Maybe Being Slightly Unsupervised Is Just Acting 17 Again

Send us Fan MailDivorce doesn’t just change a marriage. It can change your friendships too.When a marriage ends, friends may choose sides, couple friendships can get awkward, some people disappear—and someone you never expected may become the person who sits beside you through the hardest part.Jennifer and Jackie, who have both experienced divorce, talk honestly about what divorce reveals about female friendship and friendship support: losing friends inside a marriage, reconnecting afterward, maintaining your own identity, and why your girlfriends should matter even when your marriage is wonderful.  Pasted text  Pasted textThey also tackle a reality many women face later in life: suddenly having weekends alone, married friends who aren’t available, and having to figure out how to find friends and make friends as an adult after your life changes.  Pasted textBecause sometimes losing one relationship shows you exactly which relationships you never want to lose.And maybe the bigger lesson is this: don’t wait until your life falls apart to find out who your people are. Show up for them now.  Pasted text🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised and share this episode with the best friend you’d want beside you when life gets messy.💗 Watch real friendship stories on the Bestiemony® YouTube channel.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailHow to Help Two Friends Reconnect: The Friendship Bridge Can you help two friends reconnect—or should you stay out of it?In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie talk about becoming a “friendship bridge” when two people who once loved each other have stopped speaking. Sometimes the friendship isn't really over. Pride, hurt feelings, misunderstandings, life circumstances, or simply too much time can leave both women waiting for the other to make the first move.Jennifer and Jackie share real stories of helping friends find their way back, what worked, what definitely didn't, and the signs that two people may still miss each other. They also talk about when to stay out of it, why surprise reunions are usually a terrible idea, and one rule worth remembering: open the door, then get out of the doorway.Because sometimes a best friendship doesn't need someone to fix it. It just needs someone to remind both people that the door may still be open.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailJennifer and Jackie have been best friends since junior high, which means they share stories, secrets, and a backstory few others know. In this episode, they reflect on how that history shapes their friendship support: sometimes it brings deeper understanding, sometimes a protective reaction, and sometimes a knowing look across the room. They talk about the younger selves they remember, the memories each friend holds for the other, and how a best friendship keeps making room for who you’re becoming. Plus, a playful round of bestie questions and a reminder to tell your person they matter.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when five girls grow up with brothers but no sisters? Sometimes, your best friends become the sisters you get to choose.Jennifer and Jackie look back at their lifelong female friendship and wonder whether growing up with brothers helped shape the way they learned to be friends — thicker skin, sharp humor, independence, directness, and the ability to fight with someone and still love them afterward.  Pasted text  Pasted textThey also explore something deeper: why their group of five best friends stayed so close for decades, and whether not having sisters created room for these friendships to become chosen family. From crushes and heartbreak to marriage, babies, careers, and now approaching retirement, these women didn't just hear about the girls they used to be — they were there for each other through every version.  Pasted text  Pasted textA funny, honest conversation about female friendship, chosen family, lifelong best friends, Gen X friendship, and becoming the sisters you never had.🎧 Subscribe to Slightly Unsupervised and share this episode with the friend who became family.💗 Watch real friendship stories on the Bestiemony® YouTube channel.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailHave you ever gotten a weird text from a friend and immediately thought, Is she mad at me? Or had her cancel plans and suddenly convinced yourself she’s pulling away?Welcome to the stories we tell ourselves.In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie talk about what happens when we don’t have all the facts and our brains decide to fill in the blanks. A delayed text becomes rejection. A canceled lunch becomes proof we don’t matter. A different tone of voice becomes evidence that the friendship is falling apart.And before we know it, we’re reacting to a story that may not even be true.Jennifer and Jackie get into overthinking friendships, assumptions, past relationship wounds, conflict avoidance, friendship insecurity, and why our brains are so good at turning missing information into an entire imaginary storyline.They also share one simple question that might save a friendship:“Can I tell you the story I’m telling myself?”Instead of accusing a friend, asking everyone else what they think she meant, or quietly deciding the friendship is over, what if we simply gave her the chance to tell us what’s actually going on?In This Episode:Why our minds fill in the blanks when something feels different [01:14]Have we been overthinking friendships since grade school? [01:59]How past hurt can follow us into new relationships [04:14]When a friendship changes and we automatically assume we did something wrong [05:21]Learning to laugh at some of the stories we create in our heads [06:40]The question