Stop Playing The Saviour: Why Truthful Words Empower Growth

Intuition, healing and self growth without shortcuts. Stop quick fixes and build real change with the BEMA™ Methodology. Quick fixes soothe you, but they don’t free you. In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Huneidi Palmer reveals why tools and techniques alone won’t change your life. Discover how shifting perspective, becoming a neutral observer, and using The Four Dimensions of Change – the BEMA™ Methodology transforms struggle into clarity. Learn how to step back as a neutral observer, see the repeating patterns, and apply Sahar’s principle of triangulation to find your true “coordinates.” Learn how the BEMA™ Methodology (Body, Emotions, Mind, Accountability) provides the framework that turns temporary relief into real growth. This episode offers practical insight, client stories, and a simple daily rhythm that helps you move beyond symptom management and into deeper self-awareness. Rewrite Your Story. Reclaim your power. Thanks for listening! Remember to follow Unbox The Podcast for more inspiring content every Tuesday. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights as soon as they drop. Please take a moment to review the podcast — your support keeps indie shows like this going and helps more listeners find us: → Follow via Apple Podcasts→ Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana→ Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup  For comments & suggestions email [email protected]

Shadow work isn’t just theory—it’s the unconscious story that quietly limits your healing, growth, and self-awareness. In this episode, Sahar Huneidi Palmer unpacks how to spot your shadow, release old stories, and reclaim your power through the BEMA™ Methodology. Is your shadow stealing your power? In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Huneidi Palmer reveals how rejected parts of yourself silently control your story. Learn how the shadow plays out in emotions and beliefs and how facing it with kindness helps you reclaim your true power. The shadow isn’t evil — it’s the parts of yourself you judged, rejected, or left in the dark. These hidden aspects show up in your body, emotions, and beliefs, making old stories feel real and convincing. Unless you face the shadow, you keep replaying the same loop and silently giving away your power. In this episode, Sahar Huneidi Palmer shares how the shadow forms, why it feels so real, and what happens when you acknowledge it with kindness. Drawing on her personal story, client examples, and insights from her new book The Zen Oracle (co-authored with Khaled Bazzi), Sahar explains how awareness plus new action frees you from the shadow’s grip. You’ll discover: How emotions enforce the old belief system. Why pain tempts you to distract or self-diagnose instead of healing. The simple shift that loosens the shadow immediately. Why facing the light makes the shadow fall behind you. Rewrite your story. Reclaim your power. Meet Your Body Tools for Life™: https://www.saharhuneidi.com/product/meet-your-body/ Social Media: https://linktr.ee/UnboxWithSahar Newsletter signup: https://www.saharhuneidi.com/#signup  Thanks for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more inspiring content each week. Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup  → Online Growth

How do you listen to your inner voice when old stories shift, and familiar paradigms dissolve? In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Palmer reveals why intuition is the new intelligence, how to recognise its signals, and the practical signs that help you find and trust your inner voice. When the familiar falls away, what guides you forward? Sahar reveals why intuition is the new intelligence that anchors you to your real self, how to recognise its signals, and the practical signs that help you find and trust your inner voice. Intuitive intelligence is more than a feeling. It anchors you so that you’re never lost! Listen to how you can activate your intuition using The Four Dimensions of Change, Sahar’s signature BEMA™ Methodology. You’ll hear a personal story from the Kuwait invasion, a client example of rediscovering identity without labels, and five everyday signs that show when intuition is truly guiding you. Learning how to listen to your inner voice will help you make clearer decisions, feel grounded in your values, and step into the real you. Thanks for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more inspiring content each week. Free Tools: https://www.saharhuneidi.com/product-category/online-growth-with-sahar-palmer/ Social Media: https://linktr.ee/UnboxWithSahar Psychic Power Series: Demystifying your psychic senses. Learn how to tune in, trust, and develop your intuitive abilities with Sahar’s guidance. Checkout Sahar's published bestseller by the same title, and on Audible: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/15Wv9JzXxcDXDKuSyP8cpN Rewrite Your Story. Reclaim your power. Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup  → Online Growth

