171 Why people cheat and how to repair your relationship after an affair with Tarah and Ej Kerwin

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.   We discuss: What is cheating Why do people cheat? Is an affair the symptom of a troubled relationship or an individual problem? Can a relationship survive an affair? How couples can rebuild trust through couples therapy Misconceptions about affairs  YOUTUBE VIDEO FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Tarah and EJ's WebsiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This podcast episode features Dr. Maria Sophocles, who has been a practicing gynecologist for 29 years and is an internationally respected expert in menopause and female sexual function. She is the founder of Women's Healthcare of Princeton, a progressive gynecology practice serving over 30,000 women in the U.S. Emily and Maria discuss: Menopause and why everyone needs to learn about it How Menopause can affect sex The bedroom gap Labiaplasty Expanding your experience of sex     FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmic Send your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/  Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Website: https://mariasophoclesmd.com/patient-care/ Instagram: @mariasophoclesmd  TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alYBnyxMuPk Erika Lust / TED Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z9LaQtfpP_8See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Niamh Mannion the founder of My Friend In Sex Ed.  Emily and Niamh discuss: ADHD How ADHD can have positive impacts on relationships Other ways ADHD could impact relationships Rejection sensitivity Oversharing How a neurotypical or non-ADHDer can support an ADHD partner FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Niamh's website Niamh's InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How dating rules are changing and is your ‘type’ right for you? with Nicole Colantoni   This episode features Nicole Colantoni who is a dating coach, ehrmony Australia’s dating expert and podcast host of Love uncensored: the modern guide to dating and relationships.     Emily and Nicole discussed: Dating rules How dating rules differ between generations Dating advice Is your type really right for you?   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Nicole’s website Nicole’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Laurie Love who is a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ and Intimacy Coach. She empowers individuals and couples to navigate the intricacies of intimacy through the 5 Erotic Blueprint™ types framework which helps us understand how we are wired for pleasure. Emily and Laurie discuss: Laurie's journey to become an intimacy coach What is the erotic blueprint? How do we discover what our erotic blueprint is? Why is this helpful and how can we use it? What to do if your partner has a different erotic blueprint FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Laurie's websiteSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Laura Lee who is a psychologist & sexologist with over 17 years of experience in clinical practice and coaching. She is the Director of Blue Space Psychology where she provides individual psychological and sexual therapy. In addition to clinical practice, Laura provides supervision, professional consultation and workshops to healthcare providers. She also offers online courses, education and coaching, and is a sought after speaker and trainer. Laura‘s work has been published in the Journal of Positive Sexuality, where she explored how communication impacts sexual desire & satisfaction. Her extensive experience, academic research and practical insights, coupled with her warm and authentic communication style, sees that she is a highly respected voice in the fields of psychology and sexuality.   Emily and Laura discussed: What is sexual communication and how is it different to other ways we communicate in relationships? How does the relationship between communication, desire and satisfaction interact with each other? How to create safety when discussing sex What if your partner isn’t open to the idea of talking about sex? How to stay regulated during hard conversations  Creating interpersonal safety   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)   Laura's Website: https://www.lauralee.com.au/about-1 Blue Space Psychology: https://www.bluespacepsychology.com.au/about Laura's InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Laura Federico and Morgan Miller, the authors of The Cycle Book. Laura is a psychotherapist and certified sex and relationship therapist in private practice. Morgan is a certified professional midwife, lactation consultant, activist, and birth center founder in private practice.   Emily, Laura and Morgan discuss: What can you track in your menstrual cycle? What are the menstrual phases and what can they feel like? The importance of tracking your cycle Why you shouldn’t digitally track your health How to track your cycle How society isn’t set up to support our cycles How Donald Trump’s presidency is affecting Women and AFAB health rights FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) Laura and Morgan’s website: https://www.itslauraandmorgan.com/ Buy the book in Australia HERE See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode features Tarah and EJ Kerwin who are dedicated to transforming couples’ lives through meaningful connection and support. They’re a married couple who co-founded the Relationship Renovation Counseling Centre. Their goal is to provide real tools for couples to thrive, no matter where they are.   We discuss: Mismatched desire How to rebuild desire in your relationship Navigating conflict in relationships Not trusting your partner to hold information/explore difficult issues with you   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology  Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership) The Relationship Renovation Website Tarah and Ej’s InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Emily is joined with Matt Barr who has gained notoriety as the man with the world's biggest penis (according to multiple independent medical studies, measuring him at over 36cm/14.5), a title he humorously embraces while shedding light on the complexities of his life. His journey into the public eye began with a Channel 4 documentary entitled My Massive C**k. In his upcoming memoir, A Long Story: Life With The World’s Large, Matt delves into the physical and mental health aspects associated with his condition. He aims to raise awareness about his challenges, including finding suitable clothing and managing health issues related to blood flow. Matt has shared his experiences, from bizarre direct messages to unexpected date invitations. He humorously recalls requests ranging from cleaning houses naked to more unusual propositions, such as a fan wanting to draw him in cartoon form for a fetish known as macrophilia. Matt enjoys working with brands like Fleshy because they share his goal of promoting a positive discourse around male sexuality. Matt's website: https://biggestpenisbook.com/ Fleshy sex toys: getfleshy.com FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Welcome to season 6 of That's Orgasmic! This episode is being released on Emily's 25th birthday, so what better way to celebrate than discussing 25 things Emily has learnt about sex as a sexologist.   FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] To book a session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology follow the link: https://www.emilyduncansexology.com/ Leave a review for the chance to receive a discounted session with Emily at Emily Duncan Sexology. Subscribe to my Sunroom: https://sunroom.so/thatsorgasmic (sign up on their website for 30% off my membership)See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.