks to combat the negativity 12:30       Adams advice now to his high school self 15:05       ‘I’m not a victim’- the mindset 16:30       Adam talks about the catalytic moment that triggered his suicide attempt 26:13       The psychological angle and link to Adam’s weight and physical appearance. 30:55       Losing fingernails in trying to get through repeated obstacles… what else was Adam doing outside the medical and psychological- the positive people 35:15       Happiness and people/ social connections. Where did Adam find his tribe? 39:05       Adam enabled and facilitated his own turn around- & the secret to success 41:50       Silencing the voice in your head…. And creativity 47:25       Creativity and inspiration- and discipline! 48:55       Why write the book? 49:33       Ben and Tim are two -thirds of an author 54:00       Talking about Nick Hill who Tim and Adam both knew             External Links   www.Adamblum.com.au https://www.bigskypublishing.com.au/adam-blum/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-blum-b49249218/?originalSubdomain=au https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/true-blue-conversations-podcast/id1508857453   Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60   Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify Mitchell Martin- song ‘Hope’

On Riana during SAS Australia: “She’s a brilliant human. No bullshit, no ego, she just knuckled down and suffered well on the show” - Dr Dan Pronk  In this episode, Ben and Tim speak to television personality, SAS Australia candidate and all round superstar Riana Crehan- footnote that she is also a fellow West Coast Eagle supporter!  Brought up on a chicken farm Riana spent most of her childhood outdoors and dancing. In 2007 Riana got a work experience role with the V8 Supercars working on their onsite broadcast. The rest is (Supercars) history. She is a journalistic icon on the screens of motor sports in Australia. Married to Will Davison (Dick Johnson Racing Supercar driver), Riana balances work and life (including motherhood)-  juggling demanding travel schedules.   You will also have seen Riana when she took part as a contestant on SAS Australia, and she aced it.   And amidst it all Riana manages to also stay fit including through cycling and triathlon.   SHOW NOTES 03:00       On growing up on a chicken farm; dancing and playing sports 08:20       Riana decides to study nursing 09:45       How and where does car racing fit in?! 14:15       Riana the introvert- and talking about how many introverts occupy a ‘stage’ 15:20       Leadership roles and natural talent- does it exist? 17:50       How does Riana deal with criticism- particularly social media warriors 22:20       How can one get interested in Supercars? What is it like? 24:40       Tim talks about working with a Supercars Team- athletes and high performance. Riana gives context? 28:20       The narrowing of sporting margins 31:00       Riana talks about her time on SAS Australia 36:10       Talking imposter syndrome… how to take stock of that. 38:50       Talking shared hardshop and team building 42:10       Dr Dan says that Riana knows about ‘suffering well’. Riana responds and gives context on how she suffers well and what got her through the difficult moments 50:30       On motherhood, and the juggling game of life 55:00       Riana’s power song is here       External Links https://www.rianacrehan.com/about https://www.instagram.com/rianacrehan/?hl=en https://www.supercars.com     Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com Email us at [email protected] Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60     Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify And Enjoy Band – available on Spotify

As a special Anzac Day release, please enjoy our chat with MAJGEN (ret’d) Jake Ellwood.  Jake is currently the Chief Executive Officer of the Queensland Reconstruction Authority, a role which puts him at the forefront of reconstruction and resilience within the state, particularly in the face of relentless natural disasters.  And he’s definitely the man for the job, having spent a long, distinguished and varied first career within the Army, rising to the rank of Major General.  In this episode, Jake talks to the boys about his early days, the highlights of his Army career, his philosophy of leadership and character and what he thinks can make a community resilient.    05:20       Straight out of the gate – why ‘Jake’?! 07:30       Jake’s military background, from a private in the Army Reserve….to a Major General in the fulltime Army (including run-ins with both hosts at various points in his career!) 12:00       From such a long, varied and distinguished career, what are the standout moments? 15:48       Jake’s view on character as an indispensable leadership quality… and the role of ethics within this 27:30       Are ‘kids these days’ less resilient than we used to be back in the day? 32:26       Jake’s current role as the CEO of the Queensland Reconstruction Authority 36:30       What are communities doing well to ensure their resilience against – and during – natural disasters? 42:10       What does Jake do for himself? (Answer:  Running!) 45:05       The mental aspects of running – and how to overcome the mental difficulties of running 48:30       Jake on running the 2018 Boston Marathon (renowned as one of the most miserable Bostons ever! Check this out!) 52:44       Jake on Run Army, its beginnings and what it means to him 1:04:20    Jake looking forward to running the 2024 Run Army in a week’s time (postscript – while Jake spoke about doing this race at a casual, enjoyable pace, it turns out his version of ‘casual’ is probably different to most of ours – he came in the top 60 in just over 40 minutes!) 1:10:41    What is Jake’s ‘power song’?     External Links Run Army Dr Simon Longstaff, Executive Director of The Ethics Centre Queensland Reconstruction Authority   Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60     Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify

