Arguing (Repost)

Why We Should Rethink Our "Enemies" Why do some people get under our skin so easily? In this Skipping Stones episode, we explore the surprising truth about conflict: both sides usually believe they're right, yet we're all wrong sometimes. The real reason to "love your enemies" isn't for their benefit - it's for yours. Understanding those who hurt us can take away the sting of their actions and free us from carrying bitterness. Listen now to learn how empathy, self-awareness, and perspective can turn conflict into personal growth.

Arguing is a performance, not a way to bring your someone to your side. Arguing, persuading, competition, 2-Year-Olds and more. What is the key to bringing a person to your side and to finally get someone to listen to what you have been saying?? Influences: A lifetime of fighting with people and a 2-year-old Website: skippingstonessr.com Email: [email protected]

What if the wrinkles and scars we often view as imperfections are actually the most beautiful parts of our story?  Join me, Seth Roberts, on Skipping Stones as we reimagine the very essence of aging, not as a process to be resisted, but as a rich tapestry of life's experiences. Through the lens of the Japanese art of Kintsugi, we explore the notion of embracing the beauty found in our life's imperfections. Just like pottery repaired with gold lacquer, these visible signs of aging serve as symbols of resilience and growth, offering lessons that only time can teach. In this heartfelt episode, we journey beyond the surface to celebrate the remarkable roles our aging hands play in our lives. These hands, whether creating music, building structures, or forging connections, are extensions of our souls, carrying the stories and wisdom we've gathered over the years. While society often idolizes youthful beauty, we shine a light on the profound strength and character inherent in the marks of time. Rediscover the beauty of aging with me, and let's embrace the countless stories that shape who we are.

What if the people who seem the toughest are the ones protecting the softest parts of themselves? Some people seem cold, intimidating, or impossible to get close to. But first impressions rarely tell the whole story. This episode explores why the walls people build are often protecting something much softer underneath. Inside this conversation: • Why the image people project isn't always who they really are • How fear and past hurt can shape the personas we adopt • Why trust can't be forced—it grows through time, patience, and authenticity The people who seem the most difficult to understand may not need someone to tear down their walls - they may simply need someone willing to stay long enough to earn their trust. Follow the show, share it with someone who'd enjoy it, and leave a review to help more people find Skipping Stones.

What if finding yourself isn't about discovery—but about choosing who you want to become? In this episode of Skipping Stones, Seth Roberts challenges the popular idea that purpose is something hidden deep inside us, waiting to be uncovered. Instead, he explores how meaning is built through the choices we make and the way we show up each day. Rather than chasing significance, consider these questions: What if a good life is made of ordinary acts done well? What if your greatest contribution is helping the people closest to you? What if contentment is more valuable than feeling important? From The Lord of the Rings to Lilo & Stitch, this conversation reflects on why a life of quiet service, steady character, and simple purpose may be more fulfilling than a life spent searching for something bigger. Follow the show, share it with someone who'd enjoy it, and leave a review to help more people find Skipping Stones.

Drowning in Self-Help? Try This Instead Feeling behind because you're not cold plunging at 5 AM, journaling daily, or starting your dream business by lunch? You're not the only one. The self-improvement world often pushes us to overhaul our lives all at once, but that's a fast track to burnout, not real progress. In this episode of Skipping Stones, we explore how lasting change usually starts with just one small, intentional shift. From personal stories to timeless wisdom, you'll learn why choosing one thing to focus on isn't lazy, it's the smartest path forward. Let go of the pressure to do it all. Tune in to discover how steady steps, not sweeping transformations, lead to real growth.

Have you ever wondered why our 'shoulds' often lead to unnecessary frustration and conflict? Join me, Seth Roberts, as we break down the barriers of rigid expectations and explore the art of meeting people where they are on Skipping Stones. Through stories from both my professional sphere and personal encounters, let's challenge the notion of imposing our beliefs on others and uncover the impracticality behind it. By sharing the nuances of guiding others to their own solutions, we shed light on how empathy and understanding can enrich our interactions and reduce friction caused by differing viewpoints. In this episode, we shift gears from judgment to understanding, urging listeners to look beyond surface-level labels and embrace acceptance. Imagine removing the word "should" from your vocabulary—what would that do for your relationships and personal peace? By reframing our perceptions and acknowledging the complexity behind human actions, we open doors to more genuine connections and effective support. Tune in to discover how accepting others, much like accepting natural laws, can transform your approach to engagement with the world. Let's explore the power of letting go of simplistic judgments and fostering a mindset of curiosity and compassion.

Why do some of the smartest people struggle to succeed? It turns out that intelligence alone isn't enough. In this episode of Skipping Stones, we explore two surprising ways smart people sabotage their own potential: overconfidence that blocks learning and a constant craving for novelty that prevents long-term progress. We'll unpack why slow, steady focus often beats raw brainpower, and how embracing a little boredom might be the smartest move of all. Subscribe now to start turning insight into real momentum.

How often do we delay doing a thing because we think there is a better way to do it? Starting with what you have is the secret to fast-tracking your efforts. Influences: Shovels, Excavators, and Other Expensive Tools Website: skippingstonessr.com Email: [email protected]

Are our efforts to leave a mark on this planet in vain? Is it even possible to leave a lasting legacy? If we want to make a lasting impact on the world, where will our efforts make the biggest impact? Influences: Presidents of the United States, Industrial Tycoons, and Big Fancy Buildings Website: skippingstonessr.com Email: [email protected]