The Biggest Mistakes I Made While Wedding Planning

"Can I switch seats to another table?" "I'm running late for the ceremony!" "Why are you getting married so far away?" These are real questions/comments that wedding guests say to brides and grooms in the days and weeks leading up to their wedding. Yes, these questions are annoying, awkward or uncomfortable. But they do get asked, meaning you have to deal with them! Following up on my last episode, I'm back with six more questions you may have to field from your wedding guests. I'll talk you through what kinds of questions are coming at you and how to answer them without losing a friendship or taking on any more wedding stress! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77Inspired by: https://www.stylemepretty.com/2026/01/08/5-questions-most-wedding-guests-will-ask-how-to-answer-them/; https://www.weddingwire.ca/wedding-ideas/25-questions-you-should-never-ask-a-couple-on-their-wedding-day--c509 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

REBROADCAST: While I loved my 2021 wedding day, mistakes were definitely made in the planning process! Learn from my wedding planning mistakes so you can avoid them on your wedding day! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77This episode originally aired in Jan 2022 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We know that wedding planning can bring a lot of drama, stress and uncomfortable moments. But what do you do when it's your wedding guests who are putting you on the spot and asking you awkward, annoying or painful questions? As the person getting married, you have to answer! So what do you say that won't ruin your relationship with your guest but also won't ruin your wedding plans? Tune into this episode to find out - and stay tuned for part two coming soon! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77Inspired by: https://www.stylemepretty.com/2026/01/08/5-questions-most-wedding-guests-will-ask-how-to-answer-them/; https://www.weddingwire.ca/wedding-ideas/25-questions-you-should-never-ask-a-couple-on-their-wedding-day--c509;   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

REBROADCAST: It's so easy to spend your entire wedding day stuck in your head. After months and months of wedding planning, you may be too busy worrying about the reception or regretting your outfit choice to remember to stay present. But you want to be in the moment on your wedding day! Tune into this episode to hear my top tips for staying present and grounded on your wedding day so you don't miss a single special moment! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77This episode originally aired in Jan 2022. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Need help with your honeymoon planning? Not sure where to start? Wondering when you should go on your honeymoon, what will make it special and how you're going to pay for it all? I've got you covered with this week's episode all about planning your honeymoon (while also planning your wedding!). I'm answering 10 frequently asked questions about honeymoons to help you plan your first - but not your last - trip as a married couple! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77Inspired by: https://rivieranayarit.villalaestancia.com/blog/weddings/more-than-10-faqs-about-honeymoon; https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/honeymoon-planning-101-what-you-need-to-know  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

REBROADCAST: Tired of the same old bridal showers? Don't know what the point of an engagement party is? Definitely don't want to go to Vegas for your bachelorette? Not sure you need a rehearsal dinner?Then you're in the right place! Today's episode of The Unconventional Wedding Planning Podcast is all about flipping all of your pre-wedding events on their heads. Throw out tradition, think creatively and host events that really feel like you. Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77This episode originally aired in Dec 2021. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today we're talking about a very taboo subject in the world of wedding planning: uninviting someone from your wedding! This is a major social faux pas but sometimes it has to happen. Whether due to venue constraints, going over your wedding budget, having a falling out with a friend or someone not listening to your rule about plus ones, sometimes you just have to ask someone to, kindly, no longer attend your wedding.In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how to uninvite someone, including a template you can follow and use word-for-word. Plus I'll share questions to ask yourself before you rescind the invite, how to avoid uninviting guests in the first place, and why I don't think you should ever demote someone from wedding party member to wedding guest.Here are the exact templates I share in the episode:For plus ones: "We’re so excited to see you at our wedding! Unfortunately, (due to space constraints/), we cannot accommodate additional guests/plus ones. Thanks for your understanding and we look forward to celebrating with you!"For kids: "We’re so excited to see you at our wedding. Our wedding is adults-only, so we are not able to accommodate children. We hope you can still attend and we look forward to celebrating with your whole family at a later date."For personal reasons: "Given the current situation, we think it would be best if you did not attend our wedding. Thanks for your understanding."For venue/budget issues: "Due to X (extenuating circumstances), we’ve had to downsize our guest list. We’re so sad that we won’t have you at the wedding but we appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you at a later date."Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77Inspired by: https://www.theknot.com/content/can-you-uninvite-wedding-guest Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

REBROADCAST: Is your partner dragging their feet when it comes to wedding planning? Has your spouse-to-be barely lifted a finger while you've been drowning under a mountain of wedding tasks? Are you starting to grow resentful of having to do it all yourself?I believe both partners should be 100% responsible for planning their own wedding. After all, it's a day for both of you, so both of you should put in the work. But that looks different in every relationship. What kind of involvement are you looking for from your fiance(e)? How do you have that conversation with them? What do you do if they don't want to be get involved in the wedding? Tune in to find out! PS: Thanks to befan526 for suggesting this episode topic! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77This episode originally aired in Dec 2021. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Everyone wants to save money and stick to their wedding budget. But how do you make cuts without sacrificing your wedding experience or looking cheap to your guests? In this week's episode, I'm following up Ep 187 with more areas in your wedding budget where you can save money (without anyone noticing!) plus I'm also sharing places where I strongly encourage you to NOT cut the budget and spend the right amount for your wedding! Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77Inspired by: https://www.stylemepretty.com/2025/04/14/how-to-plan-a-wedding-on-a-budget-without-losing-the-magic/; https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingplanning/comments/155crj8/panicking_at_how_expensive_this_process_is_anyone/; https://www.frenchhenfarm.com/blog/2026/1/6/how-to-cut-wedding-costs-without-sacrificing-style; https://www.theknot.com/content/ways-to-save-money-on-wedding Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

REBROADCAST: Are you an introvert planning a wedding? Do you hate attention, dread hanging out with large groups of people and shy away from the spotlight? Same. And while it may feel like the wedding industry is not geared towards people like us, there are lots of ways to create a wedding that is introvert-friendly. Don't spend your whole engagement worried about all of the people involved in your wedding day!  PS: Thanks to Megan S for suggesting this podcast episode topic! Want to suggest a topic or leave me some feedback? Let me know in the Q&A box (only available on Spotify). Have a wedding planning question or episode idea? Let me know what you want to hear! Fill out this quick form with your feedback and/or episode suggestions: https://forms.gle/ANxD6B9M4xzoReZ77This episode was originally published in Dec 2021. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.