that could save a friendship: “Can I tell you the story I’m telling myself?” [07:15]How to bring up a problem without immediately putting your friend on the defensive [08:22]Why you have to be willing to discover that you were wrong [10:08]Why you might NOT want to ask another friend what she thinks happened [10:41]Giving people the benefit of the doubt—and a little grace [12:01]Do you usually ask or assume? [13:06]Why women overthink friendships [13:54]The biggest mistake we make when we’re hurt [14:59]One question that can help save a friendship [15:31]Why assumptions feel like facts—even when they aren’t [16:13]If you’ve ever replayed a conversation, analyzed a text message, wondered why she hasn’t called, convinced yourself someone was mad at you, or created an entire friendship crisis in your head without actually asking the other person what was going on—this episode is for you.Our minds are incredible storytellers. Sometimes those stories protect us. Sometimes they prepare us. And sometimes they quietly steal relationships that never needed to end.So before you decide she doesn’t care—ask.Before you assume she’s angry—ask.Before you convince yourself the friendship is over—ask.Because sometimes a friendship doesn’t need all the answers. It just needs one honest conversation.Follow Slightly Unsupervised wherever you listen to podcasts, leave us a review, and share this episode with the friend who has definitely received an “Are you mad at me?” text from you.And visit Bestiemony® on YouTube to hear real women share the stories of the friendships that changed their lives.Because some of life’s greatest love stories don’t come with a marriage license.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailMaybe Being Slightly Unsupervised Is Just Acting 17 AgainWhy do responsible, grown women suddenly feel 17 again when they’re with their best friends?In this episode, Jennifer and Jackie explore the playful freedom that comes from being with someone who has known you through every season of life. They share stories from girls’ trips, laugh about the trouble they can still find together and reflect on what it means to have a best friend who remembers who you were before everyone needed something from you.They also talk about why trusted friendships allow us to lower our guard, reconnect with ourselves and feel free enough to be silly, adventurous and completely genuine.Maybe being slightly unsupervised isn’t about behaving badly. Maybe it’s what happens when you finally feel safe enough to be completely yourself.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailCaught in the Middle: What to Do When Two Friends Are Fighting What do you do when two friends you love are fighting—and suddenly you're caught in the middle?In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie talk about one of the messiest parts of female friendship: being the sounding board when you care about both women. How do you listen without choosing sides? What do you say when you think your friend is wrong? And where's the line between honesty and loyalty?They share real stories about friendship conflict, staying neutral, keeping confidences, knowing when to stop listening, and why becoming the messenger can make everything worse.Plus, Jennifer and Jackie tackle the big question: What do you owe your best friend when honesty and loyalty collide?Because being a good friend doesn't mean helping her win the fight. Sometimes it means helping her see clearly enough to decide what to do next.A female friendship podcast about best friendship, loyalty, chosen family, and the women who help us navigate life's messiest moments.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailYour Brain Needs Your Best Friend: How Friendship Supports Your HealthWhy do we walk away from time with our best friends feeling lighter, happier, and more like ourselves?In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie explore why close friendship is far more than entertainment or an occasional luxury. They talk about how trusted friends help us release stress, process difficult emotions, gain a new perspective and experience the safety of knowing we truly belong.Between stories about laughing until they cry, telling the same stories for the 275,000th time and becoming irresponsible teenagers again, Jackie has an unexpectedly emotional realization about how fortunate she is to have a group where she never has to perform or question whether she belongs.Jennifer and Jackie also examine why women so often place friendship at the bottom of the list—after work, family, responsibilities and everyone else’s needs—and why that narrative needs to change.Your best friend may not be able to make life’s problems disappear, but she can remind you that you don’t have to carry them alone. Stop waiting until you “have time.” Make the lunch date, take the trip, sit on the porch, and laugh too loudly. Friendship isn’t something frivolous that belongs in the leftover spaces of life. It is part of taking care of yourself.