Issy Rivault: Overcoming Challenges in Collegiate Running - Strategies for Staying Motivated, Building Community, and Embracing Discipline

What does it really take to stay disciplined when no one is watching? How do you keep going when motivation fades, your friends are out having fun, and no one’s cheering from the sidelines? In a world where young people are bombarded with distractions and the pressure of perfection on social media, how do you build a mindset strong enough to thrive — not just survive?In this episode, let’s dive deep into the heart of those questions, offering a raw and inspiring look into the life of a young woman who's not only navigating the demands of collegiate athletics but using them as a powerful training ground for leadership, self-respect, and purpose.Issy is a Division I cross country and track athlete at Nicholls State University in Louisiana. But she’s not just a runner—she’s a leader, a role model, and a force of positive energy. From competing at a high level to mentoring high school students through Young Life, Issy embodies the values of discipline, joy, and resilience. Her story is one of quiet grit, unexpected beginnings, and a refreshing commitment to finding the fun in hard things.Whether it’s wearing her “lucky socks,” leading her team through rough summer runs, or singing Ariana Grande at the start line, Issy shows that being disciplined doesn’t mean being miserable—it means choosing your priorities, day after day, with purpose and joy.Quotes:"Comparison is the thief of joy, because I truly believe that it is." - Issy Rivault"There's days that I wake up and the last thing I want to do right now is go run for an hour. But having people there in the same shoes as you, and them being like, 'okay, we got this today' - that makes all the difference." - Issy Rivault"Just knowing that there's other chances to be better. Maybe today wasn't my day, but there is a next time to do better and be a better version of myself." - Issy RivaultActionable Takeaways:Create a Consistency Ritual: Develop a morning routine that prepares you mentally and physically for your goals. This could include a specific breakfast, wake-up time, or pre-activity preparation that signals your brain it's time to perform.Practice the "Fun Injection" Technique: For any repetitive task or training regimen, intentionally introduce elements of novelty and enjoyment.Develop a "Next Opportunity" Mindset: After any setback or less-than-ideal performance, immediately reframe your thinking. Instead of dwelling on what went wrong, ask yourself: "What can I learn from this? How can I improve for the next opportunity?"Conclusion:Issy’s journey reminds us that discipline isn’t about perfection — it’s about consistency, mindset, and showing up even when it’s hard. Through early mornings, solo summer runs, and choosing rest over reckless hustle, she’s learned that true strength comes from building habits, leaning into community, and finding joy in the process.For young leaders everywhere, her story is a powerful reminder: your habits matter more than your hype, your mindset shapes your momentum, and the small, often unseen choices you make every day are what set you apart.So — what’s one area in your life where you can start showing up with more intention today?

How old were you when you first learned about sex? Who taught you—your parents, or the internet? And now that you’re the parent… do you have a plan? Or are you hoping the “right moment” will eventually come?In a world where the average age of exposure to pornography is eight years old, silence is no longer a safe option. Too many parents still believe they have more time, only to discover—painfully—they’re already years behind.In this episode, we dive headfirst into one of the most avoided, most misunderstood, and most crucial responsibilities of modern parenthood: equipping your kids with the truth about sex before the world distorts it.Joining host Matt Beaudreau is Nick Liberto, a man on the frontlines of this battle for our children’s innocence. Nick is the Executive Director of Proven Ministries, a national nonprofit helping individuals and families break free from sexual addiction. He’s also the founder of TheSexTalk.com, a revolutionary curriculum designed to empower parents—not teachers, not YouTube, not Google—to become the trusted voice in their child's life.What makes Nick different? He’s not just an expert—he’s lived it. From his own story of sexual brokenness and redemption, to leading a ministry that’s impacted hundreds of thousands, Nick combines unflinching honesty with deep empathy. He’s uniquely qualified to speak into the discomfort, confusion, and paralysis most parents feel when it comes to “the talk.”Quotes:"You are the primary educator for your young people. Period. End of story. You always will be. You always have been. This is just part of that education." - Matt Beaudreau"We don't want anything to do with any of that, but what we want is a parent who has created a safe environment where, when this happens, your child knows that they can come and talk to you." - Nick Liberto"You are giving your kids a defense by having these conversations. You're not harming them. You're