When everything seems to fall apart at once — machines failing, friendships fading, even pets unwell — it may not be random. Sahar Huneidi Palmer reveals how these disruptions are signs of a paradigm shift: a sideways step into accelerated growth and a new way of living. Have you ever felt like life unravels all at once. It’s tempting to think, “I must be cursed.” But what if these events are not random at all? In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Huneidi Palmer, intuitive mentor and holistic therapist, shares how these subtle disruptions are often signs of a paradigm shift: a sideways step into accelerated growth and a completely new way of being. Drawing on her work with over 16,000 clients and her own powerful story of decluttering, breakdowns, and unexpected losses, Sahar explains how transformation begins with quiet signals before life gets louder. Paradigm shifts can feel unsettling, even lonely, but they are not punishment. They are life’s way of clearing the old so you can step sideways into your next chapter. Rewrite your story. Reclaim your power. Thanks for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe or leave a review. It helps this indie to keep bringing you more episodes each week. www.saharhuneidi.com  Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup  → Online Growth

To Kenyo, with love and gratitude. Loss changes us. In this heartfelt episode, Sahar Huneidi Palmer shares her personal journey through the deaths of loved ones and her beloved cat Kenyo, exploring grief, love, and the meaning we find in living each day fully. Sahar shares the story of losing my father, brother, husband, mother, and most recently, her cat Kenyo. Through each loss, Sahar learnt that grief is not just about endings — it’s about love, connection, and the meaning we choose to give our days. We explore why the death of a pet can trigger old grief, how cultural expectations shape the way we mourn, and why letting go can be the most loving act of all. Sahar also shares a vision that shifted her perspective on death, teaching her that our role is to honour the journey of those we love, in life and in death. Message form Sahar: There are over a thousand videos and free webinars on my YouTube channel, as well as free self-help tools, eBooks, and online courses. You can find them on my Online Growth page in my shop at saharhuneidi.com. And of course, Unbox The Podcast. I started podcasting in 2005 and have recently created playlists I’m proud of on Spotify. You will honour me if you share them. Thanks for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe for more inspiring content each week. Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup → Online Growth

Healing is trending—but is it helping? In this episode, Sahar Huneidi Palmer explores why self-growth can become just another performance, and how to stop following trends and start rewriting your real story. Retreats, workshops, full moon circles. But what happens when your self-growth journey starts to feel like another identity to live up to? In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Huneidi Palmer asks: Are you healing—or just following the crowd? She unpacks the pressure created by the booming wellness industry, the rise of luxury holistic centres, and why herd-style spirituality can actually distract you from true transformation. You’ll also hear a real client story: a woman who believed she was more spiritual than her husband because she attended regular retreats—until She was reminded that real growth expresses itself in many forms, not just the visible ones. With her BEMA™ Methodology (Body, Emotions, Mind, Accountability), Sahar guides you back to a grounded, honest connection with your inner truth. If you’re tired of chasing healing, this episode is your permission to slow down, get real, and reclaim your power. Thanks for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more inspiring content each week. Download BEMA Alignment WIP List™: https://www.saharhuneidi.com/product/bema-alignment-wip-list/ Explore more: https://linktr.ee/UnboxWithSahar Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup → Online Growth

We don’t mean to get in the way—but often, our “help” holds others back. This week, Sahar explores how inherited family roles and loving intentions can block growth, erode self-esteem, and delay individuation. It’s time to update the story and let others grow. Do you find yourself trying to protect or guide your younger loved ones—only to end up arguing, resented, or feeling helpless? I’m asking a hard question: are we supporting growth—or replaying old patterns we inherited? As part of this year’s theme The Power of Your Story, we explore how family roles, cultural expectations, and loving intentions can unintentionally rob the younger generation of the chance to grow. Whether it’s our children, nieces, nephews, or students, many of us unconsciously play the rescuer, the fixer, or the “one who knows”—because that’s what we were taught love looks like. But when we impose our ways, what we’re really saying is: “You’re not capable.” And that erodes confidence before it can even grow.  I’ll share a real story about my niece—how I learned to snap out of the mentor-on-demand role, after she casually said “Write a book!” (And I did!). We’ll explore how BEMA™ helps us pause, reassess, and shift—especially when we’re emotionally invested. Because the more emotionally entangled we are, the harder it is to stay objective. And without objectivity, we react instead of respond. This episode will help you: recognise the stories you’ve inherited around helping and control stop mistaking love for interference allow others to find their way—even if it’s different from yours learn how flexibility is strength, not passivity Generations evolve for a reason. We are not raising replicas. They are here for a different cycle. Supporting their growth means allowing their difference. It’s not about walking away. It’s about walking beside and to subtly guide. That’s how we evolve. Thanks for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for more inspiring content each week. Rewrite your story. Reclaim your power. Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup → Online Growth  

