#45 Nothing shows up the way you think it’s going to

What would you like to create as your life? I have spoken about how I got to that point of create or die, to continue down the road I was on or create something different, something greater.  It’s been a journey looking to create a greater life. On that journey I had to look at some things I had been avoiding for a very long time that was destroying me, things like vulnerability, what creating my life my way might be like, true kindness for me and being brutally honest with myself.  It can be really uncomfortable when you are looking at changing something in your life and yet it has been on of the greatest gifts for me.  This is part 6 of a 6-part series about facing a secret that was destroying my life. Stay tuned and listen to episodes 43-48 for the full series. Check out https://onechoicefromchange.com Subscribe to my channel to get notified when the next show is released! 

Do you want to fit or do you want to know what is true for you? You're only going to thrive when you are living in total honesty with yourself and know what is true for you. Gary Douglas shares making the right choices or the true choices to get to more of you. This was the year of fighting for what is true for me. What you keep secret (even from you) controls you. I had spent many years not wanting to look at that, it would be too painful, too confronting. Yet, when I got brutally honest with myself I started to get to the freedom that had eluded me for a very long time.I hope this bonus episode with Gary Douglas is a contribution to you.This is part 4 of a 5-part series about facing a secret that was destroying my life. Stay tuned and listen to episodes 43-48 for the full series.Check out https://onechoicefromchange.comSubscribe to my channel to get notified when the next show is released! 

The wheels came off my life and the wagon crashed. When that happened I wanted to disappear from my life but I knew I had to get to something different to create the future I would like to have. I knew I would have to dig deep. So I asked “if I could create your life as anything, what would I like my life to be like?”What I can say is, no matter what is going on it can change. I have lived this, especially in these last 7 months.I share the steps that I took and the questions I asked but also what I discovered about myself along the way….What would you like to be in this world and what would it take to create it?This is part 4 of a 5-part series about facing a secret that was destroying my life. Stay tuned and listen to episodes 43-48 for the full series.Check out https://onechoicefromchange.comSubscribe to my channel to get notified when the next show is released! 

“Every single choice you made has gotten you to where you are right now.” When I first heard this it blew my mind. It empowered me to realise I had choice to create a life I desired. I didn’t have to be victim to what I thought life handed me.In this episode I share what catapulted me into a world of choice and not live in a world of answers. This was the first step into creating a totally different life, one where I was in the driver seat (whether I liked it or not). This is part 3 of a 5-part series about facing a secret that was destroying my life. Stay tuned and listen to episodes 43-48 for the full series.Check out https://onechoicefromchange.comSubscribe to my channel to get notified when the next show is released! 

Remember when you lived a life from wonder?For a lot of us we stopped choosing that from a very young age.  We think we are just us, not noticing how magnificent and unique we are. When no one else sees what we see, or know what we know we eliminate everything that we are to fit into a world we did not know how to fit into. I have been there, done that, wore the t-shirt… and I hope this episode of where this journey all started contributes to you getting to more of you starting a journey of what is true for you.This is part 2 of a 5-part series about facing a secret that was destroying my life. Stay tuned and listen to episodes 43-48 for the full series.Check out https://onechoicefromchange.comSubscribe to get notified when the next show is released! 

The secrets we keep can destroy us.In this episode, I share the biggest secret I kept if I ignored it long enough it would go away.Earlier this year, I had a relapse of magnitude and I could no longer shy away from the changes that were required in order for me to live. I talk on this show about what has shown up for me these last few months and the ways I began the journey of starting again and exploring and choosing what’s true for me. This is part 1 of a 5-part series about facing a secret that was destroying my life. Stay tuned and listen to episodes 43-48 for the full series.Check out https://onechoicefromchange.comSubscribe to my channel to get notified when the next show is released! 

Do you truly understand consciousness?Many are acknowledging consciousness without knowing it and can become aware by learning the importance of choice.Listen to Brendon share his knowledge on embracing consciousness then ask yourself, “what have I decided that is unchangeable in my life right now that is actually changeable if I’m willing to make a different choice that would allow change instantaneously?” On today’s podcast:Consciousness includes everything and judges nothingConsciousness is not a destinationChoice is good for 10 secondsReceiving doesn’t come with forceGetting out of judgment allows you to see and be more of the difference that you areEverything that is showing up in your life today is based on the choices you’ve made

Who would you be if you stopped living your life based on judgement?Brendon Watt discusses how to stop creating your reality based on your own judgements. Instead of believing you have to be and live a certain way because of how you want people to perceive you, just be you.Listen to his views on removing self-judgement then ask yourself, how many judgements are you using to maintain the definition of you?On today’s podcast:Every time we judge ourselves we create a separation between us and usIf you had no judgement of you, who would you be?We define ourselves based off of judgements so we can show up as somethingYou can not define what “being” is because “being” is everythingWe think that the beauty of reality os predictabilityEvery time we define us, we confine us within that definition

Are you living and creating what’s true for you? Today, Brendon talks to Kent Blazy, a country musician and songwriter who co-wrote Garth Brooks’ first #1 single, If Tomorrow Never Comes. Listen to hear the story of how Kent was inspired to become a songwriter, what his creative process looks like, and how he kept believing that more was possible through it all.On today’s podcast:Growing up in WoodstockRoger McGuinn’s 12-string guitarAutobiography of a YogiNashville and GarthBelieving more is possible and being open to receive ideasSongs that change the worldLinks:KentBlazy.com

Who would you be if you didn’t live life fulfilling the needs of others?Brendon and guest, Simone Milasas, discuss learning how to be needless in a world that has taught us to fulfill everyone’s needs but our own.Listen to their enlightening discussion then ask yourself, “If you didn’t have to need anyone or anything and no one needed you, what would you choose, what would you change and who would you be?” On today’s podcast:We get ourselves stuck by thinking we need somethingThe needs of others and the needs of yours are who you’ve decided you’ll beWe’ve been taught to fulfill other’s needsYou have to be willing to be different to changeYou have to get vulnerable with yourselfChoose to be needlessLinks:In the Face of Judgment, Turn It Up - Being You Book Club with Dr. Dain Heer