giving them defensive tools." - Nick LibertoKey Takeaways:Start having conversations about body parts, privacy, and modesty with your children as early as age 4–6. Use correct terminology like “penis” and “vagina” in a calm, matter-of-fact tone to normalize healthy discussion.Instead of one big “birds and bees” talk, create a rhythm of ongoing, age-appropriate conversations. Keep it low-pressure and relaxed—no lectures or panic—just consistent check-ins.Your kids will have questions. Make sure they come to you first. Build trust by being open, honest, and nonjudgmental—even when they ask uncomfortable things.Align on values and timing. Don’t default to “Mom handles the girls” and “Dad handles the boys.” Both voices are important, regardless of gender.If you're unsure what to say or when, use tools like the 14-video curriculum from TheSexTalk.com. It’s designed to equip parents with the knowledge and confidence to lead these conversations at home.Conclusion:You don’t need to be a therapist, a pastor, or a “cool parent” to get this right—you just need to be present, proactive, and willing to have the uncomfortable conversations before the world does it for you.Nick Liberto reminds us that when parents step into their role as the primary educators of their children’s values, especially around sex and identity, we don’t just protect innocence—we build trust, confidence, and lifelong connection.This isn’t about fear. It’s about equipping the next generation with truth, clarity, and resilience—and that starts with you.Because if your child doesn’t hear it from you, they will hear it from someone else. And they deserve better than that.Call to Action:Start equipping yourself today with The Sex Talk curriculum for parents—built by Nick and his team to guide you step-by-step through this essential parenting mission.🎁 Apogee families get 25% off when you use the custom link: 👉 https://www.thesextalk.com/pages/apogeestrong?ref=533914

Are we crushing our boys with an outdated education system?Why do so many young men feel bored, disengaged, and misunderstood in school? What if the system isn’t broken—but just not built for them in the first place?In this episode, we dive deep into a powerful and necessary conversation about the struggles boys face in modern education—and what one man is doing to change that. If you’ve ever felt like your son was being shaped to fit a mold that just doesn’t work for him, this one’s for you.Meet Ben Kuiken, a former traditional teacher who asked a simple, bold question: What if we stopped trying to fix boys, and instead fixed the system?From humble beginnings as a fifth-grade teacher to co-founding Anvil Academy, Ben has become a trailblazer in creating hands-on, purpose-driven education specifically designed for boys. With a deep belief in identity, risk, adventure, and real-world learning, Ben is on a mission to forge men—not just students.Quotes:"If a boy knows who they are, if they can answer why they matter, and they can say, here's the audience that I'm living for, this is who gets to write off on my report card - that prepares them for whatever season life throws their way." - Ben Kuiken"We're preparing these kids for a world that isn't even established yet. I don't need to prepare them for a system or something. I need to be able to prepare them for anything." - Ben Kuiken"I believe that I am an adopted son of the King of the universe, and that gives me all the value that I need - that I am unconditionally loved, that I am fully seen, all of my flaws internally and externally." - Ben KuikenKey Takeaways:Reimagine Education at Home: If you're a parent or educator, ask yourself: Is my child being shaped by a system that supports who they are—or suppresses it? Begin by creating space for hands-on learning, curiosity, and risk-taking in your home or classroom.Replace Digital Risk with Real-World Adventure: Boys naturally seek risk, challenge, and consequence. Channel that energy into real-life experiences—like sports, building projects, outdoor adventures, or creative challenges—that have tangible rewards and consequences.Challenge the “This Is How It’s Always Been Done” Mentality: Whether in parenting, teaching, or leadership, ask: Is this method truly working—or just familiar? Be brave enough to try new approaches, even if it means pushback.Start Small, Start Now: Inspired to make a change? Don’t wait for a perfect plan or a crowd of followers. Start with one student, one lesson, one moment of connection. Excellence at a small scale leads to meaningful impact.Conclusion:This conversation with Ben Kuiken reminds us that the future of young men isn’t written by grades, test scores, or outdated systems—it’s forged through identity, purpose, and real-world challenge.Whether you’re a parent, educator, or mentor, the question now is: Are you helping the boys in your life become men—or just helping them behave?Ben’s journey shows us what’s possible when we stop trying to force boys to fit the mold—and instead, build a world that fits their God-given design. The path won’t be easy. It’s not meant to be. But it’s worth it.So take the first step. Be curious. Be bold. And remember—great men aren’t born. They’re forged.

