Non-Toxic Masculinity

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Read about the woman's story at FBC Beggs here: https://tinyurl.com/5x7w6ddj In this episode I spoke with repeat guest Cait West, a woman whose marriage and church (FBC Beggs in Beggs, Oklahoma, led by pastor Chris Gore) was taken over by the patriarchy, and Zach Wagner (author of "Non-Toxic Masculinity") about the Patriarchy. Patriarchy is not only toxic for the women subjugated under it, it's an impossible system for the men to exercise. It's a reaction to the perceived feminization of the church, of culture, and of society. It's an ideology wherein it's not enough to *be* a man, you must *do* manly things to prove it. And therein lies the problem, an identity wrapped up in performance rather than the gospel. Buy Cait's book here: https://tinyurl.com/27nvt34h Buy Zach's book here: https://tinyurl.com/6pt73vsb   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

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Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   We are publishing one episode every day from May 5 until the beginning of Season 2... buckle up.   Carlotta's Website: https://carlotaallen.carrd.co/ Wartburg Watch's article on Carlotta:  https://thewartburgwatch.com/2025/04/18/carlota-allen-gets-erased-from-new-covenant-church-in-joliet-illinois-women-think-carefully-before-joining-an-opc-church/ Letter Citing Carlotta's "Sins":  https://thewartburgwatch.com/tww2/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/First-certified-letter-from-session-June-2023-citing-me-for-sins-3.pdf The Allens' Lawyer:  https://thewartburgwatch.com/tww2/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Attorney-Letter-to-New-Covenant-Church-August-2023.pdf Carlotta's Response to NCCC:  https://thewartburgwatch.com/tww2/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/Carlota-Allen-Response-from-Church-to-Lawyer-September-2023-2.pdf   Donate to Outreach: https://donorbox.org/outreach-launch Join our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/SonsofPatriarchy

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