Ever wonder if you’re actually growing or just stuck in a loop? In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, Sahar Huneidi Palmer explains how to spot the subtle signs of real growth and why mastering the art of noticing is the next step in your journey. It’s one of the most common questions I hear from my listeners, clients, and even fellow healers. You start your journey, do the work, but then you hit a wall—or you feel like you’re going in circles. In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, I’m talking about the subtle signs of real growth. Growth isn’t always dramatic. Sometimes, it’s quiet. It’s in the small shifts you barely notice—unless you train yourself to catch them. If you’ve ever asked yourself, "Have I actually made progress?” "Why do I still get triggered sometimes?” "What’s missing from my growth?” This episode is for you. We’ll explore how to move from the apprentice phase—where you become aware of your patterns—into the practitioner phase, where you actually apply what you’ve learned in real time. That’s where transformation happens. Key topics in this episode: Why your mind is the creator, and your life is the result How to train your awareness to notice the small wins The truth about consistency vs. perfection Why growth feels uncomfortable when you’re evolving What it really means to move into Mastery If you’re new to Unbox The Podcast, check out the Spotify playlists I’ve created for you. You’ll find curated episodes on intuition, emotional healing, and living authentically. Rewrite your story. Reclaim your power. Thanks for listening! Search for Unbox The Podcast on your favourite platform and remember to subscribe for more inspiring content each week. Social Media: https://linktr.ee/UnboxWithSahar Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup → Online Growth

Why do we come down hardest on ourselves right before a breakthrough? In this episode, Sahar Huneidi Palmer unpacks the resentment loop—how guilt and perfectionism keep you stuck—and how to stop punishing yourself so you can finally move forward. This is about the moment when you’re finally about to change—and instead, you criticise yourself for not changing sooner. It’s a pattern I see in my life mentoring work all the time. In Season 25, Episode 30: Resentment: The Loop That Keeps You Small – Stop Punishing Yourself, we’ll cover: Why growth triggers guilt How to break the cycle of needing permission Why compassion—not self-criticism—is what actually moves you forward Practical steps using the BEMA™ Methodology to shift your story If you’re stuck in self-blame, this episode will help you get unstuck—without waiting for the perfect moment to begin. Listen now and don’t forget to subscribe. Subscribing helps keep new episodes coming to you. Work with me: Book a Discovery Session and let’s unbox your next chapter together. Visit www.saharhuneidi.com to complete your assessment form. I’ll help you find the mentoring path that fits where you are now. 🔗 Social Media: https://linktr.ee/UnboxWithSahar Thanks for listening!  Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup → Online Growth

When you hold back your truth to protect others, are you helping them or avoiding your truth? Discover why sustaining unhealthy situations isn’t noble and how truthful words empower growth. Have you ever thought, “But I’m doing it for a noble cause – I don’t want to hurt them by leaving or by following my heart”? In this episode of Unbox The Podcast, I, Sahar Huneidi Palmer, guide you to uncover how playing the saviour keeps you and others stuck. We explore why assuming responsibility for others’ journeys disempowers them, how to communicate from the heart without guilt or drama, and how your BEMA™ Methodology helps you respond in alignment with your Real You. Is your unconscious deceiving you by keeping you stuck under the mask of nobility? Find out how to reclaim your truth today. Rewrite Your Story. Reclaim your power. Explore my online growth sessions and courses to continue your journey: https://www.saharhuneidi.com/product-category/online-growth-with-sahar-palmer/ Thanks for listening! Remember to subscribe to UNBOX TYHE PODCAST for more inspiring content each week. Your vote really counts! Follow Unbox The Podcast on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you don’t miss the next episode. Subscribers get the newest tools and insights the moment they drop: → Follow via Apple Podcasts → Subscribe on YouTube → Follow via Spotify → Follow on Gaana → Find us on Pod Link → Latest Unbox Blog Post  → Newsletter Signup → Online Growth