Are you frustrated with a world that rewards credentials over competence? Tired of watching brilliant young minds stuck in systems that stifle creativity, risk-taking, and real-world skills?Ask yourself:What if everything you've been taught about success, education, and impact is wrong?Why do some of the most innovative thinkers remain unrecognized by the very systems they aim to fix?And what happens when someone refuses to play by the rules — and builds their own?Meet Casey Putsch — race car driver, aerospace innovator, YouTuber, and the mastermind behind Genius Garage, a nonprofit reshaping how young people are mentored into greatness. He's not just a "jack of all trades" — he's a Renaissance man who dares to act when most are content to complain.Raised by Depression-era values and military discipline, Casey lives by action and authenticity. From building a Batmobile powered by a helicopter engine to crafting a full-scale, flight-capable pterosaur replica, Casey lives at the intersection of engineering, art, and leadership. But his real passion? Equipping the next generation to do more than just “get a job” — he teaches them to build a legacy.He’s been in the trenches for over a decade — rejecting academic elitism, fighting back against systems rigged against bold thinkers, and creating opportunities where none existed. Casey is the voice for those who know they’re capable of more — and need someone to show them what’s possible.Whether you're a parent, educator, leader, or young builder of the future — this conversation will shake your assumptions and ignite your purpose.👉 Tune in. Take notes. Get ready to question everything.Quotes:"If you want young people to care about anything, it has to matter to their lives when they're young." - Casey Putsch"If there's something that I think needs to be changed, after observing it, and nothing's being done, well, I'll step up and be the guy to change it or make it if need be." - Casey Putsch"You don't actually have to ask permission for it. You can decide to build the life that you want to build." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Ask Better Questions: Instead of “What do you want to be when you grow up?” ask, “What problems do you want to solve right now?”Show Your Work, Not Just Degrees: Focus on real-world projects and results — not just credentials.Take Responsibility: If something bothers you, do something about it. Start small, but start.Inspire Young People Through Action: Share your passions in a way they can experience — not just listen to.Find a Way Around the System: If the system won’t change, build something better beside it.Conclusion:Casey Putsch reminds us that we don’t have to wait for permission to lead, build, or create. Real change doesn’t come from following broken systems — it comes from stepping up, thinking differently, and taking action where others stay silent.Whether you're raising kids, mentoring the next generation, or building something of your own — the time to act is now.You don’t need to be an expert. You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to care enough to do something.So — what’s one step you’ll take today?