This week’s guest is Dr Luana Main, a Senior Lecturer in Applied Sport Science at Deakin University.  An athlete herself, Luana’s research focuses on optimizing human performance and, in particular, finding the sweet spot between optimal load and overtraining.  She has applied this research in areas including elite sport and the military and talks with Ben and Tim about how we can all apply some of these same concepts in our day-to-day lives.   04:45       Luana’s background – and the third-year uni lecture that sparked her lifelong interest in overtraining syndrome.  07:00       First of all – what is overtraining?! 08:20       There’s a number of biomarkers associated with overtraining, but what are the subjective indications that someone might be overtraining?  (PS – based on Luana’s response, there is potential that Tim is overtraining……) 09:30       Are subjective measures of diagnosing overtraining as effective as objective measures? 13:00       How can we get better at the basics, when it comes to lowering our steady state stress load? 14:40       Heart rate variability as a measure of stress 17:00       Discussion on wearables 20:55       What are the non-negotiables when it comes to improving performance?  And how exactly do we do these? 25:15       Luana’s work with the military 29:30       The impact of overtraining on cognitive function 33:50       Luana on ‘the good, the bad and the ugly’ of stress 39:00       What areas of research would Luana love to get into next? 41:20        What does Luana do for herself?   External Links The Stroop Test – give it a go! Luana’s LinkedIn Luana’s research and publications Luana’s work at Deakin University   Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60     Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify

Ben and Tim try to remember what an 'RV' actually is.... reconciliation and reflection, before we talk about our respective travel. From Morocco, Barcelona, Chicago, Brisbane, Hobart .... and more! Then reflections on Jaz Diab, Dr Rob Barbour, Ian Prior and the Festival of Veterans Art.   Then as usual talking rubbish about the perfect Easter Egg, Popcorn from Chicago..... and encouraging outright criticism!   Music: With thanks to The Externals as well as Ben Frichot   Contact: www.unforgiving60.com [email protected]     

In this episode, Ben and Tim speak to Rachel Vickery.  Rachel spent her formative years as a national level gymnast and Commonwealth Games representative for her native New Zealand before training as a respiratory physiotherapist.  Drawing from this unique background, Rachel now works to help people increase their performance in domains ranging from NBA basketball to the boardroom.  Rachel shares her thoughts on how to deal with stress, both in your daily life and at ‘go time’ and provides a unique insight into some of the pressures faced by athletes and coaches at the elite levels of sport.  And to wrap it up, she gives us not just one, but four power songs!     05:11       As customary in season five, the boys bang on about how hot their podcast studio is – and ask Rachel is “Bikram Podcasting” is good for recovery?! 06:30       Rachel’s background – personal, sporting and professional, including her exploits as a national level gymnast 10:40       Good for a Girl – excellent book by US middle distance runner Lauren Fleshman 11:15       The pressure of ‘Growing Up In Lycra’ – training and competing in aesthetic sports, particularly as a female and particularly during puberty 16:00       The devastating impacts of RED-S (Relative Energy Deficiency in Sport) 24:24       A discussion of the importance and impacts of menstruation on female athletic development 28:30       Rachel’s work on a report into the cultural problems inside NZ gymnastics 33:30       We’ve heard of athletes being bullied, but coaches are not immune from bullying either 39:50       The importance of maximising the buffer between steady state and ‘go time’ by lowering your steady state stress – and the potential for ‘fear of success’ 44:00       How do we lower both steady state pressure and ‘go time’ arousal state? 48:30       Rachel talks to the negative impacts of alcohol on athletic performance – and Tim offers a powerful counter-factual! 49:30       Shifting the narrative from fear to gratitude – and the importance of doing the common uncommonly well 51:40       Getting rid of toxins – dietary and otherwise – from your life 54:00       Rachel’s three point ‘get out of jail card’ 56:20       The ‘three dickhead rule’ (…or how to check if you’re the dickhead!) 57:30       Rachel on the shortfalls on the current ‘breathwork’ fad 1:12:30    What does Rachel do for herself? Including long-distance travel thoughts 1:18:00    The importance of conducting experiments on yourself to work out what is going to help your recovery 1:20:30    Rachel’s power song(s)!!     External Links Rachel’s website – https://rachelvickery.com/ Gymnastics New Zealand Independent Report – co-authored by Rachel Rachel’s LinkedIn Rachel’s Breathing Baseline Reset & Habit Breaker   Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60     Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify

