"My singleness feels like a punishment and why I ask guys if they’re watching porn.” w/ Alex Clark

Send us a textEp. 190 - The two of us grew up at the height of the purity culture movement. We read the classic "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" and every other Christian book on courtship. We dated intentionally, wore our purity rings religiously and saved our kisses for marriage. Do we regret wearing our purity rings? What was the impact of purity culture in our lives? How are we going to raise our kids? Let's jump in. NEW BOOK: "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity" Support the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp 189 - We’ve had other YouTube creators reacting to us since we posted our very first official vlog/YouTube video on May 25, 2016 titled “Is it okay to be Obsessed with Guys?” I think it’s time for the two of us to react to that video ourselves. We’re going to be releasing two new YouTube videos every month where we react to our earliest / most controversial YouTube videos. We’re going to be brutally honest with ourselves (and you) and share what we still agree with and what we wish we’d never said. No video is off limits. NEW BOOK: "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity" WATCH THE YOUTUBE VERSIONSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textAfter 3 miscarriages and 12 years of infertility, having a baby seemed like an impossible dream.Then, to my complete astonishment, God answered our prayer! In the summer of 2024, I gave birth to our precious daughter, Caroline Marie. Holding my daughter for the first time was a moment I will never forget. Here’s my birth story.WATCH ON YOUTUBE:https://youtu.be/8CXKWgTDTK4KRISTEN'S PREGNANCY STORY (Ep. 180): https://youtu.be/jI9B3PRfepQ?si=dvnMGKFbI-d5xNmeZACK & KRISTEN'S ADOPTION STORY (Ep. 036):https://youtu.be/8gjZ3U64bS8?si=njZEZOOt_0oFRU-aSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp 187 - Women have been told that men are the "standard of success" and we should do what they do. In the name of "equality" of course. Women have been pulled out of their homes, rejected their fertility, and are killing themselves to get accolades from their corporate bosses. What if you've been lied to about womanhood?What if you've been sold a bill of goods? In todays' conversation, we're talking to Suzanne Venker about the TRUTH of womanhood and what actually makes for a satisfying life. NEW BOOK: "Made to Be She: Reclaiming God's Plan for Fearless Femininity" Support the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp. 186 - Alex Clark has risen to fame through her daily pop culture show, Poplitics. She's a conservative Christian woman with a deep desire to get married and start a family. Sadly, that hasn't happened yet. Despite going on dates and putting herself out there. I'm taking a deep dive into her life and asking questions like:Do you think men struggle to commit? Does singleness feel like a punishment from God? How can a woman put herself out there? Should women have higher physical boundaries when dating?Let's get the scoop! Follow Alex on her new Show "Culture Apothecary" MUST READ: Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying RelationshipsFREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian GirlsSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp. 185 - You're single, but you don't want to be. You want a man. You want a leader. You want a protector. You want a LOVER. So why isn't it happening? Why hasn't God brought marriage into your life? The nagging question for many... "Is it my fault I'm still single?" In today's episode, the two of us share our own experiences and offer practical encouragement with ways you can trust God AND attract a man at the same time. MUST READ: Love Defined: Embracing God's Vision for Lasting Love and Satisfying RelationshipsFREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian GirlsSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp. 184 - Modern women have been trained by culture to obsess over their bodies and everyone else's. We compare butts, boobs, curves, height and everything else. Many of us look in the mirror and cringe at what we see reflecting back. This is not okay for God's daughters. Let's discuss what it looks like to value the body God has given you and take care of it in a balanced way. Connect with Lainey Greer MUST READ: Girl Defined: God's Radical Design for Beauty, Femininity and Identity NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian GirlsSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp. 183 - Trusting God with the size of her family was something Catherine Segars NEVER imagined she would do. She was an actress pursuing a future of fame... not a SAHM. Get ready for a wild story of a woman who put radical trust in God. You are going to laugh, cry, and be convicted in ways you weren't prepared for. Let's jump in. Connect with Catherine MUST READ: Not Part of the Plan NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian GirlsSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a text182 - Have you every read a passage in the Old Testament and thought, "What?! Does God even care about women?" If so, you're not alone. As modern Christian women it's crucial that we dig deeper to understand the context, history, and culture of what is happening in ancient Israel. As we do, we'll see that God's laws are actually FOR women. Grab Katie's Book - To Be a Woman: The Confusion Over Female Identity and How Christians Can Respond NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian GirlsSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube

Send us a textEp. 181 - Legalism seems to be a constant companion in many conservative Christian circles. The length of ones skirt can become more important than the character of ones heart. Leslie Ludy is joining us on The Girl Defined Show to cast a vision of what true biblical womanhood is all about. Connect with Leslie Ludy NEW - The Biblical Womanhood Bootcamp FREE BOOK - Battling Sexual Temptation: A Biblical Toolkit for Christian GirlsSupport the showJOIN US ON PATREON FOLLOW US:GirlDefined.comInstagram YouTube