What happens when doing the right thing costs you everything? Meet the man who chose integrity over compliance—and lived to teach others how to do the same.Stephen Davis is a battle-tested leader who's worn multiple hats:U.S. Army combat medic and Special Forces candidateDecorated fire battalion chief with 15+ years of serviceAuthor of Alone in the Fire, exposing government corruptionFounder of the Raising Alphas Project, mentoring next-gen leadersIn 2021, as an Orange County Fire Department battalion chief, Davis was ordered to punish firefighters resisting COVID mandates. When he discovered the disciplinary lists included exempt personnel—close friends and colleagues—he refused. The result? Termination. But his fight was just beginning.Quotes:"Your most passionate performers are your strongest leaders when they're not heard, when they're not listened to, when their voice isn't given any level of respect." - Stephen Davis"Isn't the downhill part the best part of the ride? Anytime you go on a roller coaster, isn't that the time we're all screaming with fun?" - Stephen Davis"What I can control is the family that I'm raising. What I can do my best to do is build these tribes." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Audit Your IntegrityAsk yourself: "Where have I compromised my values to avoid conflict or protect my position?"Action: Write down one principle you’re unwilling to bend on—no matter the cost.Challenge Authority (Wisely)Lesson: Blind compliance enables corruption. Leaders question unjust orders.Action: The next time you’re pressured to enforce something questionable, ask: "Is this lawful, ethical, and morally right?" If not, push back.Build Financial & Emotional ResilienceLesson: Davis survived losing his career because he had other skills and income streams.Action: Start a side hustle, learn a trade, or save 6 months’ expenses. Freedom requires options.Conclusion:Stephen Davis’ story isn’t just about losing a job—it’s about what happens when one person refuses to kneel. His stand cost him his career, but it revealed a timeless truth: real leadership isn’t about authority—it’s about moral defiance.Final Thought: The systems around us want compliance. They fear conviction. So ask yourself:What hill am I willing to die on?What legacy will my choices leave?If I don’t stand now, when will I?Davis proved that one voice can ignite many. The question is—will yours be next?Subscribe for more unfiltered leadership insights. ChiefStephenDavis.com 

What if the very thing you’re most passionate about is the one thing everyone tells you to walk away from?Have you ever felt the pressure to “have it all figured out” by 18—or even 28? Or questioned whether it’s too late to chase that dream burning quietly inside you?In this episode, we dive deep into those very questions with recording artist and creative powerhouse Cassy London. From walking away from a traditional journalism path to pursuing music full-time without any family connections in the industry, Cassy's story is raw, real, and incredibly inspiring. She opens up about the lonely moments, the doubts, the pushback—and what it truly means to choose yourself, even when it’s terrifying. With a voice that moves hearts and lyrics rooted in purpose, Cassy doesn’t just create music—she creates movements. A fierce advocate for authenticity and artistic integrity, Cassy shares how her faith, her upbringing, and her inner compass helped her navigate rejection, rebranding, and the emotional rollercoaster of building a career in one of the toughest industries in the world.Whether you're 13 or 53, standing at the crossroads of comfort and calling—this conversation will challenge you, ground you, and remind you that growth is messy, but worth it.This one’s not just for the aspiring musicians—it’s for anyone ready to embrace the unknown with courage and confidence.Quotes:"Confidence truly comes from within. There's no item, there's no look, there's no anything tangible that can make you feel confident, it truly comes from within, and that takes hard work to create." - Cassy London"If you're not growing, what the heck are you doing? Growth should be celebrated." - Cassy London"Trust the process. Truly, truly trust the process and remember that no bad day, bad situation, it's temporary. Things will pass." - Cassy LondonKey Takeaways:Re-evaluate Your Current Path: Ask yourself: Is what I’m doing now aligned with who I truly am or what I genuinely love? Assignment: Journal for 10 minutes about what you would pursue if fear, judgment, or expectations weren’t in the way.Audit Your Inner Circle: Cassy emphasized the power of having people around who truly know and support you. Assignment: List your top 5 closest relationships. Do they help you grow, challenge you lovingly, or hold you back?Take a Creative Risk This Week: Whether it’s writing, posting something personal, or pursuing a passion project, take one bold action that stretches your creative comfort zone. Task: Share a small piece of your creative work with someone you trust or on social media, even if it scares you.Redefine Confidence as Inner Work, Not Outer Image: Remember, confidence isn’t something you wear—it’s something you build. Reflection Prompt: What’s one area where you’ve been waiting to “look ready” before acting? How can you start anyway, from the inside out?Celebrate Your Growth and Give Yourself Permission to Evolve: Cassy’s journey reminds us: you’re allowed to outgrow your past identity. Assignment: Write down 3 ways you’ve changed over the past year—and give yourself credit for the transformation.Conclusion:Cassy London’s story is a powerful reminder that the path to purpose isn’t always clear—but it’s always worth pursuing. Whether you’re discovering who you are or rediscovering what you love, this episode encourages you to choose courage over comfort, authenticity over approval, and growth over fear.