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailCan a broken friendship be repaired—and how do you know when it's worth saving?When something feels wrong with a best friend, our instinct is often to fix whatever is happening on the surface. The unanswered text. The argument. The awkward conversation. The jealousy. The distance.But what if none of those things are the real problem?In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie get honest about friendship conflict, repairing broken friendships, and why you have to identify the root of the problem before you can actually fix it.Drawing from friendships they've lost, friendships they've learned from, and their own experiences navigating conflict, they explore the questions we often avoid asking: Did something happen? Did I hurt her? Has something changed in her life? Am I making assumptions? And does she actually want to repair this friendship too? They also tackle one of the hardest truths about friendship repair: you may have to give up being right if you want a chance at reconciling. Your friend has her own experience, her own feelings, and her own version of what happened—and a real conversation can't begin if you're only waiting for her to admit you were right. Jennifer and Jackie talk about: How to identify the real problem in a struggling friendship  Signs something has shifted between you and a friend  Why jealousy, resentment, or insecurity can show up as completely different conflicts  The danger of creating narratives based on texts and assumptions  Why difficult friendship conversations shouldn't happen over text  How to apologize without the dreaded "I'm sorry, but..." Why being right can get in the way of reconciliation  How to know if both people actually want to repair the friendship  When anxiety, manipulation, broken trust, and one-sided effort may signal it's time to let go  Why even friendships that end can leave us with something valuable Because sometimes a friendship isn't broken beyond repair.Sometimes two women are simply hurt, confused, or carrying heavy lives—and nobody has asked the right question yet.And sometimes, the healthiest ending is accepting that a friendship has completed its chapter.Healthy friendships aren't built on never having conflict. They're built on having the courage to face it together. If this episode makes you think of someone you love, don't spend another six months trying to solve the wrong problem.Call her. Ask her. Listen to her. And find out what's really going on.This episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]

Send us Fan MailWhen Your Friend Hurts Your Feelings… and You Say NothingEver had a friend hurt your feelings and said absolutely nothing—not because it didn’t matter, but because the friendship mattered so much?In this episode of Slightly Unsupervised, Jennifer and Jackie dive into protective silence: the things we don’t say because we’re trying to keep the peace, avoid confrontation, or convince ourselves we’ll eventually get over it. But when does taking a little space turn into the silent treatment—and when does staying quiet actually start damaging the friendship you were trying to protect?Jennifer and Jackie admit they’re both pretty skilled at going silent (Jennifer may be working toward her doctorate), including one story involving two and a half hours in the heat, no food, an Uber, and Jennifer fully prepared to spend a 10½-hour drive never speaking again.But underneath the laughs is a bigger conversation about female friendship, conflict avoidance, people-pleasing, hurt feelings, learned behaviors, and difficult conversations. They talk about knowing when a friend simply needs space, when something really needs to be addressed, and why the stories we create in our heads can sometimes do more damage than the thing that happened in the first place.In This Episode:Protective silence vs. the silent treatment [01:02]Why “I’m fine” usually means absolutely nothing is fine [01:42]Jennifer’s 10½-hour silent-treatment plan [02:00]Why women stay quiet to keep the peace [04:25]Knowing when to give your friend space—and when to talk [05:26]How long is too long for the silent treatment? [06:43]How one simple apology can stop resentment from growing [09:10]Facts vs. the stories we create in our heads [11:01]Why waiting six months to speak up can turn a small hurt into an atomic bomb [12:34]People-pleasing, confrontation, and learning healthier communication [14:34]Knowing your best friend well enough to recognize when she just needs time [16:31]How childhood can teach us to use silence as a coping mechanism [17:52]When a friendship matters enough to have the difficult conversation [18:55]Why sometimes you need time and perspective before talking [20:44]If you’ve ever replayed a friendship problem in your head, wondered if she was mad at you, stayed quiet because you didn’t want to make things worse, or waited for your friend to magically figure out what she did wrong—this episode is for you.Sometimes silence is space. Sometimes it’s fear. Sometimes it’s protection. But sometimes the strongest thing you can do for a friendship is risk one honest conversation.Before you ask three other people what they think she meant, before you convince yourself you already know how she feels—call her. Ask her. Give the friendship a chance.👉 Follow Slightly Unsupervised, subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts, leave us a review, and share this episode with your ride-or-die.And if this episode made you think about the woman who has walked beside you through life, visit the Bestiemony® YouTube channel to hear real stories about friendships that changed women's lives.Because some of life’s greatest love stories don’t come with a marriage license.#SlightlyUnsupervised #Bestiemony #FriendshipPodcast #FemaleFriendship #SilentTreatment #ProtectiveSilence #FriendshipProblems #FriendshipAdvice #HealthyFriendships #FriendshipCommunication #ConflictResolution #PeoplePleasing #DifficultConversations #FriendshipConflict #BestFriends #WomenSupportingWomen #MidlifeWomen #PlatonicSoulmates #FriendshipMattersThis episode of Slightly Unsupervised was brought to you by the creators of Bestiemony®—the original friendship ceremony that proves soulmates don’t always come with a marriage license. Hosted by Jennifer and Jackie: best friends, business partners, and co-founders of the movement celebrating real, ride-or-die love.💍 Book a Bestiemony: rhinestoneweddingchapel.com/bestiemony 📱 Follow us on Instagram at @Bestiemonies 📩 Got a bestie story to share or a subject request? Email us at [email protected]