Why Men Stop Giving To Women

UNDERSTANDING WOMEN’S FUCKING ENERGYI believe women have at least two distinct modalities of turn-on or arousal.  I believe there is a particular ‘frequency’ of women’s arousal that is their fucking energy — where they want to be penetrated.Men’s erections occur in response to this energy.If this observation is correct, the implications that come out of it are many.This is a starting conversation on this topic and on this premise.  Others to follow soon.— Om RupaniCourse Mentioned In Video : https://omrupani.org/eros-in-her-handswww.OmRupani.org

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5 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T PARTNER WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE NEGATIVE PEOPLE ACTUALLY DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO RELATIONSHIPS.A successful relationship is two are more people coming into agreement.Chronically unhappy people tend to be out of agreement with life itself.They are ungracious.They are ungrateful.They have no appreciation for the good that is around them.Such a person has true inclination to be gracious towards other humans, to be thankful for the good that others bring into their life.  If a person seem determined to not come into agreement with you or with life, you will not have a successful connection with them.2.  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE DREAM KILLERSTo be negative is to be negative about the future.I would in fact define whether a person is officially negative or not by this particular metric : WHAT’S THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THE FUTURE — THIER OWN FUTURE AND THE WORLD’S FUTURE?If a person is future-forward, they are not negative.Those who are negative people by this definition — don’t ever share your future plans with these people.  They will do their utmost to snuff your flame.3.  YOU WILL FAIL AS A ROMANTIC PARTNER WITH THEM.This particular point applies even more to men than women.  We all have the desire to please our partner, but men feel this metric at an even deeper level.  When our woman is happy, we feel like kings.  When she is unhappy, it lands in us as failure.Pick a woman who is chronically unhappy, and you set yourself to being and feeling like a chronic failure.4.  THEIR NEGATIVITY IS OFTEN MALEVOLENTMaybe there is a small number of negative and pessimistic people who just live their sully ives in the corner, but most people who are future-negative are deeply envious of others who are optimistic, future-forward, creative, endeavoring, taking chances, succeeding.Be double careful of inviting such malevolent energy into your creation and production circle.  They are saboteurs.5.  AS YOUR PARTNER, THE NEGATIVE PERSON IS ROOTING FOR YOUR FAILUREA truly negative person cannot tolerate progress and success anywhere.  They won’t make an exception for you even if you are married to them.The very core purpose of a good relationship ought to be that the two people are rooting for each other.  You are a stand for each other.  You want the other to succeed and thrive.  If you can’t say this about yourself, you suck as a partner and your other will suffer because of it, and vice versa.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

THERE ARE 2 TYPES OF WOMEN IN THE WORLD1.  Those who believe that their full SOUL EXPRESSION can only occur independent of any   man, independent or any relationship with a man, independent of any marriage with a man.  That taking her full soul journey as a woman is a solo path, independent of men and relationships with men, and that men and relationships with men are distractions, detours and obstacles to that true SOUL journey of hers.2.  Women who believe their SOUL JOURNEY can only be completed through the archetypes of wife and mother.  That only in a deep partnership with a man, only in a deep marriage with a man, in going through all the ups and downs that a marriage entails, in upholding and living out all the marriage vows of sickness and in health, for richer or poor, that only in that life-long journey can she realize and make her SOUL JOURNEY.My prompt to women is that they examine their belief system and see what programming they are carrying in their system.  Be true to the belief you are carrying.  If you are in the first category, please stop trying to pair bond with men, please stop seeking long-term partnerships with men; please don’t even cohabitate with a man, and most certainly, please don’t get married.  It wont’ work out for you.  You yourself will sabotage your relationships, because your core belief is not in agreement with long-term bonding with a man.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