What happens when a culture forgets its roots? Are we raising kids who understand sacrifice, freedom, and the values that built a nation? Or are we letting those truths slip away with every swipe and scroll?In this powerful and passionate episode, Jill Simonian, Director of Outreach for PragerU Kids, joins Matt Beaudreau to tackle some of the most urgent challenges in education, parenting, and American identity. With a background in broadcasting and a heart for kids, Jill brings a unique fire to her mission: reviving tradition, truth, and patriotism through family-centered education.Jill isn’t just building content—she’s building a movement. From launching an interactive Founders Museum at the White House to crafting the Independence Day Ceremony book that blends history with heartfelt ritual, she’s redefining how families connect to America’s legacy.But it’s not just about the stars and stripes. Jill gets raw about raising teenagers in a hyper-digital world, shares her household’s bold boundaries on tech, and unpacks why standards—like school uniforms and reading comprehension—aren’t “old-fashioned,” they’re essential.Quotes:"A nation without memory is a nation at risk. If we don't teach our children what was sacrificed, what the Declaration of Independence actually meant, then how are they going to know how important it is to preserve it and honor it?" - Jill Simonian"Time is our greatest resource. The United States flag is perhaps the most inclusive one in the world, because it represents every single ethnicity, every single heritage, every single sexual orientation." - Jill Simonian"If you stand for something, you're going to have somebody who opposes you." - Matt BeaudreauKey Takeaways:Tradition matters: Learn how the Independence Day Ceremony revives patriotism in the home with a powerful blend of symbolism and storytelling.Why standards save kids: From uniforms to screen time, discover how enforcing structure builds confidence and self-respect.Reading is a battleground: Jill explains why literacy—not tablets—is the real tool for future success.Screens vs. sanity: Hear her strategy for slowly introducing tech to teens without losing connection—or your mind.Pushback and purpose: Find out how Jill handles criticism about being “non-inclusive” with grace, strength, and an unshakable belief in unifying principles.Conclusion:As we close this episode, one thing is clear: Jill Simonian isn’t just teaching history—she’s helping families reconnect with what matters. In a divided world, she reminds us that tradition, standards, and love for country still hold us together.Whether you're a parent, educator, or mentor, this is your reminder: you don’t have to do everything—but you do have to do something. Even small traditions can leave a lasting legacy.Call to Action:Want to bring more meaning into your family’s traditions?📘 Check out PragerU’s Independence Day Ceremony – a short, family-friendly program that helps kids understand why we celebrate July 4th: 👉 prageru.com/book/the-independence-day-ceremony📚 Looking for a great book to get your kids reading? Grab "The Tip Off" – a new middle-grade novel about grit, teamwork, and standing strong: 👉 prageru.com/book/the-tip-off-the-chronicles-of-jonathan-spencer-book-1For more free videos, books, and resources for parents and teachers, visit 👉 pragerukids.com

What if everything you’ve worked for—your comfort, your stability, your certainty—was gone tomorrow?Would you be ready?Would your mindset be strong enough to adapt?Would you know how to rebuild… or would you break?In this powerful episode, we dive deep with Geoff Hopf—a former Marine, elite bodyguard, and bestselling author of The End series, a post-apocalyptic saga grounded in gritty realism. But Geoff isn’t just a storyteller. He’s lived through high-stakes missions, experienced loss, reinvented himself at 41, and built multiple companies by embracing failure, discipline, and compound effort.Geoff’s passion for preparedness, personal growth, and leadership is contagious. He’s not here to sell fear—he’s here to ignite responsibility. Whether you’re struggling to find your path, seeking mental toughness, or wondering how to thrive in a world changing faster than ever, Geoff offers hard-earned wisdom and actionable insight.Tune in as we explore:The principle of “compound labor” and how it transformed Geoff’s lifeWhat happens when comfort kills characterHow to reframe failure into fuelWhy trades and mindset might save your future in an AI-dominated worldAnd how one quote—“Hard times create strong men…”—sparked a cultural firestormThis episode isn’t just a conversation. It’s a challenge.Are you becoming the strong man this world will soon demand?Quotes:"Comfort kills, and we only become stronger when we're challenged a little bit when it's put under adversity." - Geoff Hopf"Money is an energy that flows directly from providing value. If you provide value to people, then sales and success