Do you believe that being creativity builds resilience? Well this week we aim to convince you so get ready. In support of the the upcoming www.fova.org.au we outline how: when you engage in creative activities, you increase your brain’s capacity for creative thinking, pattern recognition, and developing visual-spatial skills. These skills enhance your problem-solving abilities in real-life situations From Ruth Richards (Harvard), “Engaging in creative behaviours, makes us more dynamic, conscious, non-defensive, observant, collaborative, and brave.” “Everyday creative activity is a path to flourishing”- Conner, DeYoung and Silvia  in the Journal of Positive Psychology. Recent experience sampling and diary studies have shown that spending time on creative goals during a day is associated with higher activated positive affect (PA) (flourishing) on that day. The real question isn't "How creative are you?" but rather "How are you creative?" says educational psychologist Donald Treffinger.   Intelligence Summary (INTSUM) 03:30       Announcement from Mark Johnson from anvam.org.au  04:20       What’s the problem that means we need creativity? 05:50       What is flow state? 09:40       What does the research and literature say? 10:30       “Brave, non-defensive and collaborative” 14:50       Laminate your neural pathways! 18:00       From Tara Swart at MiT…. Expose your brain to novelty 20:20       What is creativity for Tim and Ben? 32:15       Why did Ben have a guitar in his backpack in the SAS (artists in foxholes) 35:00       SAS Band Tongue Charge play a cover of ‘Getting Away with It in Afghanistan’… and we talk why?! 44:30       Art and identity 47:00       How do we get going? Go join a pub choir! 52:00       Ben and Tim do galleries and museums 55:00       Tongue Charge play another song: “One Crowded Hour”   References:  www.fova.org.au https://www.anvam.org.au      Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60       Music …. With thanks to:   Tongue Charge The Externals – available on Spotify Ben Frichot        

Ian Prior is MORE than just a professional rugby player with over a decade of ‘high speed collisions in confined spaces’. He’s incredibly well read and researched. He meditates and practices journaling. He uses ice baths and loves the beach. He’s about performance and optimisation, but uses that to improve his being a dedicated father and husband. This is also a story about tenacity. In the early stages of his career Ian was on the fringes of representative and  first class rugby. But his determination and commitment to self improvement got him playing across three Super Rugby Franchises for over a decade. He talks about ‘how’ and ‘what’ he does. We also talk wicked problems and how they apply to Australian Rugby. Intelligence Summary (INTSUM)     04:00       Start the Bikram Podcast 05:10       Growing Up including in Africa 06:00       Media hasn’t been kind to Zimbabwe- what’s it really like? 08:10       Ian describes his physical stature- and how that fits into rugby 08:50       Superbowl/ NFL v rugby comparison 11:50       Back to Australia after Zimbabwe- school and sport (more of the latter than the former!) 15:05       Are the best sports people generalists or specialists? 16:59       Ian Prior’s three posters on his wall as a kid- Ricky Ponting, Matt Burke and Ben Pronk!? 20:32       Ian gets an opportunity in the Australian U20 rugby side 22:00       Ian Prior hangs up repeatedly on Queensland Red’s coach Ewan McKenzie… and interviewing for the Reds. What three questions did Ewan ask Ian? 25:00       What makes the best players? 28:00       Ian joins the Reds and wins a series 30:00       Does playing a lot of footy together (or anything together) really matter in success? 32:00       Ian moves franchises to the Brumbies…. Why? Life in Canberra. 37:15       How does leadership work in a rugby club? 41:10       Resilience Shepherds in rugby- some good examples 44:20       Ian moves to the Western Force 50:10       Ian’s journaling, meditation and grounding and its importance to performance 57:00       Ice baths? Stretching…. How to wind down 58:20       Talking strength and conditioning, loads and training blocks 1:06:00    Ian’s leadership- how did he Captain the Western Force? 1:16:20    Talking Australian Rugby and wicked problems.         References:   About Ian Prior  Sydney Morning Herald Article on Australian Rugby ‘Wicked Problems’ article Rittel and Webber ‘Positive Visualization and Its Effects on Strength Training’- Watkins and Turner https://westernforce.rugby       Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60       Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify      