PODCAST WITH KELLY BROGAN - BDSM SCENE CONSTRUCTIONS FOR CATHARSISTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[03:05] How BDSM intersects with trauma, pleasure, and healing[05:12] Understanding the father-daughter dynamic in relationships[06:08] How childhood experiences shape adult desires[07:20] Why reenacting childhood wounds can be healing[08:14] Common father-daughter wounds and their emotional impact[09:05] Revisiting painful childhood memories in a controlled way[10:18] How a dom can rewrite past trauma[11:10] Why people internalize childhood neglect as self-blame[12:02] How reenacting childhood wounds can change self-perception[13:15] The role of theater and psychodrama in BDSM[14:09] How women can relive and heal rejection from their fathers[15:30] Why BDSM scene design is structured like a play[16:22] Examples of how childhood wounds show up in adult relationships[19:02] The impact of revisiting parental rejection in scene play[20:10] The emotional release that comes from reenacting past pain[21:04] The psychological effects of feeling preferred or not preferred[22:15] The deep-rooted nature of childhood wounds in adult life[23:09] How re-experiencing childhood emotions can reframe memories[24:03] The importance of acknowledging that parents are human[25:12] Using BDSM to address self-worth issues rooted in childhood[26:08] Why people carry childhood pain into adulthood[27:00] The difference between memory, narrative, and reality[28:15] The role of the dom in guiding emotional catharsis[29:05] How the body holds onto past trauma[30:10] The connection between physical sensations and emotional healing[31:12] How BDSM can address and release stored trauma[32:20] The impact of feeling powerless as a child[33:08] How physical expression can help process past pain[34:04] Why talk therapy alone cannot resolve deep trauma[35:10] Jealousy as a common relationship challenge[36:02] How BDSM can be used to work through jealousy[38:00] How playing out jealousy can lessen its intensity[41:08] Why understanding your fears can give you more agency[42:04] How women can shift their perspective on their partner’s attraction to others[45:02] How body shame impacts relationships and intimacy[46:10] How BDSM can help heal body insecurities[47:15] Why body shaming is common in BDSM play[48:02] How men and women experience different types of body shame[49:08] The role of worship and cherishment in healing body shame[50:05] Why aftercare is essential in BDSM scenes[51:10] How physical play can anchor emotional healing[52:02] Why BDSM is not just for “kinky” people[53:08] How scene play can be an effective tool for personal growth[54:12] Why BDSM should not be stigmatized in therapeutic settings[55:05] How this approach can complement traditional therapy[56:02] The importance of embracing taboo topics for healingLearn more about Om Rupani’s School for Dominance & Submission on his website, YouTube channel and Instagram.Listen to the Om Rupani Podcast on Spotify or AppleInstagram: @kellybroganmdWebsite: kellybroganmd.comwww.OmRupani.org

ANSWER YOUR CALL!  OR GET OFF THE POT!Lauren and I giving some tough love to you women who are on the fence about answering your call.  We wholeheartedly urge you to take courage and step towards the bit of uncertainty that might be the start of an adventure.With love.Om & Lauren.Priestess Training : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-masterywww.OmRupani.org

PODCAST WITH EYLA CUENCA —TOPICS:I feel for you people who binge watch my material.Containment for a birth doula.  Containment in birth space.The energetics of Containment.Containment in Man-Woman dynamic.Men’s initiations, or lack there of, these days.Where the men drop contentment and boundaries, women step in to pick up the slack.You will never get the best out of a woman who is chronically uncontained.What women look like after a good scene.The downward spiral of distrust that results in long-term frustrations.Reversing the downward spirals.Men want to be found right.Discerning non-consensual Domination & submission from the consensual.Using scene-play for release and catharsis.Flipping trauma for Eros.The coolness of the Dom energy.Balancing energies between Dom & sub.Archetypical mismatch when both woman and men are submissives.Women being more yes to their submission than men are to their Domination.A functional dom-sub dynamic is a co-conspiracy.www.OmRupani.org

SHIFTING PRIESTESS TRAINING FROM VIENNA TO NEW JERSEYHello Everyone.  Lauren and I are pivoting our next Priestess Training from Vienna back to Jersey City, NJ.We are doing so in response to the needs and desires of our students.  Many more students are a yes to doing it here right now than traveling to Europe for it.Please look at the course page if you are interested : https://omrupani.org/practitioner-masteryPlease reach out if you have any questions.  Lauren and I are happy to get on a zoom call with you to answer your questions.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org

POLARITY GLITCHES : 01 ARE YOU FOLLOWING YOUR MAN?  OR, ARE YOU ‘LETTING HIM LEAD’?Many couples who have switched from an egalitarian model of relating towards a more polarized form of relating are still feeling quite exhausted.  The sweet rewards of ease and greater functionality that polarity relating has promised them still seem elusive in their dynamic.  The women are still feeing over-stretch and tired.  The men are not quite feeling like they have arrived in their element in leading in their relationship.When I’m coaching couples and listening to their conflicts and complaints, I am often able to spot a handful of glitches in their dynamic.  It’s almost as if their habits and ways of doing things need to be ‘debugged’ like in a computer program.  I thought I’d make a series of videos addressing these glitches.This video deals with one of the most common shadow pieces I see — where the woman thinks or acts like she is really in favor of her man leading, but in fact she is stuck in the shadow energy of ‘letting him lead’,  or ‘allowing him to lead’.  There is a world of difference between trusting and following your man and this underhanded energy of ‘letting him lead’.There are many beliefs and energies that can live behind this phenomenon of ‘letting your man lead’ instead of whole-heartedly wanting his leadership.  Here are 2 of them:You simply don’t know how to turn off your controlling mechanism.  Behind this drive to control is a deep distrust — perhaps of everyone, but more likely a distrust towards men and the masculine.You feel following your man makes you inferior to him.  So you are holding your surrender in reserve, because you don’t want to render yourself weaker and inferior to him according to your beliefs.  Constantly checking your man, on the other hand, implies you are more competent than him and thus superior to him.— Om Rupaniwww.OmRupani.org