are downstream of that." - Geoff Hopf"If you're alive, you're going to struggle on something all the time. So let's not put struggling on a pedestal." - Matt BeaudreauTakeaways:Apply the Principle of “Compound Labor” Choose one goal—fitness, writing, business—and commit to small, consistent daily action. Track your progress weekly to see how effort compounds over time.Reframe Failure as Tuition When something goes wrong, ask yourself: “What lesson did I just pay for?” Write it down, label it “investment,” and decide how you’ll respond differently next time.Audit Your Emotional State During Challenges The next time you feel overwhelmed or angry, pause and ask: “Am I choosing this emotion, or is it choosing me?” Then choose calm, curiosity, or excitement as your new lens.Prepare for Disruption, Not Just Survival Whether it's AI, economic collapse, or personal crisis—get proactive. Pick one “pillar” to strengthen this week: physical fitness, a new skill, your mindset, or basic emergency preparedness (like storing food or learning self-reliance).Find a Mentor, Be a Mentor Geoff meets with an 87-year-old billionaire for life and business advice. Who are you learning from? And who could you be helping? Seek out both relationships this month.Conclusion:If there’s one thing I hope you take away, it’s this: you don’t need to have it all figured out right now. You just need to be willing to show up every day, take small steps, and lean into the hard stuff—because that’s where growth lives.Geoff reminded us that failure isn’t the end; it’s part of the process. And maybe the most important question we can ask ourselves isn’t “What do I do next?” but “Am I having fun? Am I aligned? Am I building something that matters?”Whether you’re 18 or 58, it’s never too late to reinvent yourself, learn something new, or become the kind of person this world needs more of—strong, grounded, and awake.Thanks for listening. If this episode hit home for you, share it with a friend, leave a review, and keep showing up. We’re all in this together.Until next time—stay sharp, stay humble, and stay ready.

What if telling the truth cost you your job, your reputation—or even your family’s safety?In this episode, Matt Beaudreau sits down with Gareth Icke, musician, father, and outspoken voice in the fight for free speech and sovereignty.Gareth shares what it was like growing up in the shadow of public scrutiny, the cost of speaking out in today’s climate, and why building parallel systems—schools, media, communities—is no longer just an option, but a necessity.They explore:• The rise of censorship and the illusion of free speech• Raising strong, free-thinking kids in a conformist culture• Why peaceful noncompliance is the most powerful resistance• How Gareth stays grounded in joy, creativity, and purposeIf you’re tired of fear-based narratives and ready to build something better—this episode is for you.Quotes:"As long as what you do doesn't negatively impact anyone else, you should be free to live your life how you desire.” - Gareth Icke"Be the change you want to see in the world. Start with you. You make your family life better, other people around you lives better." - Gareth Icke"Our job, especially as fathers, is to do what we can to build, yes, build for society, so that we're not just complaining without a solution, but to build that ideal life for our home too." - Matt Beaudreau Key Takeaways:Question Your Defaults: Ask yourself, “What do I believe simply because I’ve heard it repeated?” Challenge one “everyone knows that” idea this week by researching its origin or alternative views.Protect What Matters Most: Set boundaries around your family’s digital presence. Consider removing or limiting recent photos of your kids online—and ask yourself, “Who really needs to see this?”Practice Peaceful Noncompliance: Identify one area in your life where you’re following rules that don’t align with your values. Explore a respectful way to say “no” and reclaim your autonomy.Build What You Wish Existed: Instead of just criticizing broken systems (school, media, governance), brainstorm one tangible way you could contribute to a “parallel society”—even if it’s as small as starting a book club or supporting a local homeschool co-op.Choose Integrity Over Approval: Reflect on where you're holding back out of fear of what others might think. What’s one truth you need to speak—even if it’s uncomfortable?Conclusion:In a world increasingly shaped by fear, conformity, and digital control, Gareth Icke reminds us that courage starts at home—and change begins with personal responsibility. Whether it’s protecting our families, questioning the narratives we’re fed, or simply choosing to live with integrity, each of us has a role to play in building something better.This episode isn’t just a call to awareness—it’s a call to action. Speak your truth. Protect your peace. And most importantly, be the example your kids—and the world—need right now.