Get a medical degree and then do SAS selection – as a Doctor!? Sounds mad. Well listen in. Born in Kenya, Dr Rob Barbour spent his formative years in Australia gaining a medical degree and serving in the Australian special forces including on peacekeeping missions.Having never lost his love for his birthplace, Rob migrated to Tanzania to start a socially responsible and community conservation orientated safari operation and a private community conservation area. Rob subsequently joined Epic Private Journeys as a partner and private guide in Eastern and Southern Africa where he was able to share with Epic's guests his experience and passion for the natural world and local cultures, as well as his belief in poverty alleviation through conservation. Intelligence Summary (INTSUM)   03:05       Dr Rob Barbour tells the story of growing up in Kenya… and how his family got there! School, farming and childhood adventures. 09:25       Ben has to ask about running…. in Kenya…. And he asks a rugby player! 10:20       The Barbour family considers a move to Australia 11:50       What was eating the livestock!? 12:50       Culture shock- from Kenya to Perth 18:00       Rob is trying to work out what to do after school. Study medicine! 21:20       After medicine Rob thinks about joining the Army- and does! 23:40       Rob is a little lax on entry to the Army 26:20       Rob decides to undertake SAS selection… as a Doctor! 31:00       SAS selection in Rob’s experience 33:33       Tim meets Rob on SAS Selection- Ben reckons it was in the Sick Bay 36:20       What tools does Rob use to keep focussed 29:30       Tools can be simple 41:30       Rob finishes his time in the SAS and moves back to Africa (via PNG) 54:20       Discussing poaching in Africa 58:20       How can you control the incentives against poaching 1:01:10    Similarities between PNG and Africa 1:04:20    Rob explains the migration and safaris 1:11:30    Any good movies on the silver screen that show Africa as it truly is? 1:18:10    Rob’s power song…. Or not?!       More on Rob’s Adventures Here:   https://epicprivatejourneys.com https://www.linkedin.com/company/epic-private-journeys/   https://www.linkedin.com/in/robert-barbour-6b696027/       Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60       Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify Mitchell Martin- – available on Spotify      

In this episode, we continue our chat with Jaz Diab, the multi-talented former Commanding Officer of the Australian Special Operations Engineer Regiment.  Jaz reflects on her experiences as one of the first females in combat roles within Special Operations, before looking at her transition out of the military and subsequent focus on nuclear science.  Jaz then talks us through some of the difficulties in progressing the conversation related to nuclear energy in Australia, as well as her role as the President of Women in Nuclear – Australia.   01:30       Was Jaz forging a new path for women through her example in the Army? (Spoiler alert:  she absolutely was.  We just wanted to see if she thought she was at the time!) 03:50       Reflections on the parallels with Monika Georgieva’s trailblazing role as a female within the infantry corps (check out our episode with Monika back in Season 2 Episode 3) 06:45       Jaz’s role as an Explosive Ordnance Disposal technician – bomb disposal!  The pressure of the role – physical and psychological. And just how accurate is the movie The Hurt Locker?! 13:30       Ben goes off on a tangential rant about restocking the fridge when you take a cold beverage…. 14:00       Tim brings the conversation back on track by asking about Jaz’s experience as an aide to the Chief of Army 15:00       Reflections from the top – the pressures on leaders of big organisations 21:45       Tim remembers trying to beat the Chief of Army in a run 22:40       Jaz leaves the Army – and gets even more interested in nukes!  Plus her reflections on why Australia has such difficulties considering nuclear power as a potential alternative to fossil fuels 26:30       The risks of nuclear power – are they overblown given modern technology?  And how can we safely dispose of nuclear waste? 31:30       The difference between fission and fusion – and how feasible is cold fusion? 32:30       Jaz’s role as President of Women in Nuclear – Australia 37:00       Being a mum – harder than defusing bombs!  Jaz talks to her experience as the mother of a gorgeous little girl with achondroplasia – a form of dwarfism. 41:20       On finding out about her daughter’s condition – and dealing with this news and what it meant for her child 46:00       How has Jaz and her partner worked through these challenges    External Links ANVAM – Australian National Veterans Arts Museum – www.anvam.org.au   Contact Us   www.unforgiving60.com   Email us at [email protected]   Instagram, Twitter: @Unforgiving60       Music …. With thanks to: The Externals – available on Spotify