Ep. 152 - We Don't Need Self Esteem

In this episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie dive deep into one of the most misunderstood ideas of our time—self-esteem. Building on a clip from Charlie Kirk, they explore why self-love and self-esteem aren’t the solutions the world says they are, and how they actually lead us away from truth and living a loving life. Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

In this episode of The Right Fight Podcast, we talk about one of the hardest but most important parts of parenting: protecting our children from their own selfishness. We share real stories from raising our kids, the struggles we faced in public and at home, and why saying “no” in love is one of the greatest gifts you can give your child. Together, we dive into what discipline really means, how it teaches children that they’re truly loved, and why helping them learn not to put themselves first sets them up for stronger relationships and a deeper understanding of God’s love.Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

In this episode of The Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie dive into the heart of conflict resolution—how to know when a disagreement is worth confronting, and when it’s best to let go. They share practical wisdom on approaching conflict gently, fighting for the other person’s good instead of your own, and why unresolved issues can harm relationships more than tough conversations ever could. With real-life examples, biblical insight, and encouragement to choose love over pride and fear, this episode will challenge and equip you to grow stronger relationships through healthy resolution.Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

Sometimes what’s “normal” in the world is the very thing pulling you away from God. In this episode of the Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie reveal why true strength often looks like humility — and why following Christ means you can’t always follow the crowd.Through biblical truth, practical wisdom, and real-life examples, they discuss how pride can hide in plain sight, how culture subtly pressures us to compromise, and how humility opens our eyes to God’s better way. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fit in, this conversation will remind you that standing with God is worth standing out.Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

In this episode of the Right Fight Podcast, Kenny and Tammie dive into how to find your direction in life and trust God’s timing, even when you feel lost or “rolling around” without a clear purpose. Inspired by a young friend’s journey—and some humorous childhood train-riding stories—Kenny shares powerful life lessons about staying connected to Christ, becoming the person God calls you to be, and letting Him guide you into the right opportunities. With relatable illustrations, real-life wisdom, and key Bible verses like Proverbs 3:5-6, Matthew 6:33, and Jeremiah 29:11, this conversation will encourage you to persevere, grow in faith, and prepare your heart for God’s perfect plan. Whether you’re in your teens, 20s, or navigating a midlife transition, this episode is packed with practical encouragement, biblical truth, and hope for the journey.Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

We can't reject people based off of appearance, or preconceived notions. We need to give people a chance, an opportunity to be trusted and loved. Any time we become vulnerable in that space, we open ourselves up to getting hurt, but Kenny and Tammie reason that taking that chance is the most loving thing we can do!Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

In this episode Kenny and Tammie tackle the topic of different sins with different visibilities, when we should confess those sins to others, and how we need to repent regardless. Join them as they approach this topic from two differing perspectives.Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

What exactly is religion? Is it okay to be religious, or is all religion bad? Why do some churches look different than others, and is it okay that they look different? Kenny and Tammie these difficult questions in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast!

How do we know when repentance is true? Whether it comes from others or even ourselves, how can we know what the right motives are? How can we come to the place of true repentance, and how can we encourage others to go there themselves? Find out now in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast!Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/

How should we respond to betrayal? Why does getting betrayed by someone we know hurt so much more than being betrayed by a stranger? How do we avoid becoming bitter? Kenny and Tammie tackle all this and more in this episode of The Right Fight Podcast!Follow us on Instagram! – https://www.instagram.com/johnkennedyvaughan/Follow us on TikTok! – https://www.tiktok.com/@johnkennedyvaughanSubscribe to our YouTube! – https://www.youtube.com/@therightfight.podcastShields of Strength! – https://www.shieldsofstrength.com/