Feeling stuck? Maybe you’ve been grinding but can’t seem to break through. You want to lead, to build, to create value—but something’s missing.Is it confidence? A clear path? A belief that you’re even capable?Or maybe you’re haunted by questions like: Why should anyone follow me?Am I really cut out for this? How do I lead when I feel like an imposter?Too many aspiring leaders and entrepreneurs feel trapped—either by a lack of direction or the weight of their own self-doubt. But what if the very thing you fear—struggle—is actually the key to building unstoppable self-esteem and long-term success?Meet Lee Benson—a man who went from being kicked out of his home in high school to selling one of his companies for nine figures. Lee didn’t just build wealth—he built multi-generational value by embracing struggle, focusing on value creation, and turning pain into purpose.Lee’s not your typical business guru.He’s a rock musician, ultra-marathoner, CEO of eight companies, and the passionate mind behind Dinner Table, a movement to raise value-creating families and future leaders.In this episode, Lee shares:· Why most people misunderstand “imposter syndrome”· How emotional energy is the rarest and most powerful resource you have· The exact mindset that turns struggle into confidence—and confidence into legacy· Why you should stop waiting to feel ready—and start where you areThis episode is your wake-up call. If you’re tired of spinning your wheels and ready to shift from fear to fulfillment, you need to hear this.Listen now—because leadership isn’t something you’re given. It’s something you create.Quotes:• "All the opportunity in the world is in the struggle. The harder it gets, the better it is." - Lee Benson• "Everybody does what's in their best self-interest for either this life and or the next. We're either win-win, or we're win-lose." - Lee Benson• "The purpose of the human experience is to elevate human consciousness - simply said, figure stuff out." - Lee BensonKey Takeaways:· Reframe Struggle as a Tool: Start viewing struggle as the necessary path to building confidence and self-esteem. Ask yourself, “What capability is this challenge helping me develop?”· Adopt the Value Creation Lens: Before making your next move—whether in business, relationships, or personal growth—ask: “Am I truly creating value, or am I just staying busy?”· Audit Your Emotional Energy: Rate your emotional energy on a scale of 1–10 each day. Then identify what boosts it and what drains it. Begin designing your life around protecting and amplifying that energy.· Design a Personal Business Model: Whether you’re employed or self-employed, write down how you create value, how you’re rewarded for it, and how you can scale it. This turns abstract goals into actionable steps.· Test, Tweak, Repeat: Treat life and business decisions like experiments. Don’t fear mistakes—instead, document your assumptions, test them quickly and cheaply, and use failures as feedback.Conclusion:This conversation with Lee Benson is a powerful reminder that you don’t need permission to start—you just need the willingness to struggle, learn, and keep showing up. Success doesn’t come from avoiding hard things—it comes from leaning into them with purpose. Whether you're a young man figuring out your path or a seasoned entrepreneur feeling stuck, this episode challenges you to rethink what’s possible when you focus on creating real value—in your work, your relationships, and your life.